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writes:So I need some help understand this woman at my bank.A couple of months ago, I went to my bank to apply to refinance my car loan. I met a woman, the lending assistant. Her name was "Susan". She has always been very friendly with me but I always assumed it was because she had to be. Because of her job.We would email back and forth about loan documents and so forth at first, then casually started throwing a few jokes in here and there, and today we had scheduled a meeting to discuss documents at 2 o'clock.Turns out she was going to be run a couple of minutes late, so she sent me an email. But in the email she sent me her personal cell phone number and said, "I'm going to be running a little late but here's my cell. Text me if that's ok and you can still make it. :)"I might be reading a little too much into this but how do I know if she is interested in me?She is always nice, friendly, smiling at me and such. One other thing is she knows I am married. I'm not saying I am contemplating cheating on my wife; just curious if she's interested. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): I'm not an idiot guys. She does smile and is friendly but it's those kind of smiles and looks that a guy can just tell ya know?She also showed me pics of her daughter and seems really interested when I told her I was a federal agent. And she seems more professional when my wife is around and extremely laid back and relaxed when it's just me.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (12 June 2010):
 I'm thinking he's one of the few people in America who is still able to qualify for a loan, so that's why she wants him so badly. If she shoves those papers off her desk, best believe they'll be signed first!
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (11 June 2010):
I think you're reading too much into it. She gave you her cellphone because she was running late; how else were you supposed to contact her to let her know you were still able to meet?
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reader, tmisty777 +, writes (11 June 2010):
 If you are starting to get interested in her, change bank personel or banks in general- you have a wife and I'm sorry but you shouldn't be worrying if someone else is interested in you! So what if she is, you're off limits! If you keep going on like this something is bound to happen if there is some sort of connection, and that's not a good thing at all- just a lot of hurt! And if something does happen an you decide to be wih the bank person instead, se would never trust you cuz she knows you look around and/or cheat. That, or if you plan to work it out with your wife when she finds out, she will never trust you, none of your relationships will EVER be the same! Stay true to your partner- you wouldn't want her getting interested in another man! If you think you're done with her, tell her before you break her heart even worse! Don't look! How sad...
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