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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,Recently I have become very close to one of my male friends, spending all breaks, lunchtimes and whatever time we have together. This has been going on for about 6 weeks.I laugh with him (and occiainsoly at him), play with him and look after him when he's down. He also does all these things for me.In the morning, as he arrives for school (I'm always there earlier) I greet him with a hug, and sometimes, not very often, a peck on the cheek.I miss him when I'm not with him and we text reguarly.This is all wonderful but what happens next? We had exams this week and whenever I looked over my shoulder he was looking at me. I think he likes me. All my friends refer to us as girlfriend and boyfriend - but we aren't?! He has made no moves in this realtionship and I don't know what he'll so next.I've never had a real boyfriend before, so I don't have very much experience. What happens next? Do I make a move? Does he ask me out?I fantasies every night that the next day will be the day he takes me in his arms and tells me he loves me, but it always ends with me giving him a quick hug as the bell goes.Any advice on what I should do would be greatly appreciated :)
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reader, heizy  +, writes (12 June 2010):
 Don't be carried away by your emotion. If the guy likes you, he will make an extra effort because he is crazy for you. But, if he doesn't, just let it be. Just don't show too much. Try to observe, stay way from him a little. Let us see if you matter to him.
Good luck girl!
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reader, tmisty777  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Is it just during school that you hang out with him? To make it a little more than showing him hat you're just friends, ask him if he wants to hang out after school for a little, or if he would like to go out to dinner, bring him out of the school environment to give him a closer feeling towards you! Maybe?
Writing personal letters give you the chance to say things that you can't say outloud to him- and he can write you back.
When you overhear someone calling you boyfriend and girlfriend, turn to him and say you heard them say that, then say do you think that we are? With a smile on your face like yure really happy, and see what he answeres
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reader, YouWish +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Ahh, both of you are young and unsure of what to do!
The really good thing is, you don't have to wait for him! If you like him and want to be boyfriend and girlfriend, get him alone and tell him! It's a good bet that he's into you too but is a bit shy and is worried that you'll reject him.
Go get him!
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