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*lnsmommy3
writes:Hello Everyone :) I'm going to get straight to it. I am 28 years old and have 3 children, and one on the way. Their father just came "back" in the picture after about 4 years of us being on and off. The first day he came back he told me how happy he was to be back. etc, and how we should have just one more baby together. We started trying right away. A week later he found out that he had to turn himself in to the county jail for a probation violation. Thats when i found out that I'm pregnant. I told him and he was very excited; or at least he sounded like he was. A few days ago he completely changed! He said that he can't accept another baby right now.THat he just wants to work on "us" and the kids. WTF! I told him I refuse to have an abortion! I have no support from my family and have no friends, any advice is welcomed. Thank you.
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reader, tmisty777 +, writes (11 June 2010):
 An abortion isnot an answer, h my be reaked out right now but if he wanted another baby he still has that in the back of his mind. If he's going to freak out about having baby he needs to leave the family because the baby is a part of the family and he basically said that he didn' want to focus on it. You wouldn't want to raise a child with a father who didnt want it, so tell him to leave. After that, NO MORE BABIES tillhe's truely committed and you know for sure he and you are ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): Um I think he is right. You are still very young. Shouldn't you two be focusing on your three children at the moment? it sounds like your husband a bit unpredictable as well.
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