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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up. He got with another girl and he lost his virginity with her. But then we got back together four months ago and I just found out he had sex with her. It hurt me really bad and I dont know how to feel about it. So do I break up with him or not? I dont know what to do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou're welcome and thanks again to everyone =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am but everything happens for a reason. and i think it was the best thing for the both of us.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 June 2010):
 Awww sweetie, sorry to hear that,you must be sad .
But perhaps it was for the best, he had already disappointed you and you were finding difficult to accept what had happened.
Try to move on...and hopefullly your next relationship will give you more happiness.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy boyfriend actually just broke up with me first, just in case any of you were wondering what happened between us. but thank you for helping me anyways
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to you all. You all have truth in your words. I hope I make the best decision.
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reader, tmisty777 +, writes (12 June 2010):
 As said, you guys were broken up at the time and he was free to do what he had wanted. It is sad to know that the one you're with had given up his body for someone else, and just make sure that you are with the right person before you give up your body bcaus it i a very special gift to give to someone, and you can only give it once. You may feel hurt now, but peple can go through many relationships before finding the right one. If you love him, stay with him, it's in his past and he can't change it. Thre might be a good future with you and him and it would be a shame to see you throw it away because he had made a mistake. If something like that happens again it might be time to move on, but forgiveness is key to a relationship!
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (12 June 2010):
You were broken up. He was single at the time, and free to use his body and his time doing whatever he liked.
I am not saying that you cannot feel jealous ,or disappointed, or sad about what he did. Just that you cannot bitch about it.
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reader, lowercaseq +, writes (12 June 2010):
 There isnt anything you can do about it . you broke up and he lost his virginity . you cannot take that back . you cant go back in time and change it . all you can do is learn from your past mistakes . and hope for the best. you still have to love him for his mistakes as well.
hope all goes well
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