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writes:Ive been in a realationship with a her for 5 1/2 years. Lived with her for almost 2 1/2 years have two children one 18 months and one 8 month old. My girlfriend started seen another man well men in the last month. and still is living with me and the kids she sets up all nite talking to these guys on the couch til 3 or 4 am in the morning everyday and i dont know what to do i try to ask her to talk she wont she just tells me she dont love me anymore is there anything i can try to bring us back together foe are family? And shes almost 21 years old im not sure if that will help you. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 December 2010):
Ditch her and try to get full custody. Some CCTV and audio might help your cause. This is so unsafe for your children. One of those could do something to them.
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reader, JacksMama +, writes (12 December 2010):
I agree its wrong to cheat but its plain ignorant to have them in your house where there are children. She has said she doesn't love you and I know thats an awful feeling but I don't think there really is any way of saving it at this point. And why would you want to be with someone who is unfaithful? Perhaps you should think of having her move out. She is old enough to take care of herself. and I must say never stay in a relationship because of the children! if there are problems between the parents the children can pick up on that an thats really not a good home life. Id get rid of her!
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reader, Tizzie0612 +, writes (12 December 2010):
 maan listen. as much as it hurts you to let her go..its about that time. she is really disrepcting you by having these guys come over all hours of the night WITH KIDS IN THE HOUSE. plus she said she dont love you so yea its time to split up.if anything time for her to move out.At this point im sorry to say but there is nothing you can do to even bring the family back together because its obvious she shows know interest in that at all especially if she doesnt love you.
:( sorry to hear you in such a situation though. Could only hope things get better for you..but yes, its time to let her go
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): Erm, why are you letting your girlfriend not only cheat on you but bring them to your home where your children live?!
Seriously, i don't think your relationship is there anymore, at all. She's told you she doesn't love you and has men coming over at all hours of the night. Why the hell are you putting up with that?
It's time to dump her and sort out the arrangements regarding your children.
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