My girlfriend was so young when someone took advantage of her - and now she's still defending him. What do you think?
Q. A male United States age 18-21, flyboy275 writes: Hey guys, Well i have a wonderful girlfriend that is most definately the best thing that has ever happened to me! This much i promise.....but i have a problem...... I have come on ...
A. 25 July 2008: DON'T PUSH HER!!! that's the main thing i can tell you... she will deal with it when she is ready... i was in her spot just over a year ago... and i couldn't remember any of it... and i stayed friends with the guy... i don't know why... but he was ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend saying she can't cope with being second to my daughter? Are we done?
Q. My girlfriend that I have been dating for a couple months said some strange things last night. In short, my daughter is visiting and we stayed at my girlfriends place for 5 days. We live in different cities, but close enough to commute for long ...
A. 21 July 2008: i think she just needs to know that you still have room in your heart for her... its hard to know what she meant by the statement... but she needs to understand that a persons child comes first... that's the way it should be... but that doesn't mean ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, my boyfriend only wants, to have blow jobs, how do I tell him, that I want more sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two months now and a couple of weeks ago we had sex for the first time. It was my first time ever but not his. But now it seems like all he wants to do is get blowjobs! how do i tell him without being ...
A. 21 July 2008: you just have to tell him... maybe he doesn't think you enjoyed the sex or something... and he's afraid to initiate it... i'm sure he'd be happy to have sex again... you just have to let him know... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my sister and want to have a sexual relationship, how do I seduce my sister?
Q. Me and my sister are really close and only a year apart. but i am atracted to her more than most girls. does anyone have any idea as to how i can seduce my sister to have a sexual relationship?...
A. 21 July 2008: I agree with most responses... this should be left as a fantasy... ... (read in full...)
Do women like watching porn? Can they get addicted?
Q. Do women be addicted to porn and how do they fill when watching all the dirty action?please I prefer answers from female readers only....
A. 17 July 2008: ... i watch it sometimes... and enjoy it... and if men can get addicted to it, i guess women could too... ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sometimes calls me fat, which makes me cry, and brings out my insecurities, I am driving him away, what can I do to build my self-esteem?
Q. I am currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. I would do anything for him and I think he would do anything for me, problem is I think I could be pushing him away. We have been in a relationship for a year and a half and I can honestly say...
A. 17 July 2008: This guy sounds like a real jerk! I think your best bet would be to get rid of him... but if you want to have better communication... have you tried writing it down? I have a hard time talking to my fiance when something is wrong, too... so i ... (read in full...)
I don't want to make her feel sexually insecure but how can I get her to please me?
Q. I'm sort of confused and don't really know a good way to open up this subject or encourage interest. It seems as though my girlfriend is not as interested or excited about pleasing me. She usually comes first and if she doesn't then I am more tha...
A. 17 July 2008: ... well... personally, i see her side... i hate giving my man head... i hate it, and i think its disgusting... just be happy she is willing to do it, even if its mechanical... it means that she cares about you... if she knows you enjoy it, and ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to find a boyfriend not into religion?
Q. Hey, I was wondering about this. I want a boyfriend, and one issue i was afraid would come up is that I'm not a religious person. (not that there's anything wrong with it) I know that LOTS of people are religious, and it would probably be really ...
A. 17 July 2008: i'm not sure where you are from, or the kind of people around you... but i am the same way you are... i don't believe in any organized religion... but i am with a religious man... as long as you find one who is willing to love you for who you ... (read in full...)
What age do you start having sex?
Q. what age do you start having sex...
A. 17 July 2008: i guess it really depends on the situation... however, people have to know that in their early teen years, they tend to get hormonal, and they can confuse some feelings for love, making them do things they will regret later... no body can tell you ... (read in full...)
I can't handle my hormones! How do I stay a virgin?
Q. im a 13 yr old girl have have size D boobs, i love them and get lots of attention for the boys beacuse of it, i,e they squeeze them and stuff. i really love it when they do andi get really really horeny aout it all the time, i feel like if i dont ...
A. 17 July 2008: i have to agree... dont show off your chest... and it seems most people are overlooking what you are saying about your hormones... and i know, i was the same way... and some people might think i'm wrong in telling a 13 year old this... but when it ... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to please girls sexually. I'm bisexual.
Q. ok, well, here goes, i am 14, and i AM for a fact bisexual, ive accepted that fact, you might think,. "oh shes too young", but i am more experienced and have seen more than you think. my problem is, i have been fingered by a past gf, and had sex and ...
A. 17 July 2008: wow.... honey, first of all, slow down... you are only 14!!! i can't even believe what i'm reading... i don't mean the bi thing... i mean the fact that you are already having sex... and have, it seems, with multiple partners... but to answer your ... (read in full...)
Would he love me more if I was in a porn film?
Q. If your boyfriend watches Internet porn should you film an internet porn film of yourself? My boyfriend watches porn, even though he thinks I don't know it. He goes on the internet, and he consistently lies about going on the porn sites, even thou...
A. 13 July 2008: i don't want to be closed minded... eww... a golden shower... is that stuff your into? and if that seems like something you'd be interested it, maybe video take yourselves... just a thought.... but i don't think that should make him love you ... (read in full...)
He asked me if I'd have sex without a condom and I would, but what are the risks of pregnancy?
Q. i am ready to have sex with this boy but he has asked if a would do it without a condom, i don't think i would but whats the chances of getting pregnant first time without a condom? and am a virgin just now btw...
A. 13 July 2008: use protection... i'm sure if you're asking, that you shouldn't even be willing to take any risk... ... (read in full...)
My gf found porn on my computer. Is she over reacting?
Q. Hi there, I could do with some advice on my girlfriend’s reaction to finding porn on my computer! I know it's understandable my girlfriend of 4 mths should not be happy with this, but she was completely devastated when she found out as if I had ...
A. 13 July 2008: she is over reacting... people watch porn, that's just the way it is... if its not an addiction, or controlling your life (i do know people who ended up not paying enough attention to their significant other because of porn), then its not a ... (read in full...)
Views on condoms - sex more pleasurable without?
Q. I now feel ready for full sex-my boyfriend is too. We've talked about contraception and condoms.Some of my friends saythere's no difference in the pleasurable sensations for a woman whether a man wears one or not.Others say the feeling is much bet...
A. 13 July 2008: well... you're at the age range 16-17... and i don't know how serious your relationship is... but i would DEFINATELY use a condom in your shoes... i have had 3 sexual partners, and a condom was used with each of them... only recently did i stop ... (read in full...)
Where do you get the pill?
Q. Hello, I wanted to ask you about the pill. I'm 15 years old and started my periods when I was 12. They're very irregular, I can go for months without getting one and then I get a really heavy one unexpectantly. I've heard that the pill can regulate...
A. 13 July 2008: You can get on it through a doctor... or, when i was on it, i got it through planned parenthood for free (though i always made a donation)... i was on it for the same reason... i couldn't afford it through a doctor... so planned parenthood really ... (read in full...)
I've lost weight and dress sexier for him, yet he keeps watching porn. Was I right in scratching his collection so he can't see it??
Q. My boyfriend and I had a disagreement a few months ago. It was about porn. I've tried to keep an open mind about it, but it torments the life out of me. I've tried to say "that's how men are, i shouldnt be so selfish" but it doesn't help. He ...
A. 13 July 2008: i don't think it was good to destroy his property... watching porn is his decision... you have no right to change his mind for him... and there seems to be a trend... the more you say you don't want him watching it, the naughtier and more exiting it ... (read in full...)
What are the odds of my girlfriend being pregnant?
Q. So here is my dilema. My girlfriend and I had sex last night and I came inside her. One hour after, she started her period. What's the odds of her getting pregnant? We have sex on a very consistant basis atleast once a day no more than 5 times a ...
A. 13 July 2008: Getting pregnant isn't as easy as people make it seem (take it from someone who has been trying)... and with the surrounding circumstances, its very very slim chance... but that doesn't mean there's no chance... ... (read in full...)
I didn't reach to climaxing in my relationships, does my problem have anything to do with the way I masturbate?
Q. When i masturbate, i do it face down, rubbing my clitoris in a pillow, floor or bed and my orgasms are amazing. I've tried to masturbate the regular way, just by sitting or laying down on a bed face up, and rub my clitoris with my fingers or ...
A. 12 July 2008: I had a similar fear in the past... i've been with three guys... i never had an orgasm with the first two... and i kind of came to think that it would never happen... but then i met someone... who was... well... amazing... i don't know if it has to ... (read in full...)
Can there be love BEFORE sex?
Q. Whilst sex is an important part of life can a man fall in love with you before he has had sex or vice versa. I think ive fallen in "love" with a man but we havent had sex-is it possible I havent known him long but I do have these feelings B...
A. 12 July 2008: Of course people can fall in love without sex... my fiance and i fell in love before we even met. Before i laid eyes on him in person, i knew he was the one i wanted to spend my life with, and he told me the same. Before we met, we were trying to ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and think I am in love with my ex-French teacher, please, I need some good advice, thanks?
Q. I definatly love my french teacher and I do want to get into some kind of relationship with her...but I also know that it can put her job at risk... Should I tell her how I feel and take it from there, not tell her and carry on just being kind of ...
A. 12 July 2008: You'll get over her in time... Many people develop feelings for a teacher at some point, but being in a relationship with a teacher is WRONG! If you tried something, you would just be putting yourself in the situation where you WILL end up ... (read in full...)
We are in love, but live a long, long way from each other, what do I do,she is supposed to come to see me, I am torn, please help?
Q. I recently emigrated from the UK to the other side of the world. Back in the UK I had become very close to a girl, who became my best mate. We clearly had a "thing" going on and people would often mistake us for boyfriend and girlfriend. We ...
A. 12 July 2008: saying goodbye is never easy... but knowing that she loves you, and is waiting for you, as well as the fact that she wants to make the effort to come see you should be very comforting. If you love this person so much, hold on to her... don't give ... (read in full...)
When is a good time to give a hand job?
Q. when is a good time to give a hand job when you two are lying down? or when your both sitting up and any tips?...
A. 12 July 2008: wow... i have to agree... someone between 10 and 12 years old shouldn't even know what a handjob is!... (read in full...)
This will be our one year anniversary of dating, and he has new job, and must be at work, do I try to get him to take off from work or plan something for another day?
Q. i need help so badly 2mro is mine and my bfs one year anniversary and he mite have 2 work yikes! bad bad bad i need help he cant take ne time off bc he just strtd this job so wht do i do he strts work at 12 in the afternoon n he usually stays at his ...
A. 10 July 2008: he has a job... its his responsibility... you might have to just wait and celebrate it on a day off... it will be just as special then... i know it sucks... but that's part of being in a relationship... things can't always be exactly how we want ... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and a virgin... But I want to lose my virginity to another virgin.
Q. I'm a 25 yr old male and I'm a virgin. I'm horribly shy towards women but on top of it all I want another virgin. It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack to find a virgin that I even like. I only have a certin taste and if it's anything less ...
A. 10 July 2008: the perfect mate doesn't exist... i'm sorry... they don't... you dream and dream of what you want to find, and no one can ever live up to it... but eventually, you'll find that person that is perfect FOR YOU... and they may be nothing like what you ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if an older guy likes you online?
Q. how to know if an older guy likes you even though we haven't met before, we're only have a conversation on the net?...
A. 10 July 2008: agreed, be careful... but i don't know if you really do know over the internet... don't get me wrong, i'm not going to preech to you (i met my fiance online)... but i really don't think you know until you meet them and get a feel for them... you ... (read in full...)
How can I make a move on my girlfriend at this party?
Q. hi i am 14 and i need help with planing fist kiss for gf. we been going out 4 a year. she is 13. i am having a party in there days do i make mov e there. plz help...
A. 10 July 2008: i agree with the first response... the best kisses are the ones that are unexpected... in my opinion at least... if you focus on it too much, it will be awkward... when its supposed to happen, you'll feel it.. ... (read in full...)
My fiance was telling his ex how much he missed her just 2/3 weeks before we met. I can't shake the feeling he would go back to her.
Q. I was going through my fiance's profile on another site, and saw that about 2 or 3 weeks before my fiance and i met, he was telling his ex how much he loved and missed her. And days before we started dating (after we had already told eachother that ...
A. 10 July 2008: to concerned88, thank you for your response... but i can honestly say that i don't do the whole rebound thing... but i never go into a serious relationship when i have lingering feelings for an ex... i had one ex that i had a dream about, and he ... (read in full...)
My Girl Wants Oral Sex
Q. im dating this new girl.. she asked me if i liked going down on girls.. and that she likes it when guys go down on her.. im not really expierenced with eating a girl out.. she also says she doesnt really like fingering, and if you do that you mine ...
A. 7 July 2008: if you tell her that you are inexperienced, i'm sure she will be more than happy to tell you what she likes... many women are...... (read in full...)
My wife had an abortion before we met, now I don't want her.
Q. How to address this situation. I have been married for 23 years and very happily. We have 2 boys and they are now adults. I received an email from a site that revealed someone looking of my wife of 23 years. It turns out that the person is an ex ...
A. 7 July 2008: She was young and confused, i'm sure... she thought she was doing what was best. I think it would be horrible to leave her over something that happened before you two even met. If you feel like you can't deal with it, try counseling. It's hard to ... (read in full...)
What's making his penis go red?
Q. Hi there, The love of my life and i have alot of sex. For about three weeks now, we have had sex about twice or three times a day, everyday. Now im guessing thats not very healthy, because now when we do have sex, his penis starts to hurt. And we l...
A. 7 July 2008: this happened with my fiance and i when we first moved in together. Give it a break for a couple days... i know its hard, but it seems like he needs it... and then you might want to use lube... ... (read in full...)
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