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This will be our one year anniversary of dating, and he has new job, and must be at work, do I try to get him to take off from work or plan something for another day?

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Question - (10 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *attie90 writes:

i need help so badly 2mro is mine and my bfs one year anniversary and he mite have 2 work yikes! bad bad bad i need help he cant take ne time off bc he just strtd this job so wht do i do he strts work at 12 in the afternoon n he usually stays at his friends house cuz its closer 2 work 4 him and if he stays at his friends house i wont c him till he gets out of work and he doesnt get home until 10 or sumthng like tht idk wht 2 do its so special 2 me but he doesnt want 2 get fired wht should i do i have sumthng plannd 4 us but if he has 2 work its guna suck is thr sumthng tht i can do 2 get him 2 try n get off work or just spend a few hours w/me 4 2mro help me plz

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008):

Why do you have to celebrate on your exact anniversary day? What is wrong with waiting? I think it's a bit irresponsible that you would want him to risk being fired to hang out with you when you could do it on a different day. It will be just a special on another day if you are willing to make it that way.

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (10 July 2008):

Dont have him take work off move your plans to another day. However wear something sexy when he gets home and suprise him with some love making it will be something to remember for that day and who cares if you dont get to do your other plans until another day!

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A female reader, LIERIN United States +, writes (10 July 2008):

LIERIN agony auntJob is more important than anniversary. Do it on weekend or so...or do it the same day even if its earlier in the day (breackfast) or late at night (just hang out by the beach or wherever you are !!!)

Good luck

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A female reader, Tigger3165 United States +, writes (10 July 2008):

Tigger3165 agony aunthe has a job... its his responsibility... you might have to just wait and celebrate it on a day off... it will be just as special then... i know it sucks... but that's part of being in a relationship... things can't always be exactly how we want them to be

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