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anonymous
writes:Hi there, The love of my life and i have alot of sex. For about three weeks now, we have had sex about twice or three times a day, everyday. Now im guessing thats not very healthy, because now when we do have sex, his penis starts to hurt. And we looked at it the other day and it was red and sore looking. Im not sure what to do about it. We have decided about taking a break for awhile to see if that would help. But my question is, is that bound to happen when you have too much sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Two or three times a day at your ages is quite normal and healthy. Just so long as your guy doesn't actually feel sore, then keep going for it.
It is quite natural for his knob to look red-raw if he's not used to sex on quite that regular a basis but so long as you are naturally 'wet' throughout the act - it won't get any worse and will definitely start to look better once you both get acclimatised to the frequency of your lovemaking.
Don't forget nature's message: if the guy knows he's gonna get discomfort in any way from the act you are about to perform, he won't be able to rise to the occasion!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): If its getting to the point where either of you are becoming sore or causing an injury then yes you need to lay off the sex for a week or so. Three times a day is excessive, you need to calm down or it'll just keep happening.
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reader, Tigger3165 +, writes (7 July 2008):
 this happened with my fiance and i when we first moved in together. Give it a break for a couple days... i know its hard, but it seems like he needs it... and then you might want to use lube...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): That depends on how wet you get and how wet you remain. Try some extra lube to reduce the friction. If that's not the problem, then it might be an idea to have him checked out at the clinic.
I once had sex for the first time with one particular woman and as soon as I got in there it felt like someone had poured acid on my pride and glory. I put it down to her having an 'acid box' but I never did get to the bottom of it. It's never happened since then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): i have experienced this too, if you can control yourself or her....take a day or two off
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