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writes:im a 13 yr old girl have have size D boobs, i love them and get lots of attention for the boys beacuse of it, i,e they squeeze them and stuff. i really love it when they do andi get really really horeny aout it all the time, i feel like if i dont have sex im going to explode! if my parents found out about all that they would be so angury, they think im so good and sesable but im not really i flirt like mad and just love all they attenitn but i cant handle they horenyness, im worried im going to do something i regretsomeone help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Joanne-ox +, writes (18 July 2008):
When i was young, i had the exact opposite problem. i had very small breasts and was very self concious and scared to loose my virginity, and im glad i was that way because i still lost my virginity to someone that didnt respect me enough to understand i was scared and someone i didnt really care about. your virginity is somthing you should hold on to untill you find the right person.
i understand that in this day and age people are having sex alot younger than before and that your probably growing up fast. but actually.. sex isnt as simple and amazing as its made out to be, and there are alot of things that could go rong or you end up bieng embarrased about because your not comfortable doing, and boys arent as understanding when they want only one thing. if you loose your virginity to someone that you dont care about and likewise with him, you may really regret it. especially if he tells his pals how you "performed"
best of luck x
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 It might be a good idea to divert some of that attention into spelling, grammar and learning the Queen's English. At least, then, by the time you are with child, you will have a job that doesn't pay in dollar bills or involve a pole. Frankly, I have a daughter of my own. My advice to her would be...
DON'T MAKE ME COME OVER THERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Tigger3165  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 i have to agree... dont show off your chest... and it seems most people are overlooking what you are saying about your hormones... and i know, i was the same way... and some people might think i'm wrong in telling a 13 year old this... but when it comes down to it, and you feel like you'll explode... try masturbation... its a whole lot safer than sex... and you don't have to worry about getting pregnant... but its up to you, no one can tell you how to handle it... i handled it by joining clubs and taking up an instrument... anything to keep my mind occupied by other things...
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reader, scrazy +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Okay this is just my perspective:
You LIKE the attention.
If you didn't want them groping your breasts, they would know it. Giggling and saying "Guys stop it!" is not the way to get them to stop, it's only going to spur them on more.
This is not a joking matter and again, if you didn't like them doing it? They wouldn't, my friend has to get her bras custom made because her boobs are so big and NO ONE tries to get their hands on them with out her permission.
Stop giving off signs that you're liking the attention and they'll stop. Tell a teacher or another adult if they continue.
Try wearing shirts that DON't accentuate your boobs and let these boys who keep touching you know, the next they do it, they can be charged with Sexual Harassment.
I can understand you're young, your hormones are all over the place and you like the newfound attention from the opposite sex but if you keep carrying on the way you are now - you're not going to be a virgin for much longer.
Sorry if I sound harsh, but take these people's advice to stay off of sexual thoughts and avoid these guys so they can't touch you.
Take Care.
XO
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): "they run up behind me and do it so quicky that its to late, omg! wot can i do arrrrrrrrrr, boys haha"
Um, that's nothing to joke about. When that happens, you are being sexually assaulted. Sexual assault is against the law. You CAN do something about that: report them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone so far for your help, i know in myself that i would never have sex untill AT LEAST the legal age, but i jst cant control my hormones.... but ill try and somehow get my mind off things.
but i wont ever be able to stop the boys touching my breasts because they run up behind me and do it so quicky that its to late, omg! wot can i do arrrrrrrrrr, boys haha
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (16 July 2008):
 If you don't want to slip, stay out of slippery places. Letting guys touch you and then expecting not to get turned on to the point that you really want to go further is placing more strain on your system than it was designed to take. Our bodies are wired to respond to sexual attention and intimate touch by demanding more.
For most of human history, it was really important that women your age or a bit older get married and start having babies, because most of their babies would die before their first birthday and women often died in their thirties or forties. If the family was to continue, they needed as long a time having babies as they could. Now we no longer need that; in fact, it's not a good thing at all. But the biological responses that helped get the human race through thousands of years of history is still active in us. It's VERY powerful. Don't mess with it. If you're determined to stay a virgin (your choice, of course, but probably a very good idea) your best bet is to keep these instincts in check by NOT tempting them.
If it's your mind vs. biology, biology has a BIG advantage. So don't let the feelings get started and get a hold on you when you might get carried away. You'll end up losing.
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reader, charliehunt +, writes (16 July 2008):
you are 13 forget about these boys.try wearing tops that dont flatter your boobs and askk them to stop...you are 13 girl live ure life b4 u rush into this!
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