How can I stop overthinking things?
Q. Hi, i'm 23 and ever since i can remember i've always been a person who over thinks things. e.g. I always used to be paranoid about what other people thought about me, what i looked like, how i talked etc... Now that i'm older that has kind of faded ...
A. 12 October 2010: I know how you feel I'm the same way. It's wrecked a lot of my relationships sadly, I'd like to see an answer too this as well. ... (read in full...)
How do I wait it out without over reacting and chasing him away?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been on a break a week and a half now. He hasn't called or texted much and neither have I. He asked for this break because he feels guilty considering he is still married, but they've been separated over a year and she ...
A. 9 October 2010: Well thanks for the advice. For all the questions I know he isn't seeing anyone else...umm he's not really a catch, even though I do love him I do doubt hes with someone else one he works all day two hes broke. But I know they've been separated at ... (read in full...)
I want a baby with my boyfriend, but he doesn't. What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. At the beginning of the relationship I was pregnant with another mans baby, I decided to have a termination due to the circumstances in which it was conceived. Now I'm desperate to be pregnant ...
A. 3 October 2010: Answer is simple, the baby will be his for the rest of his life. That is a lot of responsibility especially after only 6 months of being together. I'd say wait longer or until you both are ready for marriage. If you guys don't work out he'll have to ... (read in full...)
He said we are on a break, what does that mean?
Q. Well my boyfriend came to talk to me last night and asked for a break. I wouldn't call it asked though cause I did not really have a choice, and I know why we are having this break. There are a lot of things in his life he needs to get together ...
A. 29 September 2010: Thanks for all the advice, I decided to delete his number and consider it a break up. And if he wants to contact me he'll have to call me first. And when he wants me back he will have to work for it.... (read in full...)
He said we are on a break, what does that mean?
Q. Well my boyfriend came to talk to me last night and asked for a break. I wouldn't call it asked though cause I did not really have a choice, and I know why we are having this break. There are a lot of things in his life he needs to get together ...
A. 28 September 2010: He does not live with his wife. His wife cheated on him 6 times when they were together and has a boyfriend now. She has the daughter. They haven't lived together in over a year. She left him he did not leave her...... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend's behaviour appropriate?
Q. my boyfriend is in real estate. He went to a closing with his female agent. even though she lives closer to the closing site, she drove back to the office to meet y boyfriend so they can go together. I had no problem with that but after the ...
A. 28 September 2010: You don't trust him. Confront him. But your relationship won't go further unless you both trust each other.... (read in full...)
I don't think I should stay with my girlfriend
Q. We've been dating a year and a half or thereabouts, and recently she's moved to a different city, and I'm supposed to move with her but I don't know if I should. She's recently made her facebook completely private, so I can't see photos or commen...
A. 24 September 2010: Dump her, you deserve so much better. Do not stand for those stupid mind games. She wants you around when she's lonely and when she's not she is off with other men doing her thing. End it because she does not deserve you. I'd break all contact.... (read in full...)
Gold earrings in his flat and not seeing me, strange texts...cheating?
Q. hi there, wondering if i can get some advice before i confront my partner. weve been in a relationship for 3 years but we live separatly Last feb we split for a while,getting back together at the end of march. the problem is this - lat...
A. 24 September 2010: I would confront him. I'd hate to make you upset but it's pretty obvious he's cheating. Asking him will only provide more evidence and probably hurt worse. If you truly love him discuss it with him, but he probably won't stop. Best bet is to dump ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gone away for a few weeks and I'm worried I'm going to stop loving him!
Q. Hey My boyfreind went away a few days ago and hes coming back in 2 weeks i was missing him the 1st few days, i was thinking about him everyday and i was dreaming about him every night... but theres something about me if the person i love goes awa...
A. 24 September 2010: If you truly love him when he does return your love will come back. It's not gone just during the time he is gone you cannot express it. I've never personally went through something like this but I will have to soon. My boyfriend is a marine and ... (read in full...)
His friend told me my boyfriend 'was not an angel' the entire 3 years we've been together!
Q. bf cheated on me and i found out after 1 month break i thought everythng would work out and here i find out that he has been seeng someone else the entire month and according to his friend was 'not an angel' the entire time we were together for 3 ...
A. 23 September 2010: Dump him. A break won't solve the problem because he is not worth your time if he was willing to be unfaithful. Move on you'll easily find someone better. It'll be hard at first, but think about your future. If you married this man and had kids and ... (read in full...)
He is playing mind games, but I still like him!
Q. this guy ive been 'seeing' is messing with my head he has never said we are boyfriend n girlfriend every time he wants to link up its cos he wants to have sex or something and a couple months ago i was just ignoring him and started to hate him ...
A. 23 September 2010: I've been here, he didn't say those same words but he did tell me he will always care for me and be there for me. But I'd tell people about him and he'd get mad and claim I told people we were together. But I didn't. Anyway, I got tired of his shit ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and this other girl!!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been having problems lately because he's going to be moving back to his hometown which is like 5 states away. and I don't know what to do. but to top it all off, I saw his messages and he was messaging this one girl who...
A. 23 September 2010: Confront him about her. Admit you were jealous, sometimes guys like the honesty. If he cares for you he will tell you the truth. And if he moves there and sleeps with her than move on. He wouldn't be worth it, plus long distance stinks big time, ... (read in full...)
Will the same thing happen in this relationship as what happend in my last one?
Q. I've started dating a guy from work, and so far, it's going great :) He's handsome, thoughtful, funny, kind, sexy and we just get along really well. He's told me he feels giddy around me, like a kid, and I feel the same about him. He's arranged ...
A. 23 September 2010: I'm the same way. I let my past relationships make me paranoid. I always think my boyfriend is ignoring me because that is what my ex did...he'd ignore me for days at a time. but anyway, I would not bring it up until you are exclusive. Then after ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her after I leave I just want to be friends?
Q. I have a gf of 10 months. We really like each other. I visit her house every day for at least 6 hours. The problem is she wants me to come daily without gettin late no matter what and if i dont she gets all psyched. how do i stop doin that? Now,...
A. 23 September 2010: Explain to her that you don't think long distance will work between you two, but we can still keep in touch. Explain to her how you felt controlled and crowded, but do it sincerely, just be open and honest. No matter what she will be disappointed, ... (read in full...)
How do I break away from him and this whole situation?
Q. Me and a guy had a fwb/buddy thing going on last year, this ended when he got a gf. He asked if we could stay friends to which i agreed at the time. A few months later he asks if we could meet up for a drink as friends so we did but we end up having ...
A. 23 September 2010: Only way really is to delete every contact you have of his. I've been in a similar situation, but he thought we were fwb I thought we were a couple and when he confirmed what we were I couldn't talk to him anymore. It took a few tries, but I finally ... (read in full...)
I don't know how I could live without him but everything just feels like a lie.
Q. I am a horrible person. I cheated on my husband who is a wonderful man whilst he was away working. I was out of control and do not know who the person is that I became over the past 6 weeks. I had been drinking a lot and met someone, there was no ...
A. 22 September 2010: Tell him. If he loves you and you explain to him how sorry you are he will eventually forgive you. He may not trust you for a while, but that's something to expect.... (read in full...)
Have I been fooled by him? Or am I taking this too seriously?
Q. Ahhhh, I feel decieved... and dissapointed in myself for letting it get to that. Was he a professional slimeball, or did he have feelings? I had known him for 4/5 years. Met on a night out, but we lived in different countries. I got a boy...
A. 22 September 2010: It really depends on what you are looking for. If you only want sex then stick with him if not move on cause that seems like all he wants. And he is trying to keep in contact with you to keep tabs on you. Making sure no other man is gonna try to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't seem to care anymore!
Q. Well 1st off we have only been official for two months, but it feels as if we have been together for over a year. The situation is he use to try to impress me and actually want to come see me and now it seems like a chore. After 2 weeks he told me ...
A. 22 September 2010: I have tried talking with him and he claims he'll start trying harder, but he hasn't... and well I got mad at him yesterday and he hasn't been answering my texts and calls since and idk why. But I'm very paranoid and it's bugging me. I've always ... (read in full...)
Why did my husband lie?
Q. Six months ago I found my husband on MySace, Facebook, Tagged, Yahoo personals, Fling, and a few more like that. At first he claimed someone hacked his email and it wasnt him. Then he claimed he did not remember and didnt know about them. Finally ...
A. 21 September 2010: Yes and No. But this isn't something to end a marriage on. Tell him that it upset you, but also apologize for not being home a lot. A lot of people tend to get lonely and you don't have proof of more than talking. If you do find out he cheated then ... (read in full...)
How can I talk to him before it's to late?
Q. hi oki tommorow im in this class where i sit next to this really really cute boy and everytime i have that class i tell myself todays the day i have a real conversation with him! and thne i look at him then and i dont no what to say :\ he also tol...
A. 21 September 2010: I know it is scary to approach someone, but he may be wanting to approach you as well. Make the first move, and if he shuts you down, which I doubt because guys love confidence, then you can stop being heartbroken about him leaving and move on. But ... (read in full...)
Is this a test?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a couple of months now. Sometimes if we go out for a meal she will comment on a woman and say she looks pretty and she tells me to have a look. I really dont like doing that while I am with her because I dont w...
A. 21 September 2010: I believe your girlfriend is a bit insecure. I'm insecure as well so I can see where she is coming from. Maybe remind her more often that she is "the only girl you see" and are interested in. Remind her that you love her and do little things that ... (read in full...)
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