Confused about my feelings
Q. I don't know what i want or what to do! me and my ex have been broken up for about over a month now and we haven't spoken much coz i stopped talkin to him then he randomly asked me why i stopped talkin to him n i said wen i hav somethin to say i ...
A. 2 May 2008: Perhaps u still need each other. especially if he is still contacting u. If you really want to get over him you should stop complete contact with him and keep urself busy. I understand that ur relationship was long, but it sometimes just needs to be ... (read in full...)
I will travel in order to help in an orphanage, any tips to be more prepared?
Q. I'm going away on a trip to Africa next week to help in an orphanage, with 98% of the children there HIV/AIDS carriers, there. I was just wondering if anyone has any tips in helping me pack, prepare, and how to deal with what i'm going to see ther...
A. 19 March 2008: bring a water filter... i knw someone that lived there. Um, its alot different depending on the part of africa u go to. Some areas are good and others are just horrible. some people are really nice while others are mean. Crazy drivers for cars, lol. ... (read in full...)
Is it true one can fall pregnant from a man's pre-ejaculatory fluid?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex 14 days after my period we started out unprotected but then he put a condom on meaning he did not ejaculate inside of me but I've been having some cramping,lower back pains and i've noticed a change in my appetite.. I read ...
A. 19 March 2008: yes it is true that u can get pregnant from pre-ejaculation. cramping and back pains is a symptom. your appetite can be from stress and is sometimes a sysmptom to pregnancy. lower back pain and cramping is the embreyo is starting to form and after 3 ... (read in full...)
If I have my period when I'm due, does this mean I'm not pregnant?
Q. If I have my period when I'm due, does this mean I'm not pregnant? What happened is the condom split during sex, and I took the morning after pill, but then it split again the next day - but he says he didnt ejactulate so I didnt worry too much. I...
A. 3 March 2008: first thing, dont risk having sex like that, even if using the condom, if it split b4 dont take another chance. The condom could have split frm wallet/carpet burn they call it. Meaning friction from the condom being place in a odd tempature or being ... (read in full...)
Why has sex just become so casual nowadays?
Q. Why has sex just become so casual nowadays. I mean before people did not even think about losing their virginity before marriage. What I don't understand is how people just do 'it' with people they hardly know properly. Sex before marriage does ...
A. 3 March 2008: Simple..the media. It is a place which has influence what is the norm for today. THings such as girls need to be skinny and small and males need to be muscular. When going into college, people are interested in experiencing new things, with no ... (read in full...)
The old school relationship advice books from middle age havet helped me at all, and now I really like this guy and don't want to mess it up so need some fresh, good advice on how to best proceed with him!
Q. Over the past few months of getting over my ex, I've dated a bit and took a few outside old school tips in dealing with those people I dated and it didn't go well at all. Mainly the advice/tips were to not be calling immediately and wait "3 days" or ...
A. 25 December 2007: try relaxing first and breathing, because u seem so nervous. If u keep looking for a guy, its not going to come. just go to places that guys hang out and talk to some. get to know some and hang out, maybe then it would lead to stuff. also the guy is ... (read in full...)
Could it be possible we are in love??
Q. Me and my girl friend are only 14, but we have grown together a lot. We have been together for 2month's and 1 week and we think we might be in love with each other.....i have been told it is not posible but other's have told me that it is ...
A. 25 December 2007: its is too early for love..if it were over 6 months and u hung out everyday or talk everyday then i would say it was love. right now, you are at the begining stages of a relationship. The point when u two cant be separated and are irresitable. U ... (read in full...)
Couldn't enjoy received oral. Should I explain that it wasn't that great with him or hope that maybe it will be better next time?
Q. Ok...so I recently started giving my bf oral, but last night he wanted to try 69 and he has never tried this position before, but I have. Anyhow he has only recieved oral and never given it. I don't want to sound mean or ungrateful, but ...
A. 25 December 2007: well, u can tell him the exact spot or show him where, then it mite be better. like if he rubs u the wrong way, grabs his arm and say do it like this babe or i like it if u rub me this way, or ooo that feels much better. he wont mind if u correct ... (read in full...)
Is this suspicious behaviour??
Q. My b/f of three years has a car..and over a month ago his sister used the car for a week or two or maybe a little over a week...soon after i see a small tiny bottle of the anti bacterial lotion on the floor in the back(in back of the passenger ...
A. 25 December 2007: i would relax. some guys actually borrow their sisters stuff and use it. they also feel emabrassed about it and will act as if it is not theirs but they keep it cuz they use it. I knw this, because i caught my old bf using his sisters body lotion ... (read in full...)
I double date with my mother but am really not sure about kissing my date in front of her. Any ideas??
Q. I live with my mother who is single. She suggested that we double date when I told her that I was interested in seeing more of this boy who has been a friend. We do not have a problem coming up with ideas that would be fun for me and my date as ...
A. 25 December 2007: I woulds suggest not doing a double date with ur mom. It is great that u and ur mom are like best friends and able to talk, but ur "friend" might not feel the same. Also it is harder for a person to open up to u infront of ur parents. I suggest just ... (read in full...)
What can I get him for our anniversery to show I am serious??
Q. For Christmas, my bf of 9 months got me this really beautiful necklace with my birthstone and everything from a fine jewelry store.I wasn't able to go out and get him something, so i made him this thoughtful gift. He loved it, but I really wish I ...
A. 25 December 2007: I wont judge u..young love is always great. The idea of finding someone perfect. Its great that u want to be so serious...guys get girls promise rings, necklaces, and earrings..girls get guys watches, wallets, and belt buckles. The thing is..u dont ... (read in full...)
How can I shake the winter blues??
Q. I think I have the winter blues.I've been really depressed lately,and EXTREMLY self conscious of my body.I've lost my tan.=( Its weird,because in the summer I have no problems being confident what so ever. I just feel fat and pale lately. How can ...
A. 25 December 2007: The weather has a effect on everyone. In the winter the light and temperature changes causing people's skin to become pale. Also the fact, more time u spend inside the lighter ur skin looks. depresion can cause fatigue and body conscious issues. but ... (read in full...)
I plan to lose virginity with this boy but I'm very paranoid about the condom splitting and very self conscious about my body.
Q. Well.. I really wanna have sex with this guy.. and it would mean losing my virginity but I'm scared if the condom splits. I am really really paranoid about it splitting and me ending up with getting pregnant and i cant afford to get pregnant. But i ...
A. 25 December 2007: First, ask yourself if you love him. Because some guys would have sex with you because u are a women that is advailable or just has the body and will say things to get there. Just make sure u care enough for each other. And im certain u dnt wanna ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my gf having slept with other men??
Q. I have trouble accepting that my girlfriend has had sex with other guys besides me. I know that I shouldnt care. I have had sex with just as many woman as she has men. I dont judge her because of it, I think she is amazing. Although, it i...
A. 25 December 2007: Its hard to accept it. I have the same situation going on for me n mine. just make sure she isnt contacting other males and get over the fact that she did it. It was in the past and leave it there. Think, she is with you now, and if she cares about ... (read in full...)
I like my flatmate...
Q. hey. I'm 18 and I like my flatmate. However, recently he found a note under my mattress saying that I liked him. This was really uncomfortable, but, basically, to clear things up as the situation was getting out of hand, i said that i did like him ...
A. 29 November 2007: sounds like u have a big crush. You dont have to hide it. But head this: if u live together, stay friends..but if u want a relationship pray that it wont break up.
by the garlic thing..u can tell he likes u back. he didnt want to get messy, but ... (read in full...)
Falling in love in with my classmate but she's not buying into it! What can I do?
Q. well,just a normal classmate and i am falling in love with her but she seems not to buy the idea.Please help me on what to do....
A. 29 November 2007: well, have u told her u like her? does she realize it or just think ur joking around? try having a date before u fall so deeply... (read in full...)
I really need your help...
Q. My bf dumped me after he found out his best friend, who has a gf himself, had kissed me once at school when he wasn't around. My ex now says that his friend kissed me because he likes me but is just afraid to say so (besides kissing me, he had also ...
A. 28 November 2007: Well, first..never date your friends friend no matter how much you are in love with them because you will ruin your life in the end. It sounds like you are now single, but you feel attatched. Take a minute to breathe and figure out what you want and ... (read in full...)
She doesn't talk much, is she just shy?
Q. So I'm just starting a relationship with this girl. we like each other and like spending time with one another. the thing i like most is that i have this certain feeling of peace around her, so i know there is something there. the thing i worry ...
A. 29 October 2007: you could encourage her by asking questions but alot of the time body language will stand out. if you two are interested in each other it doesnt matter. sometimes you feel obligated to talk. but if you are use to talking all the time start talkin to ... (read in full...)
Lack of communication is hurting me
Q. Been going out with this girl for a few months now. Everything was great for the first few weeks, but college has kinda taken over our lives. It has become harder and harder to see each other, so I text her once a day just to check in. Sometimes, ...
A. 29 October 2007: There are things with long distance relationships like yours. I know how that can be. Me and my boyfriend went from hangout every single day and always txting and calling each other. But then one of us had to go to college and the other stayed ... (read in full...)
Love, what is it?
Q. What is the difference between saying "I love you" and "I am in love with you"? Is there a difference?...
A. 29 October 2007: I am in love with you..means he is trapped by you..ur personaility, your every thing. that he is not paying attention to anyone but you. I Love You is when he has a feeling that stands out. That you are his one and only. That he would marry you if ... (read in full...)
How do I let the guy I kissed last week know that I want him?
Q. I kissed a guy last weekend that ive known for about two years, after he made all the moves. i was pleasantly surprised at this because ive always known him to be shy and timid when it comes to girls. however, the communication between us during the ...
A. 7 October 2007: how do you feel about him? Do you like him or want to keep him as just friends? Think about it. because some guy are shy and do that and panic, then act as if it is nothing. Where others will still keep distance as friends but concider you not a ... (read in full...)
He only wants me for sex. How can I get it back to how we were in the beginning?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for around 3 years.We work together and it consists of long hours and not much fun. All it ever seems is our relationship evolves round the job, he only comes near me for sex, when i just want comfort I don't get it, we d...
A. 7 October 2007: I agree with duck...I use to be in a relationship where a guy did that to me. always came over for sex. He would say caring words but never meant it. we dated for years...In the end I would care because he didnt care. I wish it would have gone back ... (read in full...)
How can I prepare for my first time?
Q. Hi, well, I strongly believe I'm ready to be deflowered, however, I'm not sure if theres any thing I should do before hand. Is there any thing I should do to my body or anything to prepare it for my first time? I s there anything that will make my ...
A. 2 October 2007: yeah, have condoms hidden in your room or car and do not plan it..just let it happen. And do not lose it to lose it, but wait until you find someone you would marry in future or that you really love them.... (read in full...)
How can you find out what your partner really thinks about you WITHOUT asking?
Q. how do you Know what your partner really thinks about you,without asking them. how do you know if he thinks your to clingy, to full etc ? plz reply?...
A. 1 October 2007: Well, its tough to tell because everyone is different. Well, you know when a person knows they like you cause they will treat you special and try to be with you all the time.
clingy would be never letting you partner go out with his friends or you ... (read in full...)
My brother's down coz the girl he likes is going out with his mate! Any advice?
Q. My life is fine but my little bro is 14 and his best mate is going out with the girl he fancies. He is really down and i hate to see the little guy sad. Please help him!...
A. 1 October 2007: my little brother is 15yrs old. That happened to mine too. He came home all sad and hurting. But you can tell him it is all part of growing up.Tell him it might be better to be single for a while and just have fun. Go to the park or bowling or ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 18. I'm nt making any moves on him, but I like him so much that it's killing me! Help!
Q. okay well my problem is iv recently fallen in love with this guy of 18 (im 15) iv known him all my life but iv recently developed strong feelings towards him, more than iv ever had for anyone before. i know there is a big age gap, so am not making a...
A. 12 September 2007: 3 years is not a big age gap. I use to struggle, with how old is to old. you should limit yourself and always stick with it. Being a girl, girls should never date younger and boys should never date older. one or two years older is perfect and 3years ... (read in full...)
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