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writes:how do you Know what your partner really thinks about you,without asking them. how do you know if he thinks your to clingy, to full etc ? plz reply? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): The best way to know what he thinks of you is by how he treats you. If he is loving and caring and affectionate and always calls and always wants to be with you and make you happy then you know that he must think pretty highly of you. But if he acts distant or doesn't call when he says he will or acts irritated around you or is mean to you or is too busy for you then he probably does not like you that much and does not think too highly of you.
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reader, kenny +, writes (1 October 2007):
 I guess the only way you are going to know without actually asking him his how he acts around you, his bodylanguage ect. Is he pleased to see you and greet you with warmth and a smile when you have not seen him. Does he make the effort in the relationship, like offer to take you out, buy you gifts, and tell you how special you are?.
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reader, On Cloud9 +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Good question and I wish I knew a definite answer to that one - for my own reference if anything. I can tell you what I did when I used to think that and it was to keep asking him and that eventually drove him mad, so I wouldn't recommend you keep asking him as it doesn't come across well.
On reflection, I think the first thing I should have done and what you should do is to ask yourself, do you think you are being too clingy or to full on etc. Chances are if you think that you are, then this may be a symptom of low self confidence and that actually is usually very evident to guys, they do seem to pick up on it.
Learn to be happy with who you are and be true to yourself and then if it doesn't work out then he isn't the right one for you.
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reader, superhoopschick  +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Well, its tough to tell because everyone is different. Well, you know when a person knows they like you cause they will treat you special and try to be with you all the time.
clingy would be never letting you partner go out with his friends or you calling him every hour or so to check up on him.
Rude or prude...dont inturpt him constantly..even though there are good and bad times in a relationship. Also cursing is disrespectful to a person so try to advoid it. You tend to lose feeling for each other if it happens.
Then to see if he really like/loves you.. he would sacrafice seeing his family and possibly his family to do anything for you. To see you.
If he cares he will always be there. Also if you look into there eyes. If there is a softness then he/she will protect you and care for you.
But also think about how you treat your partner. If you treat him/her badly then they might not think as highly of you. hope that helps...
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reader, rockelle +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Unless your a mind reader thats impossible. If you feel that he thinks your being to clingy.... Then your probably being too clingy. I think that the most important part of a relationship is communication. If this is the person you love you should be able to talk to them about anything.
The best way to get an answer to a question is too simply ask.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (1 October 2007):
And why would you want to know without asking? Are you trying to become a physic?
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