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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, well, I strongly believe I'm ready to be deflowered, however, I'm not sure if theres any thing I should do before hand. Is there any thing I should do to my body or anything to prepare it for my first time? I s there anything that will make my first time unforgettable I should do or know??? Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, superhoopschick +, writes (2 October 2007):
 yeah, have condoms hidden in your room or car and do not plan it..just let it happen. And do not lose it to lose it, but wait until you find someone you would marry in future or that you really love them.
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reader, MissT  +, writes (2 October 2007):
Hi! Coming to the concious decision to share your virginity with someone is a very big step...it includes admitting that you're willing to behave like a "grownup" and are capable of being held accountable for your actions. Having sex opens up new doors that you would never have imagined...you have to accept and love yourself for who you are before you can let anybody else do the same, and although you might be think you're emotionally ready to deal with the consequences...no amount of preperation will ever have you ready for the flood of random emotions that come after.
But getting to your question...
* trust yourself
* trust your partner
* don't be completely loaded
* have foreplay so that you WANT intercourse
* don't forget to breathe
* go to the doctor and get on the pill.
* and have a condom handy!
* never be afraid to say "stop"
* RELAX, RELAX, RELAX
* don't be too embaressed to buy/use lube. The slipperier the slide, the funner the ride.
and last but not least...
Do it because you want to. Not because everyone else is doing it, you're the last one, or because your partner is wanting to "go to the next level"
PS- Have fun!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): hmmm.. no advice really, as this is obviously a crank letter.
I dont know any 13-15 year old who would say the term "deflowered".
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reader, burningbridges +, writes (2 October 2007):
Use protection. Pick someone you respect. Don't expect it to be as big a deal people make it out to be. Think of it more as the first time you ride a bike, with awkward wobbles and excitement, not like a romantic state of perfect bliss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): U strongly believe ur ready eh, well u should find a ''Partner'' who wants to have a strong emotional long term relationship with you. as far as ur body... nothing in particular unless u wanna masterbate or something. Anything to make ur first time unforgetable? do it with someone u know for a long time,someone u can trust, someone u really want to deflower you, for example someone u feel u would marry if uu were old enuf and a proposal is made. or u can just look for a guy and stragiht up do it with him i do not recommend this if u want it to be unforgettable it is ur first time after all. If u do look for a man whore (prostitute) good luck making it ''unforgettable'' just wait til u have a proper relationship with a good man that u would consider marrying
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