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writes:okay well my problem is iv recently fallen in love with this guy of 18 (im 15) iv known him all my life but iv recently developed strong feelings towards him, more than iv ever had for anyone before.i know there is a big age gap, so am not making a move or anything atm, but it is really killing me.So i would love for some advice on what to do. also do people feel it is too much of an age gap ?ta x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): hey! my boyfriend in 18 & i am 15. when i first met him i didnt think i had a chance and i liked him almost instantly. it turned out he felt the same way, we met on new years and have been seeing eacother ever since, we started as friends and worked are way up there was some rough times dealing with how our friends would take it and me being my daddys little girl he was over protective but now they love him and so do i. i think you should take a chance, because i did and i've never regreted it. goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): Hey.
Exact same situation! Its tough. The best thing to do is to tell him how you feel i think. You can talk about it with him then, see if hes comfortable with the age gap. Its not that bigger gap but if you do get together you have to remember he could be going to Uni or college. You gotta trust him 2!
So yeah, tell him how u feel and go on from that :D good luck : D
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reader, superbunny +, writes (12 September 2007):
 I'm eighteen at the moment, and to be quite blunt with you, I think I'd feel uncomfortable dating a fifteen year old, the other Aunts are right, wait until you're sixteen so he can't get into trouble if anything did happen - but I personally don't think a three year old age gap is that big.. but it seems big when you're 15 and he's 18. x
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reader, youonlyliveonce +, writes (12 September 2007):
i don't think that the age gap would be a problem as long as you are sure of what you are doing. before you do anything you probably want to consider whether you trust him? there is a differenence in your ages so you may have a different perspective. does he like you back? of course it's hard to know, but make sure you are careful and know him well enough first. all being well, things could go great for you, but you need to be sure you do really know him first, or you could end up getting hurt.
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reader, superhoopschick  +, writes (12 September 2007):
 3 years is not a big age gap. I use to struggle, with how old is to old. you should limit yourself and always stick with it. Being a girl, girls should never date younger and boys should never date older. one or two years older is perfect and 3years is safety, but dont go 4 or else you might find yourself in trouble. My boyfriend is 21 and i am 18..3years apart..but do whatever your heart feels.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (12 September 2007):
 Well i think the age gap is not that big, BUT since your only 15 your better off waiting until you are 16 so he doesnt get into any trouble for doing anything with you. Though dating him is not illegal.
When you are 16 just tell him how you feel. Its very hard but sometimes it should be done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): i know ur tempted but give urself time. how do u know you have falled in love with him? i usually depict being in a love as a deep bond with someone. what you may be feeling is a massive crush which is totally normal. i know there is a big age gap,i wouldnt recommend looking for a relationship with someone who is 18 as your sexual maturity levels do not match. if he is worth it, it may be best to get to know him well until u know he is a trustworthy person who wouldnt take advantage of u
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