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*nonyous
writes:hey. I'm 18 and I like my flatmate. However, recently he found a note under my mattress saying that I liked him. This was really uncomfortable, but, basically, to clear things up as the situation was getting out of hand, i said that i did like him in the first two weeks we lived together, but not anymore. However, although i said this, i think that he probably still knows that i like him, coz hes not an idiot!! Anyay, when i told him this, i also asked him to go and clear it up with my other flatmate whom he had told after finding the note because i said i had no confidence left for another one of these converstations we had just had. So he looked at me and said:'why don't you have any confidence left. Listen, you have nothing to worry about because you are a fairly intelligent person, and, i shouldn't say this, (he's never nice to me), but, you are fine looking, not my type because i just don't go for girls like you, but then i always say things that i don't mean, christ, why am i telling you this'.What is this supposed to mean????Also, today (4 days later) my other flatmate threw garlic paste at me as a joke and i was freaking out and screaming and shouting, and the guy that i like was like:'hey, hey, stay away from me, don't get that on my clothes! Oh, and, by the way, i loooove garlic'What is this supposed to mean??please help, i don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): He's flirting with you and wants you for a short-term, physical relationship.
If you're open to that sort of thing, then the next step is just to let him know that, and things will definitely progress. Its pretty clear that he's going for that.
If however, you want a more serious relationship, stay far, far away as it will lead to no good. You'll both regret it after its over. DO NOT get drunk together under any circumstance.
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reader, anonyous +, writes (8 December 2007):
anonyous is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCan you guys please help me....I'm so confused...I don't know what to do...
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reader, anonyous +, writes (30 November 2007):
anonyous is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanx for the advice, but i'm just really confused as to waht he really feels. I mean after he found the note last week and i lied and said that it wasn't true anymore, he said to me that hopefully things will go back to normal but he can't promise anything because obviously its all out. Anyway, since then (1 week ago) things have definately gone back to normal, if not better. Basically i have noticed that he has been talking to me a lot more and messing about with me a lot more as well. I don't know what this is to mean??? I always thought that if I found out that someone liked me and i didn't like them the same way, i would back off a bit,and definatley start to keep a slight distance so that i don't give off the wrong idea. So why has he gone back to normal, better than normal, so soon???? Also, a couple of days ago, he messed up my hair by accident and i was really upset and a crying, and, instead of just apologising, which would have been fine for me, he went really over the top, like cleaned my head for me, washed my hair in his sink and shower using his shampoo, cleaned my room, tried to make me feel better, offered to pay for absolutely anything and even tucked me in to bed that night as i was feeling so depressed. What the hell does this mean?? Also, i have had to slightly change my hairstyle and he said a few times:'oh..by the way, i think your new hairstyle looks really nice'.I mean, no-one else really said that. I know that it was his fault after all so is he only saying it because of that or is there more to it coz guys don't really compliment that easily do they??Honestly, am I making all of this up in my head or is there actually something there???? Please help!!
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reader, superhoopschick  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 sounds like u have a big crush. You dont have to hide it. But head this: if u live together, stay friends..but if u want a relationship pray that it wont break up.
by the garlic thing..u can tell he likes u back. he didnt want to get messy, but he loves to eat it. u must under stand that girls read between the lines and guys just read the lines...he might just be using it in a flirting way..friendly..but it is all up to u
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