Husband has no interest in sex and has ED. Ten years of no sex. How can I address my need for sexual satisfaction?
Q. I'm so sad, I don't know what to do. Me and my husband can't have sex , due to his lack of libido, and inability to get an erection . I just don't know what to do. I'm in such a despair , about this. Time to time, I feel I can't go on like this. I ...
A. 19 July 2014: I know I've never been through anything like relationship. I am young, but, regarding him not actually wanting sex, possibly talk to him to find out why? Being together for such a long time and in the past 10 years he has no sex drive? Perhap... (read in full...)
My parents cant stand my relationship with my much older B/f. Should I even invite them to my wedding ?
Q. My parents have never been supportive if my relationship with my older boyfriend. We have been dating for three years and he is 19 years older then me and was also a family friend before we started dating. Once we started dating they but me out o...
A. 18 July 2014: Try and think about it from their perspective.
Their daughter, little girl, little angel has fallen in love with someone. And the age difference is big, but age differences effect everyone differently. Some (like myself) don't think of them as ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or just really busy?
Q. Hello ok I had met this guy who is younger than I am, he is 31, I am 40. He seems like a nice guy and we would talk on the phone pretty much every day. He also kept bugging me about when I would take the Greyhound to meet him. I kept putting it off ...
A. 23 September 2013: As said before, I don't think he is cheating on you as there is no relationship between you two yet! Tell him how you feel, if when you get a chance to on the phone, if not, text him. Explain how you feel. He may genuinely be busy and as most of ... (read in full...)
I need some threesome advice!
Q. So my one of my bfs mates seemed to be coming on to me and when I was at the point of telling him to back off we ended up on the discussion of threesomes, my bf told him we had been looking for someone to do it with but had, had no luck. His mate ...
A. 9 August 2013: I agree with So_Very_Confused
You shouldn't let anyone pressure you into doing anything. If you're uncomfortable or don't want to do anything then just simply say 'No'.
If I'm completely honest, I wouldn't be able to watch my partner having s... (read in full...)
Am I cheating if its just in my thoughts?
Q. I just don't know whether it is right or wrong to be in the situation which I am in right now. I am in a very fulfilling relationship with an amazing person. He loves me so much and ofcourse I love him back so much. And I am looking forward to ...
A. 9 August 2013: What you are going through is normal. I'm pretty sure most people will say that.
Whilst I was in a relationship I'd look at a guy and think "Oh my word, he is gorgeous" or something along those lines. It's just normal.... (read in full...)
I'm devastated to discover my crush wants to marry by the end of the year and obviously not to me!
Q. I'm crying over and over and over :( I m in love with a guy and he also showed many signs that he likes me and I thought he'll ask me out one day.) But When I was talking with him today I realized something . He was talking about his marriage plans ...
A. 9 August 2013: Would you be able to add more information to this please?
1, He wants to get married by the end of the year, does he have a girlfriend or partner?
2, His family is looking for a bride, are they trying to find someone for him to marry?
Tha... (read in full...)
He gave me the reasons to go and snoop!
Q. My boyfriend is very close friends with his ex, he says she has been very good to him when he had problems, although she has since married, then divorced with a kid she is trying to make things work with her husband and is visiting him in the ...
A. 9 August 2013: I have been through something similar. Although I am only 19. My ex was messaging this girl and kept referring to this girl whenever we were with his friends. Just saying that he had been talking to her. So when we were alone, I asked him who this... (read in full...)
I'm dating my best friend but she is the only female I'm attracted to. Am I gay, bi or what?
Q. Sorry, lengthy. Recently, my best friend came out to me, and told me that she liked me. Now, that's great and all, but I've never seen myself being with another girl. This lead to me being very confused about who I was, and what I wanted, be...
A. 9 August 2013: If you are both happy being together, then I'd say of course stay together. At the end of the day, if you're both happy that's all that matters.
You're still quite young, so of course you're going to be questioning your sexuality and not 100% sur... (read in full...)
Can I leave him or am I trapped forever?
Q. I have lived with my husband for six years. I believe that I have always relied on men in the past and have had several abusive relationships. I suffer from deep seated fears/phobias from my childhood and agoraphobia (mild now). My husband has clin...
A. 9 August 2013: Answering the question that you want answered; yes, of course you can.
While I was studying in college, I met a woman there who had been married for a few years and had 2 children. However, she'd had enough and simply one day while he was at work... (read in full...)
I feel unwanted and it's like having sex with a stranger!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together just shy of 2 1/2 years. He's been under a lot of stress lately because we are starting college and because of his job, but stress from school and his job have never been a problem with our sex life until now. ...
A. 9 August 2013: I can relate to this slightly. When I was dating my ex, after a while we only seemed to have sex whenever he wanted. If I ever wanted it, he'd always say to me that he wasn't in the mood or was tired. It got me frustrated so, I played him at hi... (read in full...)
My GF seem to want her mom-daughter see us have sex!. Why would this be?
Q. My girlfriend seems to be setting things up so that her daughter or her mother see us making love. Is this a more common desire for women than I realized? My girlfriend and I are sort of engaged to be engaged. she surrently lives with her mom and...
A. 9 August 2013: If I'm honest, that seems a little weird! Especially to allow her underage daughter to witness!
However, I do recall reading somewhere that in certain places it is the LAW to allow the mother to witness the first act of love after they are marr... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but am crushing on a friend. Do I act on it?
Q. So I'm in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. We love each other and don't ever plan to break up. However, I've had a crush on one of his friends from school for longer than I've been with my boyfriend, and it's really been ...
A. 26 July 2011: It's just a crush! When I've been with my boyfriend, I'd look at his mates and think 'Wow he is fit!' or think that he has a really nice personality.. Then later that day I'd have a look at him on facebook haha..
But it really is just a crush! I... (read in full...)
No sex and he is in touch with his ex's.....what does this mean?
Q. My husband keeps in contact with past wife and girlfriends then tries to hide it. Our sex life is batting zero and has been for the past 2 years. It seems as though he wants to live in his past. What does this mean...
A. 26 July 2011: It may be good to sit your husband down and talk to him about you feel, ask him why he is keeping in contact with his ex's and why you haven't been having sex.
I find that the best thing to do in any kind of relationship is to talk to your part... (read in full...)
Friends getting negative impression of my guy because he always cancels out on meeting them!
Q. A few times in the last 2 weeks I have invited the guy I have been dating (for a month) to come out to dinner with my friends and myself. We have done dinner with his friends a few times and are on friendly terms and while he has met a few of my ...
A. 26 February 2011: Personally, something like this has never happened to me, so I can try and help you as much as I can. What I would do, is talk to him. A relationship won't get anywhere if you both don't communicate with each other. Talk to him and say that if ... (read in full...)
Any tips on getting my dyed blonde hair to stay brighter?
Q. This is a question to do with my hair really, any advice if you can please :) I am naturally brown, but for the past year (I think!) I've always gone to the hairdressers and had the top half of my hair dyed blonde. I don't want to go back to being...
A. 4 December 2010: Thank you for your help!
I was thinking of going to my hairdressers and asking them any home dying products that may be better and that can save me money, Would you think that will help?... (read in full...)
He is Always in my Mind, but I can't have him
Q. Hello everyone, I'm a college junior who could use a helping hand in relationships. I've only had one boyfriend and I was a freshman when I met him. We were so happy being together our first year, but when sophomore year came around I felt myself ...
A. 27 September 2010: Well, in my opinion, if kind of sounds like it may be more than a crush. If you know him, and get butterflies every time you see him or his car, then it does sound that you have more than a crush on him.
If he and his ex girlfriend are not toge... (read in full...)
I need to know, does he still love me?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beggining of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he ...
A. 26 August 2010: Well, I met my boyfriend over the internet as well. And we live very far away and hardly see each other.
In my opinion, what I would do is talk to him. Sit him down face to face and explain to him how you feel. If he starts getting moody saying t... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight to get back with my ex!
Q. what are the best ways to make yourself vomit and how fast does it make you skinnier? because i want to get back with my ex and im just way to fat. so i need help and i think vomitting is the fastest way. ...
A. 26 August 2010: Making yourself skinnier isn't going to get you back with your ex :/
Your ex should love you for who you are, not what you look like, whether your fat, skinny, spotty, Anything. He should love you for you being you. You shouldn't have to put your... (read in full...)
Questions on dying hair.
Q. Naturally my hair is a dark brown A year about I had about half of my hair died blonde, I have gone back to the hairdressers to get my roots re-died every time they needed it. I need to die my hair again soon, but I don't have the spare money to...
A. 26 August 2010: Thank you all for the advise :). I think I am going to go with the Blonde ash idea.. I like the sound of it :) Thank you guys ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17?
Q. Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17? ...
A. 3 August 2010: Try and talk to your mum. She is your mum she should be the one that is there for you and you should be the one that is there for her. Sit her down and talk to her and ask her why she has threatened to throw you out.
I have heard my mum thre... (read in full...)
Please help, tell me if I am wrong?
Q. HI ladies please hear me out advise me?!!! i have 2 sons. before my first son was born i had to leave to my country to fix some papers my (boyfriend back then stood here) i was alone over there and didnt know i was pregnat then i found out in my ...
A. 3 August 2010: You're not a sucker and you're not shit! Why not try and reason with him? If you keep taking him back then you must love him but it doesn't seem that he loves you.
If he really truly did love you, he would have been there for you through your birt... (read in full...)
Wife to be mentions wants to buy a paid woman to orally service us during an encounter
Q. Hi recently my wife to be has said one of the things that turns her on is the idea of her buying me a working girl to Partake once in our love making. Her interaction would be strictly limited to oral sex and breast work and fingers, with no ...
A. 8 July 2010: I agree with Tisha-1 It seems like an activity that could cause something in your relationship with her. If something like that turns her on, then why don't you both watch a porn movie together and do what's on the film to each other? It coul... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17?
Q. Is it illegal to throw your child out of the house in the UK when she's just 17? ...
A. 8 July 2010: When the child is 18 years of age, they have there own choice in life. They can do what they please, when they please. Throwing a child out at 17 is illegal, but the child can be put into care or anything along the lines... (read in full...)
Please help, tell me if I am wrong?
Q. HI ladies please hear me out advise me?!!! i have 2 sons. before my first son was born i had to leave to my country to fix some papers my (boyfriend back then stood here) i was alone over there and didnt know i was pregnat then i found out in my ...
A. 8 July 2010: That sounds like a bad situation!
Well, your boyfriend doesn't sound like a good boyfriend really, while you were away and pregnant with his child, he cheated on you?! Once a cheater - Always a cheater. Unless they find the one they are afte... (read in full...)
At what age do you figure you will want to be married at and why?
Q. Hey Guys: Just for curiosity's sake, at what age do you figure you will want to be married at and why? And for those of you married already, at what age did you tie the not? What made you want to get married and was it more about the person or about ...
A. 8 July 2010: In my opinion, marriage shouldn't be tagged with an age, neither should falling in love.
After I met my boyfriend, I have wanted to get married to him as soon as I could really. I know that he is the one. I have would love to get married when I am a... (read in full...)
I'm beggin my LD girlfriend for attention
Q. hey , i have a problem with a long distance realationship , so far me and my gf been together for over 2 years now , im australlian and shes british , we see eachother on and off usually on vacations, but lately she got a job (which shes quitting ...
A. 8 July 2010: well, if i was you, i would tell her how you feel. Tell her that you're happy with her getting a job and that she's doing something that she loves, but you feel like your not getting any of her attention, like a boyfriend should. Having a long ... (read in full...)
How old do you have to be before age doesn't matter?
Q. How old do you have to be before age doesnt matter? Im 22years old and i really like a girl who is only 17, 5years is a big difference at this age i think, although she doesnt act or look 17, i feel as though we are the same age but i know when we ...
A. 20 January 2010: That age is fine :)
My parents have 6 years difference... (read in full...)
Can one catch an STD through oral sex?
Q. I really want to know if you can catch STD's through having Oral Sex? Thanks :)...
A. 19 November 2009: Thankyou for your help and advice :)... (read in full...)
I want to date again but have insecurities because of the past
Q. Ok, this is kinda a two part situation for me that is really hard for me to get over, so no flaming please =P Well i suppose i should start in the beginning and keep it short =P. Me and my ex dated for a year and a half and after her cheating on ...
A. 12 November 2009: I can see how you feel, my boyfriend had been through the same thing. He left his gf because she kept cheating on him and the final straw was her sleeping with someone else on Valentines day. When we met, it was after this had happened, about 6 ... (read in full...)
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