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writes: I've had a crush on a guy for almost 3 years. I really like him, and I'm not sure if he likes me. I'm 16 and he's 22. The first time I saw him he looked at me in a way I've never been looked at before. I left the store he was working at and he followed me out and watched me get into my car, then he went back in. Everytime I've went into that store he's looked at me with that unmistakable look. I found out that he had a girlfriend so I never did anything. But now I've found him on Myspace and he had "In a relationship", but then I put up a profile and now it saws "Single". So, I was wondering if I should write him a message and ask if he'd like to hang out sometime. I'm nearly 17 and I'm sure he would'nt mind waiting a year to get "intimate" with me. Please answer! i really need to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): Okay I gave him a friend request. I'm extremely nervous. I'm used to asking guys out, but he's different! Thanks for the advice I might need more when it comes to what I should say.
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (18 June 2007):
Hey =]
Well yeah i think you should, add him on myspace if you havent already and then just ask him. The worst thing he can actually do which so in love has already told you is say no. Just have fun really, and dont forget to dont do anything you are not comfortable with.
have fun x
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reader, DD +, writes (18 June 2007):
if i where you i would. i think your change is good that he likes you back
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reader, so_in_love +, writes (18 June 2007):
Add him as a friend first if you already haven't and see if he says anything to you first.
If not then go ahead and message him, the worst thing that could happen is he'd say no, and judging by the way you've described him that seems quite unlikely.
Just don't meet him on your own, always keep your wits about you and make sure nothing happens that you aren't happy with.
Stay safe.
xxxx
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