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writes: i am hopeless with love, even when it comes down to simple things like who to choose. i really like my best's mates little brother, and i know he did like me back, he is 2 years younger and even though i want to tell him how much i like him, i never could- i'd be too embarrassed if he said no. plus i dont wanna hurt my relationship with my best bud. what shall i do? i cant tell conor how i feel and as for my mate... I'm so confused! Help!!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, so_in_love +, writes (18 June 2007):
I suppse you never know until you try. Maybe speak to him and see what he really does think, but then before you let anything happen talk to your mate about what she thinks. If shes a true mate, she will be happy for you.
If you know he did like you, chances are he still does. I say go for it, otherwise you'll always wonder what could've been.
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reader, lulu871 +, writes (18 June 2007):
if You really like him and he feels the same, you should go for it!!! but be aware of the possible consequnces. should you and your bestfriends little brother get together and it ends on a bitter note then it could compromise your relationship with your bestfriend. But if they are truely a good friend they will except your relationship and give you their blessing and still be there for you should things not work out, as unfortunatly relationships dont have a garantee. But i would evaluate the situation and decide whether it is worth it, and go with that!
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