My ex is seeing another girl, is he doing this because I did not trust him? I'm just hurt!
Q. Ok I really need help. My ex and I were together for three years. We had our ups and downs but at the end of the day we forgave each other and always told each other I love you. We'll we broke recently over something I had done. I had inva...
A. 16 December 2011: I think i will have to agree on anonymous female reader below and caring guy.
to me, it seems like he does not care about it anymore- i think he wants it to be over and also wants you to get over the break-up.
i know it must be heart broken ... (read in full...)
How can I be more open with my boyfriend? Is it ok to tell him to back off?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a fairly new boyfriend (about 4 months together, although we've known each other for about 2 years), and I'm having trouble figuring out how much I need to share with him. I grew up with a lot of problems at home, and I'm stil...
A. 16 December 2011: I think talking to him about your problems will definitely help you- get off your chest thing..but if you really do not want to talk about it then maybe you can tell him that, talking about it gets you upset so you would rather talk about something ... (read in full...)
In love with a taken guy
Q. Hello. I could really use some help ... There is this guy, let's call him Sam. Sam's always nice to me, calls me beautifull, smart, amazing, etc. Sam's funny and we share the same interests. He's the same age i am and we spend a lot of time together...
A. 16 December 2011: hello dear, i was actually in the very same situation (or worse probably) with this german boy I loved. he was back home on holidays, i was there taking german course, we met each other through a common friend. he was so flirting with me fro... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if he's separated but waiting for divorce finalisation?
Q. I have been seeing a man who is going through a divorce and has been separated from his wife for several months. The only reason his divorce is taking so long is because of financial issues. We have a pretty healthy relationship so far. He is so ...
A. 27 December 2010: In relation to your first question- yes, i think its bit too fast. its always nice to take things slow. and he is also going thru this divorce procedure and all, you might be his rebound (eventho I hate to say this) or you might not, in order to ... (read in full...)
I've managed to find nobody.
Q. OK, I'm really, really struggling now, and I don't know who I can turn to. Basically I just want honest answers, which my friends and family in real life don't seem to wish to give. Anyway, I'm almost 29. I will be 30 in a little over a ye...
A. 26 December 2010: OMG...that was terrible messages that idiot sent you online..Well I dont know you in person and I do not have a picture of you (I know its not all bout the look but when you dont know the someone before, we all do judge others by appreance but that ... (read in full...)
Odd girl out.
Q. So im another average teen girl. Asian tall super skinny size 00 back hair with red streaks not gorgeous but not entirely ugly either. I havent been in a relationship for about 2 years now. An i was wondering how to get a boyfriend. I mean i have a ...
A. 26 December 2010: Hey, girl. How are you?
There's nothing wrong with you or nothing to be changed! You're only 15 (or even younger) and there's plenty of fishes out there that would appreciate just the way you are. If you have to change your look or personality to g... (read in full...)
Anyone have any advice on how to kickstart a relationship after having a baby?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly three years and we have a four month old daughter together. Ever since our baby was born my girlfriend has stopped showing me any form of affection (including sex). When I try to talk to her abou...
A. 12 December 2010: I think it's better to give her sometime...your baby girl is only 4 months old ..your girlfriend is probably not in mood for sex really. it's a hormonal thing and ive heard so many women sayin that they didnt' even think about sex after few months ... (read in full...)
He's telling him that if I don't give him a kid soon, he will leave!
Q. I don't have any children, but my boyfriend has a 5 year old daughter. He said he wants another kid soon. I'm 23, he's 24. I recently just graduated from college with a bachelor's degree and I'm currently looking for better employment (something to ...
A. 12 December 2010: Do you love him? I actually wouldnt risk my life for a guy like him. Having a kid isn't something like buying a can of coke from the supermarket. I am currently in my final year of college and I can't imagine myself having a kid straight after my ... (read in full...)
Should I wait or go for it with him now?
Q. Ok Im thinkin of getting into a relationship with an older married man, his wife is very ill and will soon pass away, and he is very lonely and is looking for a friendship and possibly more, should i go for it or tell him friendship only? i want to ...
A. 12 December 2010: Well, I don't know why you want to ask that to others? how do you feel about him? do you fancy him? do you like him? How did you actually meet him if he's married man with a very ill wife? I personally don't think he'd want more than a friendship at ... (read in full...)
Actual sex grosses me out!!!
Q. whenever i think about sex (me having sex, others having sex, or watching porn), i get grossed out. i get aroused by like kissing and stuff but not sex, why is this? (im genderqueer, 16, and a virgin)...
A. 12 December 2010: Hey, it's totally normal i think. Well I am a woman but I wasn't actually sexually active up until my 20s and I loved my ex and everything we did was so cool apart from sex. I thought it was such an animal thing to do, thinking why can we have ... (read in full...)
Finding a virgin to date at my age is a rarity!
Q. At school last week I was in my favorite class wich was history. I thought that it was going to be a regular fun-filled day because usually thats the class that all of my friends are in. In my group of friends there is one boy (besides me} and two ...
A. 12 December 2010: Im sorry boy. but I don't really get what you're trying to say? Are you a virgin yourself? Why are you looking for a virgin girl to go out? Why can't you like someone as just the way she is and enjoy the relationship??... (read in full...)
All I want is answers... why???
Q. ~Listening to Bruno Mars- Talking to the moon~ Hello everyone and anyone. i have a story of well my real life heartbreak. Im 25 years old, goodlooking guy. Never really dated seriously too much. Was always the "player". Until one day i met a guy ...
A. 11 December 2010: OMG...while I was reading this,...all i could say was OMG...
I mean fair play to you to fly over and all that, I dont think I could never do that or maybe I haven't met the right person yet! but it was very brave of you!!
I am very disappointe... (read in full...)
Does he just like having conversations with me?
Q. so this guy who ive asked questions about before is talking to me again. He started talking to me this time. most of the time it was me talking/texting him first. well i got texting taken away this summer. so anyway he started talking to me on ...
A. 11 December 2010: Men men men- Well I don't think he's serious about it. Guys like sex and it is not something to be ashamed of. I presumed that he's about the same age as you..?
He might like you a lot and wants to do things with you. (sorry if it wasn't anything... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting?
Q. Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting? whenever i see something nice my boyfriend would like i buy him it when i have the money and also cos i know he would like it. my birthday is next week and i don't want him to spend ...
A. 11 December 2010: Ahh it's tough one to say something about it till I know what is really on his mind.
But I personally think that guys would spend money on you if he thinks that you're worth it as in many different ways and it still applies after when yee are bf a... (read in full...)
Could this breakup be the space she needed?
Q. Please help. My girlfriend all of the sudden started to miss her ex which led to some distant behavior. I started asking what's wrong and she just got irritated but I could tell something was up. So she calls me tells me she misses him because they ...
A. 11 December 2010: I have to agree with hijacked_dignity. I think she need her break and you do need to cool your head a bit. Whether she was extremely under pressure with other things in her life, she doesn't have a right to treat you like that. No one can do that. ... (read in full...)
Could this breakup be the space she needed?
Q. Please help. My girlfriend all of the sudden started to miss her ex which led to some distant behavior. I started asking what's wrong and she just got irritated but I could tell something was up. So she calls me tells me she misses him because they ...
A. 10 December 2010: Well to me, she seems bit odd acting like that (well I dont no her in person so I cant really say anything about it and pls dont get mad at me for saying that)
I think you two defo need some break anyways. she was telling you she misses her ex a... (read in full...)
Am I underweight?
Q. Hi. I know this is not a medical site, but I'd just like some opinions from regular people. I'm a 24 year old female. I am 5 foot 6 and weigh 8 stones. Is this underweight? If so, is it very bad? Thank you....
A. 10 December 2010: Well Im currently studying medical..well my answer has nothing much to do with it but to your comfort, taut i'd mention it anyways ;)
I think you're slim but not like under weight or anything bad in health wise. I think you would look fine wit... (read in full...)
I kissed a girl and she ran away?
Q. I went to a party on Monday and this girl approached me and we started dancing, i asked for her name and what she studies (it was a university party) She was rubbing her hands on my chest and i was feeling on her bum. Anyway she looked really shy as ...
A. 10 December 2010: Well there's two reasons why she might have ran away from you.
1st, I hate to say this but if she didnt' feel what you felt, she might have thought..ahh he's crap and just left..
2nd, since you said it looked as if her friend grabed her arm..... (read in full...)
How effective is the pull out method?
Q. How effective is the pull out method? We have sex without contreception and we have been using this method for over a year now. And I still have not got pregnant. But how much of a chance could there be that I could get pregnant?...
A. 5 December 2010: Well...I dont think you should trust that pull-out stuffs too much. I know that you've been using that method for about a year and you still haven't got pregnant. which is very lucky (unless you want to get pregnant!) I think you and your partner ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that a guy has many female friends?
Q. there is this guy I met who was in the marine, we only got to hang out for a while before he had to leave to Afghanistan. The thing is I like him and he told me he like me as well and he wanted to keep in touch with writing letters and facebook ...
A. 5 December 2010: Well My friend is sorta in the same situation like yourself. I told her that he might be a player but you don't know him well enough to know whether he is or not and He could simply have many female friends. I know the facebook thing and flirting ... (read in full...)
Do I go on this date and see how it goes... or should I end it now?
Q. Hi there, i really need some help and fast! I'm going on my first one to one date with this guy tomorrow but i've been on and off whether i should see him since he asked me. We went out as part of a group a few days ago and we really hit it off and ...
A. 5 December 2010: I have to agree with the person below me there!
Yeah why not? give it a go like. You know that he's a nice fella and all I know why you're so unsure about everything etc but you wouldn't know till you give it ago..It's better to regret things that... (read in full...)
How can I get her out of my mind? I don't want to love her anymore.
Q. hello, please i want every possible advice for me, i really need that, im in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend , it actually been a long time, the least i can say about her is that im crazy inlove with her, but i wanna forget her, tak...
A. 3 December 2010: Time heals everything...I know its crappy saying but there's nothing really can be done to forget someone or get over someone. But if you want to get rid of her in your head asap, why not tryin to go on a date or meet someone else? It will ... (read in full...)
I thought we were great together and all of a sudden he's not responding
Q. So I met a guy 2 weeks ago, who I hit it off with really well. We met at a bar near my school and hung out the whole night. He had said he was surprised that I even spoke to him, and that he normally never went up to girls as he found most girls at ...
A. 24 November 2010: Well guys are sometimes strange like that. He mite have found someone else or something might have happend that he isnt interested in you anymore.. or He could be just really busy and doesn't really have time to txt you.. But you gotta wait for him ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has disgusted me-can I forgive?
Q. My boyfriend and I have hit a rough patch recently as we've both been ill on and off and very busy at work. Basically just not in sync, no sex, just all very practical chat. We're both feeling better now so this weekend was gonna be the weekend to ...
A. 14 November 2010: Well, to me he sounds pretty bad..(sorry to say that). you two weren't feeling well and busy to see each other but he managed to take pics and got pics back from others..that doesn't sound right to me. But i dont thnk he'd like the idea of you kinda ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my girlfriend wants to have sex, if we don't she'll dump me!
Q. I'm 13 and my girlfriend really wants to have sex. My best friend did it once and said it was a great experience. I'm breaking under peer pressure and need help. We've been going out for 10 months and I really like her. She said if I don't have sex ...
A. 14 November 2010: You're still very young and you should never do something under the peer pressure whether it's sex or not. You just don't do things that you dont want to do!! I have to agree with Jm tmj...it is kinda saying that she isn't right for you..!!... (read in full...)
Do you think we should have sex?
Q. First, please don't answer "Save yourself for marriage," because that's clearly not going to happen in our modern day and age. Secondly, please don't tell me that I'm an idiot who is going to get pregnant. Now. My boyfriend and I hav...
A. 7 November 2010: 1. I actually don't know what to say .. you two seem to like each other enough and have been together for 11 months. It could be long time but short time too. Since you're not over 15, I think it's better to wait for a while..(i dont want to sound ... (read in full...)
He wasn't the one for me, yet I was so into him - why?
Q. Here's a description of this guy I dated 2 month and who just ended it with me: - he's 33, smart, well-travelled, athletic and very attractive - he's had many gfs but has never lived with one - his ideal Friday and Saturday nights are goin...
A. 7 November 2010: Well, I am actually havin the same sorta problem like you..it's like as we all are, when you like someone so much, we try not to see the bad side or not-so-great side of the person or ignore them sides of the guy. I think we all do that naturally ... (read in full...)
Do guys accept small breasted girls?
Q. I am a very petite girl with small breasts size cup A. My boyfriend told me he love me for who I am and always kiss and fondle with my small breasts but I feel so sad for him as I think that he loves bigger breasts. I start to feel ashame of ...
A. 7 November 2010: No worries hun :) I have tiny breasts too and it was no bother to my ex (well we didnt break up because of my boobs!), he told me that my body's better off with them small and humble boobs than big massive boobs!! LOL everybody has different taste ... (read in full...)
It hurts when he says he just wants to be with his ex
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a widow and have started a new relationship with this gentalmen that persued me for about a month before I finally gave in. He acts like he really really cares about me. He is generous ,kind, attentive, calls almost everynig...
A. 5 November 2010: I personally think that he's still not over his ex wife and he's just so lonely and wants to spend sometime with someone not necessarily you..it could be anybody i think. I know that he treats you so nice and everything but I still think that he's ... (read in full...)
She doesn't know but I overheard my g/f crying about her ex boyfriend
Q. I've been dating a really awesome girl for about 6 months. It's all really good and I like her a lot. The thing is, the other day, I went over to her house, and I guess she forgot that I was coming over and I overheard her with her best friend. She ...
A. 5 November 2010: I think you might want to talk to her about her previous relationship. You might be her rebound if it wasn't long ago and by the sound of her, it seems to me that she still has some feelings left for him. Girls don't just cry for nothing you know. ... (read in full...)
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