Should we get back together?
Q. so blah blah blah this is nothing original, my boyfriend cheated on me last year and I'd always kinda kept my emotions wrapped up and stayed strong through it all. However on Saturday i was at a party and he was sayin how sorry he was and it all ...
A. 19 March 2009: hiyah
i think only you can answer that, your always going to have it in the back of your mind will he wont he and that doubt will cause difficluties that shouldnt be there but given the past clearly are. Unless you are both 100% into it then its ... (read in full...)
How do I move on properly but without trying to find someone new too quickly?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 18 months have just split up, about a week ago. It was a really messy end to a fantastic relationship and obviously I'm so upset over it. I keep trying to tell myself that I can move on and get over the break up but then when ...
A. 7 March 2009: firstly dont blame yourself for how things are turning, after something happens so bad you loose control for a bit before you get back who you are. everyone deals with a break up in there own way there is no right or wrong way on how to handle it ... (read in full...)
My b/f told me he would date this other girl if we broke up, this upset me, should I talk to him about it?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend of six months and I have a very open relationship but there's something that I haven't really been able to stop thinking about. Yesterday he randomly asked me if if I liked someone else, would i tell him. I said that I wasn'...
A. 3 March 2009: hiyah, you could stop thinking about it but the problems still there and now it is fresh in the mind it will remain there! you need to reconsider a few things to start with. i mean its not the normal thing to s=discuss and that leads to the question ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the reason she does something crazy
Q. So I broke up with my girlfriend last night. we have been dating for 2 years. I am very much in love with her, but She cheated on me more than once. Last night she came over to "talk" she started to cry and then after a while of begging me to take ...
A. 24 February 2009: its a horrible situation to be in. you cant tell the person how unfair it is, you find yourself feeling guilty for doing no wrong, i can really relate to your situation. i was the weak one, who stayed around took all the crap he had to give and ... (read in full...)
What's he doing? Broke up with me, now dating his ex
Q. I dated this guy for about 4 months and everything was great, he treated me good and he was the perfect boyfriend. He told me he cared about me and how much he liked me. He lost his virginity to me and as did i. Before me was his ex of 3 years. ...
A. 24 February 2009: hiyah, i found your post hard to understand so if i give the wrong impression then sorry in advance.
has he actually ever told you himself hes back with the ex? never go on rumours or what you heard, i believe in seeing things and hearing it dire... (read in full...)
Am I totally wrong for not being forgiven?
Q. If you expect your friend to be a perfectionist and a true friend, would you not have to be the same? My friend was going through some issues in her life. from this point on, she would cancel plans on me, or if I wanted to invite her to spend ti...
A. 22 February 2009: hiyah, id just leave it and lets be honest your apolagising for what exactally? wanting to be a fiend and offer support and guidance to her. she didnt want that and has pushed you away, shes got deeper problems thats affecting how she is with others ... (read in full...)
I feel insecure, like I'm going to lose her...
Q. Last year I was going out with this girl who came to the UK for one year. I really liked her and eventually got to know her. We eventually went out but there was always this other guy bugging her and I always suspected something was going on. ...
A. 21 February 2009: hiyah, with long distance its normal to be insecure, she might be the same with you! its hard making things work when there is space dividing you both but if you want it enough you need the trust to kepp it alive and strong. without that you wont ... (read in full...)
I've been in relationships for 4 years and just want to be single!
Q. I don't know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, however, recently I met another great guy. I really like him and although I know I should stay with my boyfriend because he has helped me so much in the past and has a good ...
A. 20 February 2009: hiyah i think your really confused and without getting worse id do whats best and end the relationship, deep down you dont want to be there and in the end no matter how good you are at covering it it will begin to show. you need to sort your head ... (read in full...)
I've kept my cheating a secret, but it's killing me!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we are soo close. Ive never felt so strongly towards someone and i'm extremely glad i'm with him. And he tells me he feels the same. But ages ago, when me and him were together for about 4 months, I ...
A. 20 February 2009: hiyah, its a really bad situation and you can go two ways but the one can be so damaging and although it would be all out in the open, it could really hurt him after so long it could wreck all you have... and for what? yeah you conscience would be ... (read in full...)
Does this mean that he's not interested anymore?
Q. i went on a date with a guy. The same night when we got home i texted him quick to mention something about what we'd been speaking about, because i remembered the name of something. And he sent a text back saying he had a great time, and hes gl...
A. 20 February 2009: hiyah, i think its right that you know where you stand with somebody, he owes you that. sometimes it doesnt mean as much to a guy and girls can fall deep sooner than they can. i dont judge quick but he seems the type thats had his fun and has cooled ... (read in full...)
Should I "accidentally" bump into him and see if we can still be friends?
Q. We were together for a couple of months. It gets complicated but basically he didnt want to be tied down in a relationship so he broke up with me. He insisted that we remain friends and we hung out a few times since the break up. He would make plans ...
A. 20 February 2009: hiyah, nobody can tell you what to do i mean you know the situation better than any one but from what youve said im gunna be the negative one and say no i dont think its such a good idea. i mean yeah look amazin and go out and have a good time and ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back, should I wait or just go for it and ask her?
Q. ineed help im tryin to get my ex to go out with me i was recently in an accident i was in a coma for 5 days since then ive talk to her and she told me she loves me but i dont know if she want to go back with me i love her and i want her to come bac...
A. 20 February 2009: hiyah, firstly she obviously likes you as shes said so but on the other hand she could just be being supportive after the recent shock youve had. you cannot make somebody love you still and always remember an ex is an ex for a reason, usally that ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with trying to find someone!
Q. Please help as i going mad. I seem to be obsessed with trying to find someone. Im on a few dating web site and im constantly looking to see if i have any messages and get so dispointed if i dont. I just am so lonely and my life feels so boring. I ...
A. 19 February 2009: hiyah, your not going mad your just really low right now and from justthe bits youve said i can understand why! firstly your ex is out of your life. leave him there. hes no help towrds you or your daughter, in the past all hes done is make you wors... (read in full...)
Is he embarassed to say he likes me?
Q. Ok, me and my best friend hangout with these boys. One of them is my brother and she is going out with him. When them two are together i stay behind with the boys. I find myself atracted to him and he told me he liked me too. We kissed a few time...
A. 17 February 2009: hiyah its simple lads being imature. ithink deep down he does have feelings for you but cannot share them with his mates given there past reaction and for guys its not 'cool' to like a girl in a serious way rather than just a bit of fun. most g... (read in full...)
My b/f is so unromantic!
Q. this is now getting 2 my nerves,my boyfriend is soo unromantic,like on valentines,he didnt get me anything,i feel so sad and jealousy when i see how other gals r treated special. what can i do to change him and upgrade him because this sometime...
A. 16 February 2009: hiyah if your unhappy with what you have, however big or small the problem, avoid marraige for that little bit longer. its best to sort the situation rather than confusing it twice as much. hes not the only guy to be like this, its pretty normal. ... (read in full...)
Am I over-analyzing or what??
Q. The girl I like includes quotes when she emails me sometimes. Her latest, which she started her last message with, got me thinking: "If you make it plain you like people, it's hard for them to resist liking you back." Am I over-analysing n...
A. 16 February 2009: hiyah, maybe shes using this method as she finds it hard to come out with what she realy wants to say. some people find telling others how they really feel really hard and this could just be her cover up. shes trying put it that way! at least your ... (read in full...)
I think I'm falling for my best guy friend!
Q. Well, basically, I've been such good friends with this guy for ages and ages, and well I think I'm starting to really fall for him, so I got two questions really; - how do I know it's that I'm falling for him or if I just think of him as a good fri...
A. 14 February 2009: hiyah, it all has to start with you both knowing where you stand and with that your true feelings... thats the hard part but you have the advantage of him being your friend so being honest and genuine comes natural to you with him.
you know when... (read in full...)
How do you ladies feel when your man forgets V-Day?
Q. How do you ladies feel when your man of 3 years forgets it's Valentines day and you get nothing. Not a card, not a flower, not a single romantic sentiment? Please advise. I don't know what to do. Mention it? Or just let the day pass by like it ...
A. 14 February 2009: hiyah, there is no argument. how could he forget? every shop you go into has cards or love or hanging signs with the date printd in capitals or arrows of some sort reminding you at least 3 weeks in advance. its impossible to get away from not being ... (read in full...)
What does this mysterious blank email mean???
Q. Ex sent me a “blank” email that has nothing in it on the day before Valentine’s Day, what does it mean? Is he trying to tell me something ?...
A. 13 February 2009: hiyah firstly be careful not to read too much into things, don't get your hopes up. Although I get where your going it is strange, maybe he's hoping you'd question it and so reply to him in order to get a converstaion going? Depedning on how and ... (read in full...)
Why is he chatting to some random girl?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend gave me the password to his email account about a couple of years ago to check something for him when he was out. I was boried the other day and I looked in his email account (I know i felt bad as soon as I did it). Well I found ...
A. 11 February 2009: hiyah, well firstly ask yourself why you did this? if trust was there 100% you wouldnt of felt it necessary to look. but youve seen that and avoid this as the issue. your doubts were obviously there as you looked! it doesnt make you a bad person, ... (read in full...)
What did I do wrong? All I did was love him.
Q. It all started out very nice.. he was so sweet and charming thought he could be the one. After a few months he started being very distant, went calling me much and he would argue and yell at me all the time. When we made up everything was ok then he ...
A. 10 February 2009: hiyah i think hes usin every excuse he can to get out of the relationship, my advice let this one go to save yourself the hurt. from him all your going to get is hurt hes not willing to offer you a happy healthy relationship so dont hang around. he ... (read in full...)
Why did he go from being so sweet that night to giving me this kind of response?
Q. I've been best friends with this guy since we were six and we're now eighteen. Just before December he told me that he has liked me since we were 13 and what surpirsed me the most is that I realised that I liked him too, so now we're going out. ...
A. 8 February 2009: hiyah well it seems to me your not what you used to be and the new relationship you have is finally falling into place. your becoming used to each other so i know its strange but dont expect a lot off him! this sort of response is completely normal. ... (read in full...)
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