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I want my ex back, should I wait or just go for it and ask her?

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Question - (20 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ANNY123 writes:

ineed help

im tryin to get my ex to go out with me i was recently in an accident i was in a coma for 5 days since then ive talk to her and she told me she loves me but i dont know if she want to go back with me i love her and i want her to come back but i dont know what to do since i was the one who f*** up in the first place do you think i should wait or what should i do girls if you can help??

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A female reader, shiraz * United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2009):

hiyah, firstly she obviously likes you as shes said so but on the other hand she could just be being supportive after the recent shock youve had. you cannot make somebody love you still and always remember an ex is an ex for a reason, usally that reason remains there throughout your furture and so would do if you ever got back together.

on the other hand you could just ask her... only dont jump straight in, respect how good shes been to you recently and i think deep down she loves you you just have to prove that to her, words are a start but they come easy its what you do that matters most (as well as words obv) you wont get far unless you know where her head is at, once you know that then take it from there. your problem starts when she actually tells you how shes feeling (if its not what you want to hear) you dont know yet so dont jump to it being a bad outcome.

you seem to realise now in the past you did wrong and you seriously want to make it up to her, after everything this has really opened your eyes, sometimes you forgive but dont forget other times you simply cant forgive, dont blame her for either from what i can make out shes been there. talk to her. best of luck xxx ps glad your getting better :)

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