Should I ask him out again for one last time?
Q. I've been so in love with this guy for almost a year now. I can say that we're good friends. We have so much in common. We hang out with other friends sometimes and there was this one time when we hanged out in a "date-like manner". We had dinner ...
A. 17 March 2013: You don't know that he won't go somewhere and miss you so much he will have to find you, this has happened with many college students. I spoke with a Dr I used to have, he and his wife had been together for fifty years, he liked her in college,... (read in full...)
I'm afraid this relationship my daughter is in is bad news -- how do I get her to see the big picture?
Q. aunts and uncles, i have a daughter that is pregnant by a much, much, much older guy, she has a child from another boy. shes living with this guy now and bragging about how she is going to be a stay at home mommy. now most of you are going to s...
A. 17 March 2013: Things could be worse Mom, he could be a young drug addict without a job. There are some young men that are super, but very few. This man probably makes your daughter feel secure. His condition is controlable with meds and he should be around fo... (read in full...)
He told me I'd waited to long to date and that he was moving on
Q. I had been dating a guy for 7 week that i met online. We text and talk on the phone. He has also told me already he loves me and we have also kissed and some touching. He has asked me several time to go and spend the weekend with him to. He has also ...
A. 17 March 2013: You need to be careful no matter what, he should understand that. There have been women who have disappeated in Aruba, so be cautious about dating. If he cared at all, he would be patient, not demanding. Offer to meet him at public places, where ot... (read in full...)
It's not what she did, it's that she lied about it
Q. My gf and I have been together for two years now. She is known to lie now and again. A few weeks back we got into a big fight because I was getting an apartment but didn't think it was best for her to move in. I told her we could still hang out as ...
A. 17 March 2013: Girls usually make things sound better to their girlfriends, she may or may not have made out all night with her ex, but were you truthful when you gave her an excuse why she, the woman you are supposed to care about could not move in with you? I ... (read in full...)
In private he is affectionate towards me. But in front of others he pushes me away. How do I handle this?
Q. So, this is going to be a little long so bear with me. + I have been talking about this on a forum anonymously for over 3 years now, and it hasn't gotten any better. I even turned to y! answers one other time to ask about this, but I am in a diffic...
A. 17 March 2013: B is very young, and will need time to find out who he is, and what he wants. Most boys want to live wild years before they think about settling down. Resume dating, find someone to hang out with, if this boy cares about you, he will say so if he ... (read in full...)
Does this mean that he's commitment phobic?
Q. I've been together with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We haven't had sex yet, but the other night we both really wanted to. I was assuming that I'll stay at his place for the night, but he told me that he can't have me over. We go to the same ...
A. 17 March 2013: There could be a couple reasons why he did not want you to go to his house, he might have too much respect for you, or someone else lives at his house with him. My sister had a boyfriend, that wouldn't go to her house, and didn't want her at his. ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on my history teacher?
Q. I need help. I really have feelings for my history teacher. He gives me all the right signs showing that he likes me back but I don't know. I am 17 and in high school and he is 24. He smiles at me all the time and compliments me. I think of him all ...
A. 17 March 2013: At your age, you could cost this man his carrier, might wait at least until you are 18, or check the laws in your area. At 18, if you think he is attracted to you, and he is not married, invite him to dinner or something. Good Luck, but think of ... (read in full...)
Misfire with recently single girl. What's the best way to proceed?
Q. In the past couple of weeks I've started seeing a girl who I really like. Until recently she had a boyfriend so the terms of our going out were sort of up in the air. A few weeks ago, we went out for some beer and had a great time, talking for ...
A. 17 March 2013: Do fun things with her, ask her to go skating, car races, the show. show her what fun is about, and what a fun guy you are. I'm sure she will fall for you if you give her time to have fun and chill for a while. Good Luck
... (read in full...)
Things were getting serious -- until her ex FWB introduced himself
Q. Dear Cupid I have been dating a great women for three years and we are making plans to buy a house move in with each other and open joint savings and cheque accounts. We have been open with each other and neither of us have any skeletons in our ...
A. 17 March 2013: Your girl deserves a right to explain, but you knew she had dated others before you. You wouldn't want to date someone that was unattractive and had never dated anyone. The relationship with the other guy ended a long time ago, I'm sure if she ... (read in full...)
How do I salvage my relationship?
Q. How do I salvage my relationship? Where to start... I have been a completely idiot and c**t towards my partner who has only been supportive and full of love to me. We've been together for two and a half years and for the majority of that ti...
A. 17 March 2013: #1, see a dr about your sex drive, be sure to go to your counseling, and sit down and tell her how sorry you are, and how you couldn't or would never want to live without her. The people she caught you talking about her to, should stay away from... (read in full...)
He cheated got a girl pregnant and I'm pregnant too!
Q. Hi guys need your help. We have been together or 10yrs with a 9 years old boy. He always cheat on me and apologise and i will forgive him. This time he impregnanted another girl they have a baby girl. The problem is i am couple of months pregnant ...
A. 17 March 2013: This man has taken advantage of you long enogh, I had the same proble, with the same amount of years invested, but I got beatings along with the cheating. When I remarried, ground rules were set, you cheat or hit me, you're gone. I got tough an... (read in full...)
I've had sex but never a relationship. How can I have one?
Q. hi i need help as I've been in and out of prisons since 17. I went to a all boys bourding school for behaving problems which I blame no one but me for that. I find it hard to have a relationship. I 've had sex but never a relationship. Can some...
A. 17 March 2013: The prison thing, that's behind you. God says, today is the first day of the rest of your life, so start today. A relationship is you trying to make someone you care about happy, and them doing the same by you. Kindness, and loving care 24x7 is ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a man is just after sex or if he wants to start something with me
Q. What are the signs that a fella is only after sex as opposed to wanting to start something with you. At my age i should really know but iv a friend who has been after me for years and we are starting to get closer as weve been talking every si...
A. 17 March 2013: Can only tell you what I know, I met a man once, who was dating five women. He said no problem to my first refusal. Persued me furiously, and quit all five women to persue only me. Usually when a man sleeps with a woman, they move on quickly, take... (read in full...)
I'd like closure on the ending of our relationship but should I just move on?
Q. Is there a such thing on getting closure on a relationship after the realtionship has ended 6weeks ago. I have never heard from him since then. I dont try to call him. Last I heard he had moved on with another woman. I am not mad about that I just ...
A. 17 March 2013: This man will walk off from the new woman too, it's how he operates. There are a lot of men like that, and you are Lucky she has him for now, because a man like that is not good enogh for you. If he can be taken from you, he will be taken from ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my friend mapping her life out with the first boy she's ever dated
Q. I'm really worried about my best-friend, because for about six months now she has been dating this guy. I do have to say that it is the most stupid relationship that I have seen, they never go out on dates, have never kissed, and spend most of the t...
A. 17 March 2013: Stand by your friend, let her make her own descisions, she will let you know when she needs your help. If you try to interfear, she will be angry at you, and have no one to turn to. Good Luck
... (read in full...)
I love my best female friend but she has a boyfriend
Q. Ok, so this girl and I met at the start of the school year (we're college freshmen). Shortly after we met, I realized that I liked her, but it wasn't much more than a crush. Around the same time, I realized that she has a boyfriend who goes to a ...
A. 17 March 2013: Continue being her friend, and when her boyfriend transfers to your school, she will probably see if he is or isn't a jerk. Only time will tell. If he and she get together, then find a girl you can double date with them, sometimes this is the ... (read in full...)
Need help identifying new 21st dating lingo? Where does a virgin fit in all this?
Q. Can somebody explain what these new terms mean because I have heard them thrown around and want some closure 1. what is friends with benefits male edition? 2. what is friends with benefits female edition? 3. what is a female jigalo ? 4. wha...
A. 17 March 2013: Female or male friends with benefits means, I can sleep with her or him whenever I want, that's the benefits. The gigilo thing, means either one sleeps with anyone they can talk into sleeping with them, never caring about anyones feelings. Hope ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I can trust him. Should I date him?
Q. i've known this guy for close to three years now, and he has been there all this while doing nothing but watching me. He is eight years older than me, and i just liked him, because he was one person who loved to put smiles on my face. We went along ...
A. 17 March 2013: He is probably frieghtened because your a virgin, and he has never had one. I knew a guy like that, that married a virgin and was scared to death. I would not give that (virginity) to anyone but your husband. It is a gift for your husband only. If ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend didn't feel well and asked to go home. I'm sad that he didn't want me to stay with him
Q. My roommate went on vacation, so I have the whole house to myself. I told my boyfriend we should have a night just for us. We agreed to meet on a coffee shop. When I got there he told me he had the worst back pain. Our friends were there too a...
A. 17 March 2013: Somethings up, sounds like he didn't want to spend time with you, but could tolerate clubbing. Are you sure he didn't get picked up at his place, and go clubbing, or have a party waiting there perhaps? Think I would have went the distance to check ... (read in full...)
Resentment getting the better of me- silent treatment from husband
Q. Hi every love guru My husband and I fight alot. And while I am usually the one to hold my temper, last night got the better of me. I said some sad stuff- like would he be open to me seeing other people and I wished he were dead. Awful, I know, but ...
A. 17 March 2013: If he loves you, he will realize you are tired, and didn't mean what you said, However, his job is to work Daily at pleasing you, and yours is to work Daily at pleasing him. Neither should ever do or say anything that they wouldn't want done or said ... (read in full...)
Some dating mistakes to avoid.
Q. School Girl Errors There seems to be a flood of questions associated with infidelity etc, I have compiled a list of common mistakes I have noticed I have also made, not sure if some of them are obvius but here goes; - If a guy is acting cold...
A. 17 March 2013: If my man likes porn, that's his honey not me, I'm gone.
... (read in full...)
Lots of lies lots of cheating. Should we put our marriage back together?
Q. I'll keep this short as I can. I'm married to a woman for 26 years. She walked out 4 years ago. She had been cheating for years before I found out. I tried to fix my end, doing anything and everything to get our marriage back, nothing helped. I...
A. 17 March 2013: Ask her if she is willing to pray with you each evening before bed, the Family that prays together, stays together. Also ask her and yourself if you are willing to spend every day making the other Happy. Also agree, that neither will do anything to ... (read in full...)
Should I just let her go? I feel like everything is one sided and I can't sleep or work right
Q. so here is the story reader digest version. 3.5 years together First year of the relationship apart (no problems) Moved into together in year 2 lived with each no problems. The place we were living, girlfriend said she didn't see us raising a...
A. 17 March 2013: The song, When a man loves a woman, also applies to women. When you love someone, you work daily to please that person, and never do anything to them that you don't want done to you. The same applies to your mate, if they love you, they want to be ... (read in full...)
| *herrig's friends
These are mutual friends, so *herrig has
added them and they have added *herrig!
|
