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writes:My gf and I have been together for two years now. She is known to lie now and again. A few weeks back we got into a big fight because I was getting an apartment but didn't think it was best for her to move in. I told her we could still hang out as always and she can come over when ever. I just dont think living together was best. We actually broke up from this fight an it was on a Friday. Long story short a week later we get back together and decide to work on things. Of course she asked me if i have seen any one during the week. I wanted to be honest as this is the foundation of any relationship. So i told her yes. I seen this girl and we went to dinner and a movie. We also kissed. That's honestly all that happened and i told her. She then told me she talked to her ex and how they talked for hours after midnight because that's when he got out of work. She then said how he told her about his gf and how happy he was with her. Fast forward to the other day and i overheard her and her girl friend who she hasn't seen in a while. She says omg i almost forgot to tell you. My bf and i broke up a month ago and that was on a Friday and on Saturday i messaged my ex on Facebook and got his number. We hung out Saturday night at the bar and i held him and he kissed me and we made out all night. Ok so my question is this. I can honestly care less that this happened. What pisses me off is she asked me what i did and i was completely honest with her. Then she tells me one thing then it turns out to be bullshit. After confronting her she says oh it was when we weren't together. Shes failing to see my point. She lied to my face after i told her the truth. She claims im her best friend and how she loves that we have no secrets. Now shes mad at me for being mad at her.
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reader, sherrig +, writes (17 March 2013):
Girls usually make things sound better to their girlfriends, she may or may not have made out all night with her ex, but were you truthful when you gave her an excuse why she, the woman you are supposed to care about could not move in with you? I don't think you told her that she would be in the way of you partys' with guys and dolls that you planned to have in your new apartment. That was a slap in the face and I'm sure she new why she was uninvited to live with you. Feel bad when your honey says new apartment, get lost, you bet. Good Luck You will probably be rid of her soon at your pace.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 March 2013):
Agreed with Chigirl. She is a liar, and always has been. Best to just cut this one out.
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reader, harchi  +, writes (16 March 2013):
 i dnt c any reason y she should be angry bc she's the one who isnt honest here. She doesnt really know how to come out from her shadow n start been honest with everyone especially u since u are together.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (16 March 2013):
 Look... she's known to lie, so what did you expect? Honesty? You can't expect honesty from a girl who is known to lie. If you want to be mad at anyone be mad at yourself for going back to her. You broke up for a reason, and that reason is still there.
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