She's out of my league... is she?
Q. ok I know this girl at work, she's amazing, we share the same sense of humour. She's smart and we have a lot in common but I need to know if she likes me, we do all the flirty stuff etc but I don't know if she's just being friendly? Anyway she's ...
A. 23 February 2008: First of all, I want to wish you a happy 18th birthday! And I think that everything will go good for you on your special day. Just be a gentleman and treat her with respect, she will treat you with respect. Why don't you ask her out for coffee or ... (read in full...)
Should I give blow jobs at parties because all my friends do it?
Q. i am 16 and go to quite a lot of parties with people my age (house parties) whenever i go all my friends go and give head (blow jobs) and seem to think nothing of it. and some of then often have the favour returned. i am th eonly one who doesn't ...
A. 31 January 2008: If all your friends where jumping off a 200 foot cliff, does it mean that you have to do it? Of course not! Don't do something because your friends are doing it. They are the ones that are getting bad reputations as "easy". Just stick to your ... (read in full...)
Do I chose my family or the love of my life?
Q. i am a hindu girl.i am in love with a christian boy.my family is against this affair.they want me to marry a hindu .but i cant.we love each other so much.he is very sincere and loving.but then i dont want to hurt my parents.what will i do.i want my ...
A. 31 January 2008: As long as you love each other and he treats you right, you should go with your heart. Maybe your parents will change their mind when they see how much you love him and how he treats you. Then you two should pray about your situation.
I hop... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be TOO nice to women?
Q. How do I avoid being nice towards women? I've had relationships but they always end in me getting dumped. My best friend says its because im too nice. what does he mean?...
A. 31 January 2008: Being nice to women and treating them with respect, I think, is a virtue. Most women love being treated nice and it will pay off big time. It leads to long-lasting relationships, and you will be happy for that.
You will run into women who will... (read in full...)
My bf said his ex was a very nasty person, then resumes contact with her. What does this tell about him?
Q. When you date a guy for 1 year and 4 months and he said hes totally into you, but when he starts talking to ex which he said "she was bitch and i never ever liked her." and plus adds her on myspace. what does that mean? b/c i dont want to tak...
A. 31 January 2008: I would worry if my guy did the same thing. I would be very cautious if I were you. Why after a year with you he is still in contact with her, and on Myspace? If he said that she was not a good person, then he shouldn't make an effort to keep in ... (read in full...)
Should I grow my hair long?
Q. I am thinking of growing my hair long. i am a ginger 13 YR old boy and have been told by my classmates that i would not suit long hair. i still want to grow it though. they say that gingers cant have long hair. i am also wondering what style i ...
A. 31 January 2008: I think if you want to grow your hair long, then go for it. If you have the ok from your parents, then go for it. Don't listen to what others say, it's your life.
You mentioned that you have a round face, then go for a hairstyle that will mak... (read in full...)
How can we get his ex to leave us alone?
Q. I've known my boyfriend 12 years then we got together. I have a fear of losing my boyfriend because his ex (who was with for 4 years) messed with and is still messing with his head. She’s crazy, she stalks him and talks to friends and family about ...
A. 29 January 2008: I agree with birdynumnums, if she takes drugs all day, and there are childred involved, your boyfriend has a good chance to get custody of his child. Have him call CPS so they can check on the situation. Then when he gets custody, I think... (read in full...)
I feel bullied in my relationship.I want to leave, but I love him.
Q. For the past two years, I have fell head over heels for a man that just seems to not have the same emotional function as i do. Lately I have felt the pain and agony, of what it is really like, to have someone who you really care about just shove ...
A. 29 January 2008: You are quite young, and I think that you need to find someone else that will treat you with respect and love. I know it hurts, for I was in the same boat as you. I cried and cried and prayed to God for that relationship to work out. My friends ... (read in full...)
What is a good diet to loose weight?
Q. Hey My Boyfriend And I Have An 'Intimate' Relationship... However I Feel Self Consious About My Tummy. I Am Not OverWeight Like Loads But I Am Not A Szie 6 Either :( I Have Been Thinking About Going On A Diet Of Rice Crackers (( You Know The...
A. 29 January 2008: Just don't load up on lots of sugar. When you do, it will be turned to fat. Your liver is the organ that stores excess sugar and fat. When you over-do fat, it stores it in the fat cells, and the sugar is stored in glycogen cells. Your body has ... (read in full...)
In a relationship for two years, still happy with him... But there's somebody else. I don't know which one I want. How can I decide?
Q. I'm in a 2 year relationship with a lovely guy. He's caring and we have a lot in common in terms of our principles,and I would have always said that we loved each other and saw our future together. We have complete trust which I know is really ...
A. 24 January 2008: I think that it would be wise for you to stay in the relationship with this wonderful man who treats you with respect and trust!! And you stated that you're still happy with him!! My word, girl what are you thinking? Throwing away a wonderful ... (read in full...)
Furious over cheat claims... But what can I do about it???
Q. I need some advise people! I was out on a night out a few months ago with some friends from my uni and while out we invited a man to join us. we were all dancing with him, then i got left with him. 5 minutes later i was being accused of cheating on ...
A. 24 January 2008: I think that by her spreading rumors that you cheated on your boyfriend with another man is that she wants him to leave you so she can make a play for him. I think that it is so despicable of her to do that to you. I don't blame you for being ... (read in full...)
How do I handle competition?
Q. I love someone. He loves someone else. She's beautiful. And I've just found out that she has an an amazing voice too. How am i meant to take his attention away from her? She's just using him. I don't want to see him hurt, not again....
A. 24 January 2008: If you just be yourself and don't worry too much about the situation on your crush and his user girlfriend. You said that she has an amazing voice, and if she is smoking cigarettes she won't for very long. You also said that she has a beautiful ... (read in full...)
How can I be strong enough to leave or deal with his having cheated even during my pregnancy?...
Q. My husband was sleeping with this other girl before we were married, he was actually dating her behind my back. He didn't break up with her until after we were married and he kept sleeping with her. We have been married less than 2 years and he ...
A. 24 January 2008: Kick this horse's butt to the curb immediately!!! You and your son can find much better life, but not with this user loser. He surely isn't intelligent enough to know how to treat a lady like yourself. Believe me, there are guys out there that ... (read in full...)
Are these signs indicators of my period? When should I expect it?
Q. I'm really worried about when my periods start and ive been having like a white discharge for about 1 year and I also have bad cramps any Idea when my periods will start?...
A. 24 January 2008: I was 12 when I started my period. I can remember the cramps that I had before the initial start of it. You should have your parents make a doctor's appointment so she can check out the white discharge and make sure everything is alright. Don't ... (read in full...)
I do not have a driver's license yet, thus feel a bit embarassed. Is this a huge deal?
Q. Im almost 30yr old. And Im terrified of driving. So therefore I still haven't obtained my drivers license. Now is this a huge deal breaker for men ??? I don't lie about it but at the same time Im a little ashamed at times so I don't bring it up ti...
A. 24 January 2008: Hey don't worry about not having a driver's license...I don't have one either, but I can drive a car anywhere. I will eventually get one and I am not going to worry about when. I am not embarrassed about it and you should feel that way. Tell ... (read in full...)
What do we do about visitation for the children now we are splitting?
Q. I have come to end of my relationship of ten years.I belive its OVER!! After ten years,and 3 kids he recently TOLD me we have no future together.I have put up with his manic depression,his affair,his mental,verbal and physical abuse.Him twisting ...
A. 23 January 2008: I feel for you and your children. But you don't need to have a man that you dearly love being abusive mentally, physically, and verbally to you. It's also not good for the children to go through all of this. 10 years is much too long a time for ... (read in full...)
Is he dating these other women (some are prostitutes) or... is he just helping them financially, like he claims?
Q. I was dating for 1month a man who is almost double my age. I really loved him and i think he does too. But the problem is a lot of women calls him and he try to answer them by saying he is with his GF. and i told him to ask them all not to call... i ...
A. 23 January 2008: I would be very cautious if I were you. I was in this situation with this one guy I used to be with. He also had lots of women calling him. He told me that they were just friends and never had sex with them. I found out later that he was lying ... (read in full...)
I won't be his first sexual partner, so now he's mad at me! What is up with this man?
Q. hi ive been having some problems with one of my male friends, im 24 and hes 34. we met early last year and have since become good mates, however recently he has told me that he is a virgin and thinks i am the girl he would like to have his first ...
A. 23 January 2008: He could have feelings for you and you turned him down. That is the reason why he is acting that way towards you. I don't think that he was only going to use you for sex. Maybe he was saving himself for the right person. It is rare where I live ... (read in full...)
How do I make her feel the love that I have for her?
Q. i am in love with a girl in my college but i cant propose her because of the fear that how will she react.she is a very good and serious student.we are even not good friends.what i must do to make her feel that i really love her within next two ...
A. 23 January 2008: Be a complete gentleman and have respect and don't act like you are stalking her, it might scare her away. Ask her out to dinner or for coffee and see what happens if you haven't done it already. Get to know her and what she likes to do and if you ... (read in full...)
I'm loney, sad and bitter! How can I find happiness?
Q. Im so god damn stressed and depressed. I feel like my life is a load of crap and it will never get better. At work, i feel like im not good enough for them, im just to common, I girl that likes to have a good time, im not stuck up my own arse! M...
A. 23 January 2008: What Laura1318 said is right on the money. I always try to smile even when I am not feeling good. Try smiling more even when you don't feel like it. It helps me to feel better about myself. Try getting a positive attitude rather than a ne... (read in full...)
Why do younger men fall for older women?
Q. Why do younger men fall for older women? This keeps happening to me, and lately a relationship with a man 9 years younger is getting quite serious... I am worried that this is just a passing fancy....
A. 23 January 2008: Younger men fall for older women because they LOVE them. It is not a passing fancy, so don't worry about it. My son married a woman 12 years older than him, and couldn't be any happier. He was married before to a much younger girl, and she me... (read in full...)
Delayed answers, single sentenced. Anything I can do to raise his interest or should I write this off?
Q. I met a guy through a writing group and I immediately liked him. He was friendly with all the girls in my group, so I found it hard to tell if he would ever consider me as more than a friend. When we first met he would email me nearly constantl...
A. 23 January 2008: Maybe he is so busy he doesn't have time to write back to you with a long letter. How well do you know this guy, he might be married or have a girlfriend and never said anything about his private life. Or he could be very busy with his job outside ... (read in full...)
Completely and utterly fallen for someone that I cannot have, my ex's best friend. How to dismiss these feelings?
Q. I have completely and utterly fallen for someone that I can't have. I know it's stupid. And it's 99.9% definite i can't have him. he's my ex's best friend and he's not looking for a relationship at all. even if he was he wouldn't ever go for me b...
A. 23 January 2008: First of all take time out for you. Get a new hairstyle,a new hair color, some new clothes, just take time out for you. Just don't make it obvious to him that you are hopelessly in love with him and ready to jump his bones. That could scare him ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like my speaking style and he cuts me off. Why is he so rude to me?
Q. My b/f of 3 yrs.is continually cutting me off in the middle of something I'm saying because he says I "take too many words to tell a story"...he wants simple yes, no, and very few words. The least amount of words possible to say whatever I need to ...
A. 23 January 2008: I also been where you are now with your bf. My bf told me that I talked too much in detail, and to shorten it up, too! But he also said some horrible things to me, that were so verbally abusive that almost ruined my self-esteem. I never had other ... (read in full...)
My wife's sexual past disgusts me--over 20 guys from the age of 16-18!!
Q. When me and my wife first hooked up, she was 18 and had me thinking she had been with two guys before me. Then the first lie came to light when I had to take a DNA test for our first son, because on a trip back home she had sex with "a friend". So ...
A. 23 January 2008: One thing I should say is that it was in her past, and it should stay there. She was just a kid then and didn't think of the consequences it could have. That was way before she met you and has nothing to do with your relationship. You shouldn't ... (read in full...)
I may have an STD and if I do...does this mean my bf may have cheated on me?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months now, we have a great relationship and i love him loads. A couple of weeks ago i started noticing little lumps down below and i think i may have a STD or something (its quite sore and the skins gone b...
A. 23 January 2008: That's good that you have a doctors appointment. That will put your mind at ease. But how you explained it, it sounds to me that you might have infected hairs that are bumpy and they hurt. If you shave the hair down there, it could be bumps from ... (read in full...)
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