Will this regret ever fade away?
Q. I’m 28 and newly married. I love my wife and the life that I have with her except that I am riddled with regret over missed opportunities. I can’t go a minute without wishing I had sowed my oats before getting married. I never had the desire t...
A. 14 August 2009: Chill out! Be proud that you have morals. Just because she slept around, doesn't mean that you should have. Whatever you do, don't commit adultery because you are going through a phase. Be happy that she settled down for you and that she didn't have ... (read in full...)
My grandma keeps hitting on me..
Q. I'm 19 years old, and in college, studying technology and design. We go down to my grandparents' house every other weekend. In the past few weeks my grandmother has been trying to touch my bottom in a sexual manner, and it's made me feel up...
A. 13 August 2009: It sounds like your grandmother needs some serious help. I wouldn't ever leave my self alone with her. Whenever your mom, dad, grandpa etc. leave the room, try to go with them. You can also set your grandma up by recording her whenever she tries to ... (read in full...)
The girl I slept with is pregnant but the condom didn't split. How else could she be pregnant?
Q. i have had protected sex but the girl has become pregnant and i dont think the condom split are there anny other ways she became pregnant?...
A. 8 August 2009: If you are certain that the condom didn't break, then there is no way the baby is yours. She may have slept with someone else.... (read in full...)
How do I forgive him for cheating on me with 6 different women?
Q. okay i have been with my kids father for about five years we have two beautiful children together we have known each other for a total of about nine years. he recently confessed that he cheated on me with six other females, okay dont call me crazy ...
A. 4 August 2009: Well it's obvious you aren't over his cheating. You treating him like this isn't going to help the relationship at all. if you want to save your relationship, seek some couples counseling.... (read in full...)
Haven't spoken in a year but I'm madly in love
Q. When I was in HS I met this guy who became a good friend of mine.I never told him this but I loved him with all my heart and soul.I still love him til this day.I haven't talked to him in a yr and i'm goin insane w/out him.I recently found out that ...
A. 4 August 2009: I'm pretty sure that you two will bump into each other again. Get into a conversation with him when you do and if you feel right doing this, tell him how you feel.... (read in full...)
Torn between my husband the guy I'm obsessed with
Q. I don't know what to do. I've been with my husband for 2 years but we got married a few months ago. I'm not happily married. He neglects me a lot. He can't work due to an accident he had and part of me feels torn. Two years ago I met this guy and ...
A. 4 August 2009: Take some time to really sit down to think about this. Which relationship are you going to be the most happy in? The grass may not be greener on the other side. Whatever your decision is, make sure that it will have no regrets.... (read in full...)
Why is my cousin's wife so angry with me?
Q. Ok so I haven't talked to my ex for a few years now because he is a jerk, I used to be good friends with my cousins wife or at least though we were, and recently she was talking to my parents saying how she's glad that I don't talk to my ex anymore ...
A. 4 August 2009: I don't think that she's mad at you, she may feel guilty about what she's doing. She knows that you aren't dumb and found out what's going on. If she really is mad and not guilty, she may be mad at you because she feels that you are a threat and ... (read in full...)
He wasn't making me feel good, so I broke up! Should we try again?
Q. Well... my boyfriend and I been dating close to a year, never been perfect, he sucks in bed, but I have fallen in love regardles. For some reason, can't explain it why, he casues for me to withdraw, I like him and want to be cheerful and happy ...
A. 24 July 2009: Time will heel. If he wasn't making you feel good, then why would you want to pursue something with him? You're just expieriencing the mourning process of a breaking up.... (read in full...)
How do I get her number without insinuating anything?
Q. Hi people, i need some advice desperately... So pls pls reply! Im 22 yrs old, and a very shy guy. I started a job (2 months) and there is this girl at work i really like. Now i got to know her slightly over the time, we talk on breaks or lunche...
A. 24 July 2009: Try to get to get to know her as a friend first. Then ask for her number. Then when you are ready, try to take things to the next level.... (read in full...)
How do I get my psycho boyfriend to come back? And then when he does how do I make him work for it?
Q. hi, ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i have recently lost my virginity to him. I love him more than anything and want to be with him for the rest of my life. However, we have manyyyy fights and basically fight over ...
A. 24 July 2009: He's hiding something and doesn't want you to find out about whatever he is hiding. Ask him what his problem is and explain to him how you feel.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with him staring at me all the time at work?
Q. okay I have been working at my same job for about three years. I always remain true to myself, I know I am attractive, and that I am a people person. well, there's this guy at my job, from the beginning when he got hired to now we have been staring ...
A. 24 July 2009: Distance your self from him. Quit staring at him and get your mind off of him as best you can. If he continue's to stare, ask him why does he continue to look at you.... (read in full...)
I'll bet you've never read a more messed up story than this one!
Q. Right then there is a girl who i can say honestly isnt a hotty but she is beautiful i mean truly beautiful an angel among men and her personality is to die for. I love her to the ends of time i would go through hell and stay there for 1 million ...
A. 24 July 2009: Find you a new crush. She's really into James and you need to move on. If you this that he is a jerk, that's your opinion not hers.... (read in full...)
Freakish foreskin?
Q. Ok, I'm 19, and I've never really been concerned about the fact that I'm uncircumcised, but today I tried on my first condom, it got all bunched up due to foreskin problems, and one thing lead to another and I got online checking all sorts of things ...
A. 24 July 2009: The only thing i can tell you to do is to get circumsized. I hate to tell you this but most women want circumsized guys.... (read in full...)
My BF says if I loved him I would have sex with him
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 39. he said he loves me and if I loved him I would have sex with him. what should i do?...
A. 24 July 2009: Don't let anyone pressure you into sex. If you aren't ready, then don't do it. If he can't except that leave. Tell him if he loved you, he would respect you and wait until you are ready.... (read in full...)
How can I make my penis bigger without pills?
Q. is there any way to make your dick bigger without pills or nothin that costs alot of money? like naturally really im fourteen and my dick is a litte over five inches hard two inches wide. is that normal size? if not how do you make it bigger? ...
A. 23 July 2009: I've read and answered one of your questions before I think. Wait and let puberty take it's course. Some people have long, some people has short. No one's penis is the same.... (read in full...)
17 and only find men over 40 attractive
Q. As you have probably seen from my last post I am in love with my teacher. But I only seem to be attracted to older men, I dont know why. I have never felt any affection to boys my age. Im 17 years old, im quite friendly to one guy who kissed me th...
A. 23 July 2009: I see nothing wrong with this. If this is what you, your mind, your body, and your feel, then pursue it.... (read in full...)
His ex can't get over him!
Q. so my boyfriend broke up with his girlfriend and now we are together. she still calls him, emails him, shows up at his house. she even goes past boundaries and calls me! she still acts like they are together. she will go from acting like they are...
A. 23 July 2009: It sounds like home girl has some problems. This stalking behavior is starting to get serious. You and your boyfriend need to tell her off because she's ruining the relationship. Take care of this now before she's brakes into your house with a knife ... (read in full...)
If he likes me why isn't he speaking to me!!
Q. So me and this boy like each other We used to talk or actually text everyday Now it all stopped We would talk like once or maybe twice a week Recently I was talking to him through text and he asked me " I know this sounds wierd but do u still...
A. 23 July 2009: Maybe he's afraid of getting closer to you. Ask him this since he still likes you. It's possible that you two will be in a relationship.... (read in full...)
Want to have sex with my boyfriend but worried about how my 'stubble' down there looks!
Q. right, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month now and we both have decided we want to have sex. But i'm a virgin and i'm really nervous but i've also told my boyfriend this. The problem is, he keeps asking me if i shave, and i do, ...
A. 23 July 2009: If you get your stubble down there again before you have sex with him, then shave it off. Tell him about this and maybe you to can find a solution about this.... (read in full...)
I feel addicted to sex... How much is too much?
Q. my boyfriend and i have sex constantly. Its my wanting to most of the time. But he doesn't want to sometimes because he says we have sex every day. I'm just always in the mood when it comes to him. Am i addicted to sex? I feel like i need it ...
A. 23 July 2009: It's your decision and his decision on how much sex you have. If he doesn't want to, then don't force it on him. Ask him how he feels about your constant need for sex, then go from there.... (read in full...)
She knew that it would be a short-term relationship, but now she is pregnant
Q. Hi, I have been dating a girl for nearly a year, I'm on holiday in the UK and we both know that I was going back to Aus in the end, I have been completely honest from the start about all that. I leave in 6 weeks, and she just told me she is pregnant ...
A. 22 July 2009: If you are not in love, then why would you be having unprotected sex with her and why would you be dating her for a year? Well your crazy actions resulted in a baby and you are responsible for it. Be there for it. This does not mean that you have to ... (read in full...)
Why has my boyfriend started calling me names and being horrible?
Q. hey guys (: ive been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months now, weve generally been really happy together although he is rather prone to mood swings (a couple of times we almost ended the relationship over them). recently we spent a week together...
A. 22 July 2009: I think he's trying to make you break up with him by being mean and hurting your feelings. If this is true, he's better off just telling you straight out that he wants to go his own way.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my teacher to back off?
Q. Im concerned that my drama teacher likes me in a kinda wrong way. I like her too but it'd wrong to have a relationship with her. Shes about 24 and shes all ways making inuendo with me. Started off as some good ol' fashioned crudeness now its just ...
A. 22 July 2009: Please do not make this another Mary Kay Letourneau story. Let her know staright up that you do not want to get into it with her like that. Give her a reality check.... (read in full...)
His performance in bed is so disappointing I'm not sure I want to see him again! Should I tell him?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a very short time, He invited me to his place for a meal the other night. After a few glasses of wine, we ended up in bed. I was very dissapointed in his performance, to say the least. He was too rough, and didnt bother...
A. 22 July 2009: Maybe you should play intimate games with him. Let him know when he does things that you like in these games. Hint him on things that you want him to do. If this doesnt't help, there is always KY Brand Yours and Mine if they have that in the UK. ... (read in full...)
I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?
Q. my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ...
A. 22 July 2009: You need to go to a doctor.... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend, but we want to sleep together and I'm worried about the size of my penis. What should I do?
Q. the girl i liked she said she liked me too but she has a bf an idk what to do. she said that it is ok that we have sex but neither of us have ever done it before. i like her alot an when we do finally have sex i want it to make her like me even ...
A. 22 July 2009: First of all, don't you want to lose your virginity when you have a girl that you can call yours? Secondly, I don't think that there is nothing you can do to make your penis bigger. If you really want to do this, you just have to be confident about ... (read in full...)
My sister's husband cheated on her with her best friend! Is there any way back from this?
Q. Help! My younger sister recently found out that her husband and her best friend have been having an affair. My sister and her husband have 2 young children. Her husband wants her and the children back and the woman he was sleeping with said ...
A. 22 July 2009: Your sister doesn't need a dog like this. She can do much better. She needs a new start in life without her soon to be ex and her best friend. Divorce is the best option because there is no way that the relationship will have trust because of what ... (read in full...)
My parents want me to have a baby so they can look after it!
Q. im a 17 year old girl living in the UK! recently, my parents have been a little immature and stupid i think to be honest. my parents have been trying for another baby since i was 2, but were told for personal reasons she will find it very difficult ...
A. 22 July 2009: There are so many other ways to have be able to raise a child. Your mother could adopt or, if your father is still able to concieve, she could have a surrogate mother. She will be taking away the joy of motherhood from you if you go along. Give her ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can walk away. What do I do?
Q. I know my boyfriend loves me, he does tell me this and we would could potentially have a good life together in the future. We complement each other quite well. He's helped me with a lot of things in my life and helped me try to accept who I am. T...
A. 16 July 2009: He may not know what he wants. He wants finish expieriencing other girls. The only problem with that is you may not be around once he realizes that he wants you. Trust me, no man wants to be in a relationship that he may be forced in. Another thing, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is an ass, a jerk, inconsiderate and makes me cry
Q. Okay, same guy if you've read my questions before. Last night me and my boyfriend were doing things sexually, and i couldnt get him off...this has happend a couple times before and hes drunk...its been an hour or more and he still wants me to keep ...
A. 16 July 2009: You need to get rid of him. It's going to lead to actually raping you I think. This is not even the only awful thing he's done to you either. You need to leave. I haven't read your other questions. Did they have to do with physical abuse? If this ... (read in full...)
Should I have a baby or just wait a few years?
Q. : )i really want a babyi mean really want one i concider my self quite mature and think i would be able to handle it i have 3 neices and a nephew all under the age of 5 and i have a great time looking after them even when the are stressing me ...
A. 16 July 2009: I think that you should wait. Remember you don't actually have to raise the nieces and nephew so that maybe why it seems easy to do. Don't you want to have your mind focused on something more appropiate for your age like prom or something like that? ... (read in full...)
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