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writes:I'm 19 years old, and in college, studying technology and design.We go down to my grandparents' house every other weekend.In the past few weeks my grandmother has been trying to touch my bottom in a sexual manner, and it's made me feel upset. She's tried to slap it too, and once asked me to strip to a thong for her on her 64th birthday next year. (she did this when my dad had gone out to the car to get something, and my grandad had gone the bathroom). She told me I was "hunky" and that I should get into bed with her soon.I told my parents but they just thought I was being stupid. I insisted I wasn't. but they ignored me.They thought I was being a "typical teen".It makes me shudder going down. My grandad doesn't realize, I haven't told him because I worry about his reaction.This behaviour is WEIRD, seriously weird.I feel freaked out and don't want to go down, but feel I have to.Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Tell her you're not interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Hmm this is an odd one! Its strange how some older women still long for love and sex eh? My grandma keeps saying that I'm "busty" and I'll have "no trouble" finding a boy! I suppose she just wants to complement you in a way. You could politely suggest she hires a stripper for her 64th birthday and playfully tell her to get off your bum. You could also tell her that the man who should be in bed with her is her husband. Does her husband realise how promiscuous and desperate she is? Sorry but it's quite freaky looking at your grandson in that way... I wish you the very best of luck my dear!
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reader, S-Breeze13 +, writes (13 August 2009):
It sounds like your grandmother needs some serious help. I wouldn't ever leave my self alone with her. Whenever your mom, dad, grandpa etc. leave the room, try to go with them. You can also set your grandma up by recording her whenever she tries to get fresh with you again. Then play it for your parents.
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reader, MonicaC +, writes (13 August 2009):
 Well, your granny sure sounds like an odd duck. I don't know anything about her except what you've told us here, but perhaps she has a drinking problem or takes medication that makes her lose her inhibitions? I'm just guessing here; I could be totally wrong. But, her behavior is way out of character for a typical 64 year old granny.
There are, of course, exceptions to the rule, and your granny could just be a perv. I don't know. My advice would be for you to ask your parents whether she's on heavy prescription drugs or has an alcohol problem. If that is the case, cut her some slack and understand that she is kind of out of it. If that is not the case, then you should tell your family that granny makes you uncomfortable and you don't want to go there.
Good luck. xo
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