The love of my life actually hates me...
Q. I was in a relationship with somebody for a year. Don't laugh, but it was only ever an online relationship. We talked on the phone, we talked every day on messengers, we had webcams, all of that stuff. Honestly, she was the first person I've ever ...
A. 18 April 2010: Thanks a lot you guys, that was possibly the most friendly advice I've ever been given :) I know I'm not the only person to go through this, I tell myself that every day, so I still don't get how I can feel this way after so long when other people ... (read in full...)
Computer game idea for g/f?
Q. Hi guys, I'll keep this short and sweet. I'm a computer games development student, and I want to make a nice little game for my girlfriend to play, nothing big and complex, but I want it to be fun and entertaining as well as cute and a reminder t...
A. 2 December 2009: Hi guys,
Wow, thanks a lot for your replies, they're actually really good :D
She is a casual gamer, she does play an MMO, but she's not in any way hardcore (I have more experience in one skill than she does for all her skills put together *bl... (read in full...)
Computer game idea for g/f?
Q. Hi guys, I'll keep this short and sweet. I'm a computer games development student, and I want to make a nice little game for my girlfriend to play, nothing big and complex, but I want it to be fun and entertaining as well as cute and a reminder t...
A. 1 December 2009: She enjoys photography, soccer and gaming, especially online :3
She likes things that are cute, funny, and not particularly challenging, something you can just do when you feel like it without having to spend hours on it, of course that sounds c... (read in full...)
He's 6 years older than me but I really have feelings for him, its an online romance
Q. Ok so basiclly i'm quite young and i live in another country to this other guy who is 20 and 6 years older than me and he isn't a perv or nothing due to the plain and simple fact i lied about my age i look older anyways and i'm more mature so when i ...
A. 26 September 2009: I must say, I am disgusted at some of the responses on this thread, I really am.
Almost every single one of the responses mentions "He might not be who he says he is", and fine, he might not, but what if he, bear with me... actually IS who he s... (read in full...)
I really want to go out with her, but she has a boyfriend!
Q. I need help! Basically I Bi (well I have never been with a girl but am seriously interested in them... eg. watches Bi and Les porn)... Anyway, I'm Bi and none of my friends at school no this. But there is one girl I at school I SERIOUSLY like. ...
A. 19 September 2009: I don't think it's really fair to break a relaltionship apart just for what you want. Sorry to say it but I think you should keep looking for somebody else to be with.... (read in full...)
I want to meet her but she seems happy with our online relationship
Q. Hey guys, My girlfriend and I have been in an online relationship for 9 months, we've not met in real life yet, and she told me this Sunday she has a family party, and jokingly said I should come to it. In response to that I said "I could very ea...
A. 17 September 2009: Hey all,
I had a talk with her last night, and she said that of course it would be nice if she could have a physical presence in her life, but if it's not me, it's not anybody, and she's prepared to sacrifice that for as long is it takes to be wi... (read in full...)
I want to meet her but she seems happy with our online relationship
Q. Hey guys, My girlfriend and I have been in an online relationship for 9 months, we've not met in real life yet, and she told me this Sunday she has a family party, and jokingly said I should come to it. In response to that I said "I could very ea...
A. 16 September 2009: Thanks again guys,
Tisha-1, you've consistently made good points for me here, which I appreciate. I'm not asking her to make rest-of-her-life decisions, I just want to meet the girl I fell in love with. I'm preparing myself for both good and bad ... (read in full...)
I want to meet her but she seems happy with our online relationship
Q. Hey guys, My girlfriend and I have been in an online relationship for 9 months, we've not met in real life yet, and she told me this Sunday she has a family party, and jokingly said I should come to it. In response to that I said "I could very ea...
A. 16 September 2009: Another post from me, sorry!
When I said "If that doesn't happen, then I would make a serious decision on whether to move to her country or not." - That is obviously not something to consider until we've at least met in real life first, I wouldn't... (read in full...)
I want to meet her but she seems happy with our online relationship
Q. Hey guys, My girlfriend and I have been in an online relationship for 9 months, we've not met in real life yet, and she told me this Sunday she has a family party, and jokingly said I should come to it. In response to that I said "I could very ea...
A. 16 September 2009: Ooh, some more answers appeared while I was writing, thanks again to all of you for replying :)
We've talked about our relationship status seriously in the past, and she says there's nobody else besides me, not online, not in the real world, a... (read in full...)
I want to meet her but she seems happy with our online relationship
Q. Hey guys, My girlfriend and I have been in an online relationship for 9 months, we've not met in real life yet, and she told me this Sunday she has a family party, and jokingly said I should come to it. In response to that I said "I could very ea...
A. 16 September 2009: Thanks for your replies :)
First off, my girlfriend is 15 (16 on Saturday), and the only reason her parents know about me is because I sent her a birthday present in the mail. I can understand that she found it hard to tell them, I don't think an... (read in full...)
Why do I get the feeling I need to pee when I have sex?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend of over a year and a half. Everytime when we have sex, he always plays with my clit. But I keep getting the feeling like I'm going to pee or something and have to make him stop. He says that he wants to see if I would ...
A. 16 September 2009: That feeling means you're about to ejaculate. It's a good thing :) Next time you get that feeling, go through with it, but warn him beforehand :P
~Rob... (read in full...)
I am pregnant, but my boyfriend isnt the father. Its his brother. Should I tell him?
Q. I'm 15 and im pregnant My boyfriend is not the father of my baby, it is his brothers, his brother knows about it and he too thinks it might be his. Should I tell him the truth or pretend that it is his?...
A. 15 September 2009: How long do you suppose you could get away with pretending it's his baby when it's not? How long until you two have a row and that poor baby becomes a weapon to score points off one-another? There's a reason the age of consent in the UK is 16, ... (read in full...)
How to make masturbation more fun?
Q. how do u wank?? i just do it the normal way, got any ideas to make it more fun??...
A. 15 September 2009: eyeswideopen said:
"Balloons and crepe paper?"
Could you expand on this? I'm interested XD
~Rob... (read in full...)
Females only, please: I'm in love with my sister!
Q. Probably I'm gonna get flamed here but I'm just curious if there are people out there like me and my sister. Everything started out as kid play. We both loved our Barbies and dressed up as princesses. We made up these stories about being save...
A. 15 September 2009: First thing's first: I'm a male, and as the author requested male only posts, feel free to ignore or just not add this.
I'm sorry to have ignored your request, however there a couple of things I would like to mention, whether you choose to read ... (read in full...)
Please help me understand my true feelings...
Q. I am 23 and have been married for only a year and a half. I knew when I married my husband that I wasn't very sexually attracted to him but loved him and knew he would be a great husband. We didn't have sex until we were married and I thought, no ...
A. 14 September 2009: Hey again, Once again, I'm not the best one to give advice regarding this situation, however a part of me believes that some romantic gestures may be in order. You love him, right? There may not be unimagineable chemistry, but if there's love, th... (read in full...)
Please help me understand my true feelings...
Q. I am 23 and have been married for only a year and a half. I knew when I married my husband that I wasn't very sexually attracted to him but loved him and knew he would be a great husband. We didn't have sex until we were married and I thought, no ...
A. 14 September 2009: Hey,
I don't mean to be rude, please don't take this that way, but if your husband does not have all the things you want, why did you marry him in the first place? If he doesn't have what you want, I wouldn't have thought it's possible that you... (read in full...)
I'm so guilty that I cheated on my husband. Should I tell him?
Q. A few days ago, I slept with a male friend while my husband was out of town visiting relatives. It only happened, once, i swear, and I did not intend for it to happen. I didn't set out looking to cheat, it's something that just happened. We'd had a ...
A. 8 September 2009: I think your husband has a right to know the truth. It may hurt him, but in the end, finding out you lied to him will only hurt him more in the end. Tips on what to say, I really couldn't help you with I'm afraid, but I do think you should tell him, ... (read in full...)
Worried about my 16 year old sister dating a man 25
Q. Hai, i need your opinion/advice on this. I have a sister,she's 16,and lately,she's been seeing this guy,he's 25.I dont know where she got him but overall,Im pretty worry bout her.He does seem nice towards her,but thats not the point,im afraid ...
A. 7 September 2009: Just gonna reiterate what the others have said. If these guys seem nice to her then she should be fine. But you should keep an eye on her, as any brother should. Don't question her for details, just tell her you're there if she needs anything or ... (read in full...)
I like masturbating to transexual porn, and I think this may be stopping me from losing my virginity...will things change?
Q. Hi i wrote a question in a while ago saying that i had a problem because i was very confused as i'm striaght but i am attracted to transexuals. Last time i wrote in i sed i was finding myself wanking over transexual porn and hardly ever over ...
A. 7 September 2009: What you're attracted to has no effect on when you'll lose your virginity; only when you meet the right person will you lose it, I'm nearly 21 and still haven't lost it, so don't worry, you've still got three years to go before you catch me ;) (And ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get past my fear of kissing?
Q. i have a problem.i have a lovely boyfriend who loves me and stufff like that.we've been together for a week.the problem is i have never french kissed and i have no experience with this and i'm afraid to do it.i told him this and he said no ...
A. 7 September 2009: Rock 'n' roll said: "13-15. I take it your not even 16 yet then??, and he's 18." What's that gotta do with anything? That doesn't even come close to answering her question. --- Safe to say, if he cares about you, he'll understand your sit... (read in full...)
Would there be a problem with a 19 year old going out with a 15 year old?
Q. Well, I met this girl at a party I recently went to. We had a good laugh and joke plus a nice talk together, cuddle and kiss. Last night I took her to the cinema to watch a film she wanted to see, paid for her and everything including picking her up ...
A. 25 August 2009: Rifraf said: "How strange would this kind of relationship look to outsiders??" Who cares? Their relationship is their business. I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 15, and frankly I couldn't care less if people don't approve, it's my business, not th... (read in full...)
We've started to fool around in the bedroom, but I have no idea what I'm doing!
Q. Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 months now, we're both 16; so of course we're a little 'sexual'. I dont mind when he does stuff to me, but when it comes time for me to do stuff to him, im cluess. I dont know how to give ...
A. 25 August 2009: Sorry, gotta intervene here. RAINORFIRE said: "Oh and if you do suck make sure you swallow your boy will get a real kick out of that." My response, no. Don't listen to that. Swallow if you want to, or don't if you don't. Whether he'll get a ... (read in full...)
I just want to have sex to get it over with.
Q. I am jealous of sex because, I have not had sex yet. I am 17 years old and I never had a girlfriend before, or even kissed a girl. I am forced to lie to everyone that I have had sex so I will not be embarrassed of my virginity. I don't want to wait ...
A. 25 August 2009: Mate, relax. I'm almost 21 years old, still a virgin, I'm currently in my only proper relationship in my life, and that's online, I haven't met her in real life yet, and the only kisses I've ever had are from games of truth or dare. Yeah it's a bi... (read in full...)
Please don't let me be the next 40 year old virgin!
Q. I am 16 and a virgin.. my girlfriend is the same age however she has had sex with one person. She said it was a mistake. We have been dating for a little over 2 months. Every thing is perfect except for every time we try to have sex I go limp. We ...
A. 25 August 2009: I'm almost 21 and I'm still a virgin. It's not something I want to tell people, but I'm not going to lie about it. Although in fairness it's hard to lose your virginity whilst in an online relationship ;D
Old Guy has it spot on, you're going to... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a strong teenage relationship without sex?
Q. So me and my bf have been dating for 5 months now i don't think thats relevent but anyways, I was just wondering if it's possible to have a real strong relationship without sex? Ask questions and give me answers and opinions please. =]....
A. 25 August 2009: Absolutely. Every couple should work their relationship in a way that suits them, if you and your boyfriend want to have a relationship without sex, then that's entirely your choice. If one partner does not want sex, but the other does, then you s... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel insecure this way?
Q. Hi guys, I have a problem. My girlfriend and I have been together online for 8 months now and we both love each other very much. I know she loves me, and I do trust her when she says I'm the only person she wants in the world, so why is it that I...
A. 25 August 2009: Hey,
Thanks for your response :)
I'm nothing like that, I miss her while I can't contact her, obviously, but I'm never checking up on her or stopping her doing what she wants. All the insecurities I have, I keep them to myself and just churn t... (read in full...)
He keeps asking me out, I'm not attracted to him, but I don't like hurting his feelings!
Q. I am on an internet dating site. There is a guy who has emailed me about 30 times. He has asked me out on several occasions, i have almost run out of excuses for not accepting. I am not attracted to him but he seems to be obsessed by me. Should i...
A. 24 August 2009: If I was that man, and you were only going out with me because you don't like to hurt my feelings, I would be devastated. Yes, the truth might hurt him, but it will certainly hurt a lot less now than months down the line if you were to continue to ... (read in full...)
Should I take advantage of her?
Q. I've been in a relationship for about two weeks with a girl that I met online. We are compatible in a variety of ways, and we find each other attractive. However, even before we met in person, I realized that I don't want a relationship, and that I ...
A. 24 August 2009: Two weeks is not a long time. Consider someone you love spending the rest of their life with you, that's a huge amount of time, two weeks is seemingly insignificant in the scheme of things.
If you're not ready for a relationship just yet, you shou... (read in full...)
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