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writes:Hai,i need your opinion/advice on this.I have a sister,she's 16,and lately,she's been seeing this guy,he's 25.I dont know where she got him but overall,Im pretty worry bout her.He does seem nice towards her,but thats not the point,im afraid he's trying to take advantage of her.He's too old for her i guess.So..What should i do on this part?I am NOT trying to be SO Overprotective over her,im her brother,thats what brothers do,AND,im not trying to ruin her 'happiness' ok. Reply to this Question
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reader, RobL  +, writes (7 September 2009):
 Just gonna reiterate what the others have said. If these guys seem nice to her then she should be fine. But you should keep an eye on her, as any brother should. Don't question her for details, just tell her you're there if she needs anything or just wants to talk, and leave it at that. That way she knows you're there to help without wanting every single detail about this guy.As for what quiet-echo says, it's not the same, but I'm 21 in a few weeks, and my girlfriend will be 16 in a few weeks also, and what I see in her, I'm sure, is no different than what any other guy sees in a girl they love (or like), whatever their age.He does need to be careful indeed, and you should probably tell your sister this. If you mention that *he* needs to be careful, that'll go down even better because this way she knows you're not condemning their relationship, you're trying to help, and she'll really thank you for that, whether she actually says it or not ;)~Rob
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reader, Beybii_Boo +, writes (6 September 2009):
 Helloo To be honest its your sisters life and if she really likes him let her be. i understand where yourr coming from mate he is too old for her and could take advantage of her. Just keep a really close eye try and communicate with your sister dont be her brother be a friendd enn talk to he she might open up to you and tell youu if there is anything going on.Email if you need anymore helpBeybii_Boo xx
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