He had an affair so what should I do?
Q. My husband and I have been happily married for five years and have a four year son together. Things seemed fine but then this woman shows up at our door asking for him. She made it clear to me that she would only talk to him and that since she's...
A. 24 January 2010: Definiteiy divorce him! He is selfish and that skank will eventually leave him for some younger man no doubt. But the most important thing here is that even of your son doesn't know now, he will someday find out and stayig with your husband would be ... (read in full...)
What are the main signs that he is only looking for sex?
Q. Hello! I've recently got back together with my boyfriend after i dumped him. I dumped him because of family related problems which made me push him away. My boyfriend felt that in our relationship he/ we had become selfish( not seeing friends etc). ...
A. 23 January 2010: Judging by his emotions he still needs time to evaluate whether you truly care and if he's willing to risk being pushed aside. Maybe he's not sure if he does like you like that anymore, but it seems like he's trying to figure it out without losing ... (read in full...)
My bf's friend is jealous. How can I not come between them?
Q. Right im in a relationship, and have known the guy for over a year so i know all his friends, in particular his closest friend. But this friend at first wasnt too sure about me and has gradually warmed up, but i found out that he gets jealous of me ...
A. 23 January 2010: His best mate sounds very immature. You should talk with Him about it. Ask him why he seems to have a problem with you. He may not have a good answer but at least you tried. You can let him know you don't want any problems because you know they are ... (read in full...)
Facial hair and depression. Could the Pill be causing this?
Q. I need some advice on the pill, I am 26 and never wanted to go on the pill however, I have noticed that I am getting quite a bit of hair on my neck, chin and face, I have read that some forms of the pill can help, I also feel quite depressed just ...
A. 23 January 2010: Yes, it is most likely the pill but apparently can also be caused by depression itself, I just googled it...you should probably talk to your doctor or a pharmasict if it gets really bad. Take care... (read in full...)
How to maintain a level of Respect from a Guy
Q. I am getting to know a guy that requested my friendship online and I am trying to maintain my respect in the process.. what I mean by that is when I gave him my number he replied to my email through text and the reply was kind of on the "fresh" side ...
A. 23 January 2010: Well, ask what he's getting at, let him know you really like him but that his text was suggestive that he is expecting something of you and that you need more time to know him before you will accept that kind of communication, but are flattered (if ... (read in full...)
Please help...I love this girl
Q. Hi, have a question my girlfriend of six months sent me this email the other day.what should I think of this.I care for her deeply.(I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but when I ask for time to get my thoughts and feelings inline, that's pretty ...
A. 23 January 2010: What? That's her email? What's this about 4:30 in the morning? It sounds like she's being honest about feeling confused and overwhelmed with taking care of what other people want when she really just wants space. She doesn't know what she wants and ... (read in full...)
Update: "My wife's boss wants an affair with her"
Q. My wife attended her work Christmas party and her boss said he wanted to have an affair with her and other comments, such as her body it so hot he want to Fuc* her etc. I was furious and confronted her boss. He said it was all in kidding. From ...
A. 23 January 2010: His wife doesn't care because it takes some of the hate off her for a bit. I feel so sorry for her, and for you being frustrated. I dunno where u live or anything but is your wife worried she won't find a job somewhere else? She should be able to ... (read in full...)
Am I bisexual or do I just fancy a tumble with a lesbian?
Q. hi there. i am a very girly girl i love to take care of my appearance and love make up and doing my hair. however i catch myself looking at GIRLS and fantasize of how they would be in bed. i am really attracted to the "tomboy" kind of lesbian ...
A. 23 January 2010: Still a virgin, that's probably a good thing I wish I held onto my v-card longer just to keep it special. Lesbians don't hate bi-girls! Some gays don't trust bi-sexuals because it looks like you can't make up your mind- they are afraid of being ... (read in full...)
There are no more butterflies..bored but scared to let him go!
Q. hey, so i dont really know what im asking. But i know i have a problem. I have been seeing this guy for almost a month. We have been on a few dates and text constantly. When we started seeing each other, he was friends with my friend so she didnt ...
A. 23 January 2010: You're so young! I got into my first relationship at your age and he was 17. Anywho- maybe it's just a mood you're going through right now, but either he's not the guy for you or you just need to Do something new! (Not physically FYI) but see a new ... (read in full...)
High Maintenance...
Q. i need some advice mainly from men.. but women please can you give your opinions too.. are men really put off with high maintenance girls? and whenever they classify a girl as high maintenance what exactly do they mean? Personally i always like my...
A. 23 January 2010: Interesting, I used to wonder the same and eventually downplayed from the way I wanted to dress, later to find that the guy I was with really did prefer me to try my best. Men mainly just seem to get agitated when a woman takes too long, ie; too ... (read in full...)
Husband filed for divorce, but I don't think either of us wants one. What are some ideas for putting my marriage back on track?
Q. Okay. My husband has told me he has filed for divorce. We have been separated for 8 months now. The first 4 months he did have interest in us going to marital counseling and working on our marriage. We had been married for 11 months when we ...
A. 23 January 2010: I wish I could ask you what has happened now. I'm going through a verrry verry similar divorce with my husband. He said he would get better after trying to kill himself in the same way (I had to give the heimleich and call 911). But we were working ... (read in full...)
When does the crappy feeling go away?
Q. I feel so awful! I met with my soon-to be "ex" husband to discuss me filing for divorce. We've been separated for a few years and I guess he thought we'd get back together. So I gave him the opportunity have closure and talk everything through one ...
A. 23 January 2010: PS you giving him "closure" would confuse any sane person who still loves somebody, so stop the head games please.... (read in full...)
When does the crappy feeling go away?
Q. I feel so awful! I met with my soon-to be "ex" husband to discuss me filing for divorce. We've been separated for a few years and I guess he thought we'd get back together. So I gave him the opportunity have closure and talk everything through one ...
A. 23 January 2010: I can't help but agree with anonymous, whom I wish wasn't! I am going through a divorce right now and haven't even been with my husband but for a year and I know the energy of commiting your LiFE to someone you love and your relationship is the ... (read in full...)
Am I doing myself harm by talking to him? I secretly want him back.
Q. My husband and I had a rocky start but I had thought things were getting better (after he attempted suicide this year). He didn't get as much help as we thought he should. We were planning on moving to his home state (Mississippi) in June (from my ...
A. 22 January 2010: Ps. The more I read the more I seem to find that his behavior does seem bi polar. What's scarier still is he's around people who self medicate with alcohol and worse and I really wish I knew that be will be alright and not follow that same dark ... (read in full...)
I am going through a divorce but I still love her!
Q. I have a problem and I need advice. I am going through a divorce and I have custody of my very young children. My wife is severly mentally ill and her mental condition has really collasped over this past year severly bad. She abused the kids so I ...
A. 22 January 2010: God bless you. I'm sorry for what you are going through, I would say stay because I can relate and pray evey day that my marriage will work even though the divorce papers have been signed. I don't know what the answer is but I hope it's out there. I ... (read in full...)
Do I let a married man divorce his wife or should I move on?
Q. Okay heres the deal, I have fallen for a married man, and he likes me as well. Hes going to jeporadize his marriage to be with me. Do i go ahead and let him, that way me and him can be together, or do I just cut contact completely? ...
A. 22 January 2010: Are you from Mississippi?! (LOL...?) please cut the cord, I say this mainly because for all I know I could be the woman on the other end! (Except my husband isnt cheating) Also, It may be karma but I was on your end once and the guy told me he would ... (read in full...)
Does he just need time... or is it really over??
Q. I've been with a guy whom i fell in love with we have been going together for about a year. everything was perfect never argued till one day during the summer of 09 i told him i had gotten a call from my ex husband's friend whom i had stupidly slept ...
A. 22 January 2010: My husband used to do similar as far as being controlling and making me feel awful for my past (I slept with my ex-boyfriends best friend years after we had split and felt bad about it even!)I found out he had more to hide than that and I forgave ... (read in full...)
I am not happy with him and wasn't before we got married either. How do I find the strength to leave him?
Q. I just got married a few months ago. I am not happy with the marriage. I am not in love with my husband. I made a mistake getting married. I knew in my heart that it wasn't right for me, but there was a glimmer of hope things would change after we ...
A. 22 January 2010: Never get married again unless you know what you want for sure, in fact you should probably just never get married again. Leave the good men to those who are loyal and committed. You are disrespecting what marriage stands for, but will more if you ... (read in full...)
Am I doing myself harm by talking to him? I secretly want him back.
Q. My husband and I had a rocky start but I had thought things were getting better (after he attempted suicide this year). He didn't get as much help as we thought he should. We were planning on moving to his home state (Mississippi) in June (from my ...
A. 22 January 2010: I told him in reply to his "nothing can fix our relationship" that that's a straight-out lie and he knows it but it doesn't change the fact that he wants to end it and that I'm just giving him what he wants. He didn't have a response to that. When I ... (read in full...)
My wife and he talk all the time, but when I am there he pretends he doesn't know her
Q. I wrote before about thinking my wife could be cheating on me with my son's coach. It is just driving me crazy. He isn't the coach anymore, but yet he finds reasons to call her still. They were on the phone for an hour the other night and then ...
A. 22 January 2010: I'm very sorry but I think she is considering it, hasn't necissarily done anything yet. Hopefully you can nip it in the bud. Just don't come off as brig offensive or even overly defensive! It's a fine balance. Be honest that it just isn't normal and ... (read in full...)
Starting over with the same woman
Q. so me and this girl who i dated for for about 2 years broke up with me at the beginning of this school year we are in college. now we have started talking again and we are slowly trying to work things out and start a new relationship. the reason she ...
A. 22 January 2010: Awww! Ask her to be in a relationship with you firat of all if you havent. Trust your gut and be honest with her, your love deserves that. Tell her it's not okay and that you have matured and need a mature relationship. Give her some time to adjust ... (read in full...)
I am hoping my boyfriend is jealous and will not break up with me
Q. Hello all, My bf is almost on the verge of breaking up with. He has told me he loves me but is not in love with me. Yes I have peppered him with texts and all but when he said 'you are not giving me space to think' I left him alone. In the ...
A. 22 January 2010: Well, you CAN take the jealousy as a sign that he cares but it can also be anger that the guy disrespected him by hitting on you. Your flatmate sounds like scum. Also, why can't you live with your boyfriend? I think you would have some other option, ... (read in full...)
She wont do what I want sexually, should I break up with her?
Q. Hello, I'd appreciate if it were girls who answered my question, it's not that guys don't have good advice to offer me but it's just that I'd prefer a girl's advice on this one. (Although if you're a guy and really think your piece of advice would ...
A. 22 January 2010: First of all, women and their taste for sex doesn't change over time unless by some drastic experience or knowledge presented to them. If you have given your girlfriend information about what it is you want and try to make her comfortable and she ... (read in full...)
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