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She's married, but won't leave her marriage for me! How do I get over her?
Q. I'm married and have been having an affair with another married women for the past 5 years. My children are married and on their own, she has a 13 year old at home with her and her husband. She has said she will not get a divorce for the sake of her ...
A. 23 November 2010: Lol well then you need to break it off with your wife. Thats not negative thats real. If you arent happy then what are you doing in a marriage? You cant blame anyone but yourself because you choose to stay in the marriage. Why not leave her and go ... (read in full...)
Am I gay? Help!
Q. I don't know why but for some reasson I was just thinking and I thought I was gay. I'm 13 and I masterbate over normal porn and lesbian I've seen my friends penises before and I have never got hard or boner and I've kissed a girl who I like before ...
A. 22 November 2010: Just curious man, but if you dont find men attractive why would you be gay? You're fine man, and too young to be thinking about that... (read in full...)
I kissed a guy when I was drunk, told my boyfriend and now I don't know what to do!
Q. As background, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and were quite happy together. We were near engagement, so it's a very serious relationship. I went to a going away party this weekend and got blackout drunk at the end of the ...
A. 22 November 2010: Lol as you stated I wont tell you my opinion on people drink and party it up like college frat brothers while in a relationship. Especially since you are one of the few who realize the problem. Most women especially do not because they feel its ... (read in full...)
Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?
Q. I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications ...
A. 22 November 2010: :) anytime. Message me if you need anything... (read in full...)
How do I inspire my girlfriend to trust me after having been hurt in her past?
Q. Well recently I started dating this girl. At the moment I treat her like she's the only thin that matters but some how she seems not to take it and rejects it like she dosnt want to get hurt again. She was with her ex for a while and I'm just fin...
A. 21 November 2010: Well you cant MAKE HER do anything. She has to choose to, and she cant let her past bleed into her future. Thing is everyone wants to put their past on the next and thats not fair to the new person. Be kind with her but dont push on the matter as ... (read in full...)
With so much heartache in my life how can I learn to love freely and trust again?
Q. I guess the reason i am writing this is because i have nowhere else to turn too. Its a bit detailed, so sorry about the length. I am a complete Freudian case. My father passed away 2 years ago near my birthday. My mother recently wa...
A. 21 November 2010: hmmm, it isnt easy but it isnt impossible. Thing is, you cant let lifes problems form who you are. If we all did that everyone here would be suicide cases. Your biggest problem is you are focusing to much on the bad in your life and not the good, ... (read in full...)
I do love him a lot, but he just doesn't care! How do I deal with this?
Q. Well I've been with my boyfriend for 5 nearly 6 years, and we had a really bad path for about 7 months and about 2 months ago he moved out for a week and came back. Well he's back and he tells me he does love me but when I say I love you in a text ...
A. 21 November 2010: Lol its not that you arent strong. Love makes people blind where they dont see things for what they really are. People go through this all the time, you just love what you once had but the thing is...its gone. And if he isnt trying to work on it ... (read in full...)
Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?
Q. I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications ...
A. 21 November 2010: Agreed. Either he is playing games or he is scared to come forward. Lol either way both are playing games. Needs to be honest, as do you. You could talk to him about it and see what he says. Or don't respond to advances and see how he reacts about ... (read in full...)
Do I wait another 5 months on him???
Q. As I've said in another question, I've been with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. Like quite a lot of people I'd assume, he's been in his fair share of trouble. About 6 months ago he finished a 12 month prison sentence, and ha...
A. 21 November 2010: If its worth it then wait. But if this is gonna be a constant thing then it isn't fair to you and you CAN be happier. But who am I to tell you how happy you will be? If he is what makes you happy then go for it. ... (read in full...)
Are we really done?
Q. So I broke up with my gf... this time I am sure that its final. Every time I talked to her on cam I was put to the side, im on deployment so its tough on me, then she lies to me. So I donno what to do so I just said we need to take a break, I talk ...
A. 21 November 2010: I Thank you for what you do for the country. I know its hard being away from everyone which leads into my answer......call it quits. You are already going through enough as is and long distance relationships are insanely hard if the two people arent ... (read in full...)
Very confused about my feelings and my online boyfriend
Q. I'm scared, I don't want to leave my country (mexico) right now, I wanna stay here, but I don't see a chance for me to make my dreams come true here that makes me sad, scared and frustrated. I've been thinking a lot in my "online bf" and right now ...
A. 21 November 2010: lol and in no way am I accusing you of such. Just throwing it out there, I would hate for you to be stuck with a baby by someone who mistreats you or isnt the guy for you. You have alot of time for that, see how this visit goes and see where it goes ... (read in full...)
After this heart-wrenching break I wonder if I can ever love again
Q. Well here's my sad story. My ex girlfriend ended things with me about 2 months ago and she has been with a new guy for about the same time as well. She basically left me and started dating this new guy about a week after, which she met while still ...
A. 21 November 2010: lol ahhh been there done that. I have had had a woman leave me for a guy she was friends with and they end up together soon after the break up. Contacting her makes things worse, and you will end up wondering "What if" "Maybe she will come back" ... (read in full...)
I do love him a lot, but he just doesn't care! How do I deal with this?
Q. Well I've been with my boyfriend for 5 nearly 6 years, and we had a really bad path for about 7 months and about 2 months ago he moved out for a week and came back. Well he's back and he tells me he does love me but when I say I love you in a text ...
A. 21 November 2010: You sound nice...that you do. Well, things is sweets, he doesnt care if he is calling you names. And he isnt doing much to prevent suspicion, im not saying you need to check his phone all the time but if I was in his shoes I would do whatever I ... (read in full...)
Getting mixed signals...so is he into me or not?
Q. Ok, so i like this guy at school. We are major flirty when we are together, but when he's with his friends, or when im with my friends, we don't talk, but we do make eye contact. I mean, the only time we don't talk when we're with our friends is at ...
A. 21 November 2010: Not something we can answer. You need to talk to him tell him how you feel. Whats the worst that can happen? Be sure to let him now if he doesn't feel the same way that your friendship will stay the same. That is usually the reason people don't come ... (read in full...)
I have a baby with a married man. Now what?
Q. I am a 36 year old single woman who has a daughter with a 50 year old married man. He has no children with his wife. I am so in love with him but I want a complete family. Is it wrong of me to want him to leave his wife? And if he doesn't (which ...
A. 21 November 2010: If you had that baby while he was married then you were wrong for that. Yea its wrong for you to want that but he is an idiot for cheating on his wife and not being honest with her. Lol, ya know....nvm. Answer to this one is there is nothing you can ... (read in full...)
Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?
Q. I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications ...
A. 21 November 2010: Thing is, you can play mind games with yourself when it comes to feelings. Maybe he really is on call? Why dont you ask him how he feels and how you feel. If you guys have been friends this long im sure nothing negative will come of it. He is prolly ... (read in full...)
He claims to care about me but then he goes cold. Is this a waste of my time?
Q. i am in love with a friend. we were getting closer than just friends and then he called me (cuzz). Didn't quite understand where that came from. Just a day before that, he spent the night with me. no we didn't do anything. we just layed and talked ...
A. 21 November 2010: First off cuzz, lol. Naw im playin im playin. Give him some time, he has some things goin on and maybe a relationship would get in the way. Maybe he cant give you his all ya know? Then with you tellin him how you feel he prolly has to sort things ... (read in full...)
She's married, but won't leave her marriage for me! How do I get over her?
Q. I'm married and have been having an affair with another married women for the past 5 years. My children are married and on their own, she has a 13 year old at home with her and her husband. She has said she will not get a divorce for the sake of her ...
A. 21 November 2010: lol wow wtf. You're married man, you deserve this heartache because im sure your wife would be crushed to know what you're doing. But if you must have an answer how about focusing on your children and your wife and keep your mind distracted off her, ... (read in full...)
He said he wanted to marry me then out of the blue he says he's not meant for each other
Q. Dear cupied , something happend this days but unexpectet, truly one boy wrote me in fb.and he told me that he likes me, i acceptet his invitation and I began to speak with him , i didnt give him a phone number only in fb we chat. every time he ...
A. 21 November 2010: People change, you gotta realize this. Life throws curve balls at you and it sucks yes but everything happens for a reason and you learn from every experience. Talk to him, email him and ask him what went wrong. He should at least have the decency ... (read in full...)
Do I wait another 5 months on him???
Q. As I've said in another question, I've been with my current boyfriend for about 3 months now. Like quite a lot of people I'd assume, he's been in his fair share of trouble. About 6 months ago he finished a 12 month prison sentence, and ha...
A. 21 November 2010: Well, its ok wait for him and thats very sweet of you but then you gotta ask yourself.
Will he change? Is this what you really want?
Waiting for someone in the military is one thing but waiting for someone in jail? Is this the lifestyle he wil... (read in full...)
Very confused about my feelings and my online boyfriend
Q. I'm scared, I don't want to leave my country (mexico) right now, I wanna stay here, but I don't see a chance for me to make my dreams come true here that makes me sad, scared and frustrated. I've been thinking a lot in my "online bf" and right now ...
A. 21 November 2010: lets see....dont rush for kids please. As wonderful as they may be they can shatter a goal or dream. Take care of everything else first before the kids come into play because your all will be put into raising them. Now as for confused feeling, ... (read in full...)
Stuck between two men!!!
Q. Ok, so i have been dating ben for 2 years now, i am 15 and he is 16, he was also the first guy i was intamate with. But, for the last 3 months we have been getting to comfortable with each other, i feel as if i am one of the guys when were alone and ...
A. 21 November 2010: Well...lol ok ben might not like you for who you are. It might just be lust or physical attraction. Sex last for 30-45 mins and after that what do you have? Well you gotta have something in common if you want things to work, gotta be able to talk, ... (read in full...)
Still scared of my abusive ex boyfriend?
Q. I have this abusive ex boyfriend whom i been with him for 2 years and after i decided that i had enough of insults,pain and hurt i broke up with him then the drama started as i never excepted he turned into a very obssesed person that may beg and ...
A. 21 November 2010: I dont see how woman get into this issues, so easy to get in them yet so hard to get out of them. You gotta be stronger, if need be stand up to him. Change your number and I pray you can move soon so he wont know your own address. Tell your family ... (read in full...)
How do I move on when he keeps pulling me back in?
Q. I'm having trouble moving on after a past relationship that has lasted over ten years. About eight years ago this man had cheated on me, it was like this rollercoaster ride ever since. I was so in love with him and made every effort to work on ...
A. 21 November 2010: Well you need to work on yourself, thing is if you feel insecure it will bleed into your future relationships. You wont trust that person and that guy wont enter a relationship with you with a clean slate. This will turn into another break up and ... (read in full...)
I'm tempted to have a one night stand and maybe get it out of my system but I really don't want to hurt my boyfriend... Help!
Q. Hi I've been in a gay relationship now for four and a half years. Not long after getting with my boyfriend I found out he was chatting to other lads on the internet and swapping naked pictures. When I found out and confronted him about it he said...
A. 21 November 2010: Ok....you dont love him if you are willing to have sex with someone else. And if you arent happy in your relationship then you need to do something about it...do something as in tell him how you feel and go from there. You do that one night stand ... (read in full...)
Long Distance help please
Q. I am currently in a long distance relationship. My girlfriend and I dated for over a year in college then moved pretty far away upon graduating (~8 hour flight). We decided to try the whole long distance thing since we really love each other, and ...
A. 21 November 2010: Ok honest truth man? Long distance requires alot of work and trust. Most of all communication and each party has to put 150% in. Not 150-100 not 150-125. So that being said you need to tell her how you feel. Now I know how that will end because if ... (read in full...)
Is there something mentally wrong with my ex?
Q. So listen i been dating this guy for a year and some change. Well it's been a rough patch. A week before sweetest day i broke up with him, He was very verbally abusive and talked about my child, not to mention I was pregnant with his child. Well ...
A. 21 November 2010: Well, there is something mentally wrong with you if you go back to him. Why would you want to even think twice about being with someone like that. Verbal abuse will lead to physical abuse and that is something very hard to get out of if you get in ... (read in full...)
Are we moving too fast?
Q. Ok as cupid has helped me in my last relationship and im glad thats over and done with I am in a new one now and guess what? Yes I need help... Basically the woman I am with now has a rough past. We both some how met while buying a new car. She a...
A. 4 September 2010: Thanks, yea its very helpful. Thing is, I was paying rent at my place and imnot even there. I could be using that money for other things, help her with something. Ill take her out tonight and discuss this. I would like to thank you so much. You seem ... (read in full...)
Are we moving too fast?
Q. Ok as cupid has helped me in my last relationship and im glad thats over and done with I am in a new one now and guess what? Yes I need help... Basically the woman I am with now has a rough past. We both some how met while buying a new car. She a...
A. 1 September 2010: Thanks so much :) and yes that is something she has to deal with and I'm by her side and will encourage her along the way. I do trust her, weird cause I hardly trust anyone but I'm learning to let things go and movefoward. We have incredible ... (read in full...)
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