I sent him a loving poem and now since he's read it...he seems distracted. Did I do something wrong?
Q. a few nights ago me and my bf were talking online and i sent him a poem that i wrote for him it was very loving and i spent ages writing it. he read it and went silent for a while so i changed the subject and when we said bye to each other he said i ...
A. 7 December 2006: Maybe he is alittle upset that you did not say i love you like that because thats what he did so probably feel embarrased.Just give it time and talk to him about it and just ask him what he is feeling.... (read in full...)
She's cheated on me twicew with my friends! I am devastated-I can't concentrate and i'm very confused. Any advice
Q. Hello, my girlfriend cheated on me a year ago. It was at a party with mutual friends that I didn't feel up to going to and told her to go out and have fun (like any good boyfriend would do.. I didn't want her to stay in just because I was under the ...
A. 7 December 2006: Okay well you have gone through way too much and you have been extremly strong,But you have to think how much more of this can you take you deserve some much more than what you are getting.You should really ask her if she wants to break up and if ... (read in full...)
I'm almot 14 and scared when my bf bring up sex! Any advice how to handle this situation?
Q. Hey people! i'm 14 (in 6 days) and i have been with my amazing boyriend for 7 months almost now. He's 15 lets just call him ,...rob. Rob is great, he loves me to bits and know that i love him loads and loads too. He's caring, sweet, funny and ...
A. 7 December 2006: It is really simple if he really loves you as much as he says he does then he should have no problem waiting.You just need to take your time and maybe something that you could do to give him an idea when you might be ready set an age wher you think ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps doing things with the girl he cheated on me with!
Q. what should i do if my boyfriend is still doing things with the girl he cheated on me with and getting off the bus together and every time he goes somewhere she happens to be there too? what should i do i love him with everything i have and i dont ...
A. 7 December 2006: I would just tell him how you are feeling about the situation and just be very honest tell him you do not feel comfortable that he is hanging out with her all the time.I would realy just ask him to stop and if he doesnt you really should just leave ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend verbally and emotionally abuses me and says it's my own fault. Is he right?
Q. i met my boyfriend last year on a dating site.he seemed great realy outgoing and fun,before i met him i wrote some to other guys and sent a 2 of them naked pics of myself but felt bad about it so didnt want to do it again.my boyfriend then asked me ...
A. 7 December 2006: Okay lets put it this way i couldnt even read the rest of that.There is no reason for you to move in with him if he says that he is going to kill you that is just not right not even to joke about and imagine how you woud feel if he said that to your ... (read in full...)
I know I shouldn't feel rejected when he goes out with his friends - what can I do about this?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 10months, living together for 6months, and when we are together everything is fine. However I am very possessive and every time he tries to go and see his friends I feel rejected, like he is abandoning me. So I sulk ...
A. 7 December 2006: I think maybe when he goes out you should take that time to plan something for you guys to do when he does get home.Like plan something sexy,or funny,just try to keep your mind off of what he is doing and just remember you dont need to feel like ... (read in full...)
My BF says I'm his life-partner but he's afraid of marriage!
Q. My boyfriend of 1 1/2 yrs loves me and wants me to move out from home and live with him. He has been through a divorce which his ex-wife cheated on him. I think it was that which made him afraid of marriage. I know he considers me as a life-long ...
A. 7 December 2006: Well based on what you told us.I am sure that he just went through i really tough divorce and mentally that can rreally mess you up.So i mean because you know that he really does love you and since he does consider you his life partner i would just ... (read in full...)
Can't seem to have a relationship... Why!?
Q. Hi, I'm 23 and single. Have been single for a while and just wondering why I can't seem to have a relationship. Everytime I find someone I like I always do something to ruin it or turn myself off them for some reason. I keep saying that I'm happy ...
A. 1 December 2006: Well i am sure that nothing is wrong with you.i think maybe yo should just stop looking to be in a relationship and just let it come to you.A good way to accomplish getting your mind off of it would be to just focas on your favorite hobbies or just ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hates it when I'm "on"... Should I let him sleep with other girls? Is there a "third way"?
Q. I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. He's a great guy but, lately, he's been annoying me a bit. I'm 20 and he's 27. We have a good sex life but he moans when I'm on my period. I am usually on for about a week and he moans that we can't have ...
A. 30 November 2006: Ya if he cant get through one week without having sex then you really dont need to be with him because that is just sad there is no excuse for that.Al so you might want to remind him that there are plenty of other things that you guys can do without ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and my BF is moving across country and has asked me to go with him! What do I do?
Q. I am 17 and i am with a boy that is 18, in january he is 19 and he is moving away, i have been with him for just over a month so far and we are so happy together, we spend as much time as possible together. He asked me to move and live with him when ...
A. 30 November 2006: I think you have a pretty big desicion on your hands but you have to consider that you have only been with him for one month,and i think that since it is only january you should just wait the rest of the year and atleast you can finish up school,and ... (read in full...)
Started an affair with my husband's brother...
Q. I got married 2 months ago to a man I had been living with for 2 years previously. My husband is a wonderful man who I truly love but unfortunately our sex life has never been fantastic. However I thought this was not important as we get on so ...
A. 28 November 2006: Well that is really not fair to your husband i mean there are plenty of things that you could do or try to build up your sex life.And if your husband and his brother are really close it will come out soon in a fight or something,but imagine if your ... (read in full...)
She thinks i still don't trust her, it might be over between us because i can't trust her
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl ... I've known her for about 3 years. Our actual relationship didn't start till about a year ago. But, I think I have some trust issues with her because of an incident that came up. One time, I lo...
A. 28 November 2006: Well one of the biggest things with long distant relationships is always the trust thing.But the thing is is if you want to be with this person you justy have to get over it because that is all you will think about and trusty me your mind will find ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, She's 14 and I like her but she is pushing me away.
Q. hi im 17 i was seeing a girl that is 14 but when i was seeing her she was acting wierd i asked her what it was it took me a bit off time but i got it out off her and she said she just whats to be mates but we can still flirt but i dont think that is ...
A. 28 November 2006: Well it might be that she is affraid to get too attatched to you cuz she probably thinks that you are going to hurt her.Also it could be that she is scared to tell her parents cuz that is always a big thing.But i can say if you really care for her ... (read in full...)
I keep look for approval from others to validate that it's okay to be in a age gap relationship! Why do I do this?
Q. Hi, I am 18 and dating a guy eight years older than me. And that's not necessarily the problem. The problem is MYSELF. I feel like I'm constantly looking for the approval of others in this situation. When other people bring up "age gap relatio...
A. 28 November 2006: Well realy it all comes down to how much you love him,because if you do love him alot there should be no problem and you are right you do not need anyone to tell you that it is ok because at the end of the day it is your decision and you need to do ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me at uni and says not to worry about it happening again - but I'm still going mad!
Q. I have been with my gf, lets call her 'X' for a year and a half - we are both 19!! Shes recently went to uni, where within the first 3 weeks she kissed another guy, then waited two weeks until she came home for my birthday to tell me. I admit that ...
A. 28 November 2006: Well i think that you have a pretty big decision to make because if you do love her and you want to be with her than you just have to suck it up and try to get over it.But it is not fair for her or you to be in this relationship if you cant trust ... (read in full...)
Anyone have experiences with golden showers?
Q. My boyfriend and i like to watch porn, while in the sex shop recently he bought one on golden shower porn, he mentioned he would like to try this out on me as it is one of his fantasies. We always talk about what we would like to do to each other ...
A. 28 November 2006: i think that it is lways nice to try knew things with the person you love.But only if you guys are both comfortable
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I'm cheating on my husband and don't know how to stop!!
Q. i am cheating on my husband with one of our friends... it has been going on for the past three years. but we never had slept. we only kiss. but i dont know how to stop. it's like i am addicted to him...
A. 27 November 2006: Okay well you have to think of how you would feel if you were your husband.if you reakky want it to stop then you need to tell him.or you need to leave him but you cant keep going like thid=s cuz its not fair to him
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How can I make him trust me? Any ideas?
Q. how can i make him trust me? i met this guy on holiday this summer i've been seeing him snce then, but he doesn't want to get into a relationship because he doesn't trustme because of an incident that occured with one of his friends when we came bac...
A. 27 November 2006: Okay well what happend with his friend?and if you realy care for him you should just wait because i was going throught the same thing with my girlfriend still after we had been going together for a year so just be patient but let him know how you ... (read in full...)
My long distance GF told me she was tempted to cheat on me!
Q. My long distance gf told me that she was tempted to cheat at a nightclub. She never actually cheated, but would have pretended it was me. We see each other once a month if we are lucky. She loves kisses and cuddles and always wants to feel me ...
A. 27 November 2006: Okay well really the only thing that you can realy do is thank her for being honest with you.Or you can break it off because in long distant relationships you can not have all of the drama that other couples get because they see eachother all the ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a guy likes you or is playing with your feelings?
Q. how do you no if a guy likes you or playing with your feelings...
A. 27 November 2006: normally when this happens you have to test the guy and ask him if you guys can go out sometime and get something to eat or just get to know eachother better and if he says no then that would probably mean thats he is just playing wwith your ... (read in full...)
Can you ever take back someone who has cheated?
Q. What are your thoughts on cheating? It's a long story so I won't go into too much detail right now. If someone cheats and then realises they have made a terrible mistake...have taken steps to try and put things right...begging for you to take the...
A. 26 November 2006: Well its really up to you it depends on how much you love this person because it is hard to take someone back after they have cheated.but if you do take them back you have yo try to put that behind you because the thought of that will hurt you more ... (read in full...)
I Iike this guy who is my best friend's ex...what should I do?
Q. dear cupid x i have a problem i've fancied this boy who is 15 years old but i don't know what to do. he doesn't notice me and i've only known him for a while. he's my best friends ex and i want to know how to resolve the problem please help x...
A. 24 November 2006: It is very simple you cannot ever date your best friends ex no matter what it will destroy your relationship with your friend trust me on this.But if you want to take that chance be prepared for alot of drama... (read in full...)
Iquickly kissed my fiancee's workmate...should I tell my fiancee or not?
Q. Should I tell my fiance or not? Last night my partners work mate came over so I could keep him company, as he has recently split from his girlfriend. I was very tipsy, and a sympathy hug ended in a kiss on the lips, it was very quick and it was only ...
A. 24 November 2006: You have to tell him because he has every right to know.wouldnt you wont to know?and yes you are planning to spend the rest of your life with him you dont want to get the rest of your lives kicked off by not telling the truth.
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18 months into our relationship and I feel like a kept secret!
Q. i have been dating a guy for 18 months, i have never met any of his family, even while doing a car boot sale his parents were there talking to him and he never introduced me when i asked if they knew who i was he said no sure they have never seen ...
A. 24 November 2006: To be honest i dont see why you woud want to be with someone like that it is clear that his feelings are not very strong for you seeing as though he is going to leave you alone on chistmas.You realy need to start puttig the pressure on him telling ... (read in full...)
What do couples do other than have sex??
Q. i havent seen my boyfrind in a few weeks and its still quite new, hes in the navy and is away alot so time together isnt much. i need ideas as to what we can do. first off we seem to be nervous and it take a while to relax into each others company,...
A. 24 November 2006: Well since you do not have much time together.i think one of the best things that you could do is something that is physical right off the bat like,making pottery,make bon fire at the beach,go to the mountains.It would also be cool if you guys went ... (read in full...)
I'm paranoid about this mark... was it lipstick on his collar?
Q. I am in a relationship with someone for about a year. I realize that i have insecurity and trust issues with him. Although in the past he has not given me any reason to not trust him, I developed a habit of looking through his cell phone to see who ...
A. 24 November 2006: Okay first i would like to say that i understand where ypu are coming from but one thing i learned is you are more likley to make them want to cheat if you always read into everything they say.So that they can give you a reason to read into ... (read in full...)
We used the pull out method!
Q. okay, so im 15 and my boyfriend have been together for 3yrs. we had sex for the first time on tuesday. we didnt use a condom, he pulled out. but i think he mightyhave came a little. i didnt get my period yet this month. it is pretty irregular, and ...
A. 24 November 2006: Okay well first dont freak out because you will not get results stressing.normally after you have sex for the first time it tends to move your period back.And yes stress does play a major part in it trust me i just went throught it with my ... (read in full...)
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