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*tarisrocks
writes:a few nights ago me and my bf were talking online and i sent him a poem that i wrote for him it was very loving and i spent ages writing it. he read it and went silent for a while so i changed the subject and when we said bye to each other he said i love you so i said i luv u 2 as im not ready to use the word LOVE now he not spoken to me much since and when he does he seems distracted have i done sumthing wrong
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reader, Prada +, writes (7 December 2006):
Maybe he is alittle upset that you did not say i love you like that because thats what he did so probably feel embarrased.Just give it time and talk to him about it and just ask him what he is feeling.
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (7 December 2006):
 im surprised the only people responding are females, think about the possibility that you may have come on a little too strong? guys don't like girls that are clingy or anything like that, not that you are being that, but just another point of view here, since everyone said you did nothing wrong. perhaps maybe it was too soon for that poem? not enough informatino to tell really
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (6 December 2006):
 His silence does not mean that is distracted,why would be say I love you? Doubt it would be for politeness.
Try to express your feelings with him and find out why he seems absent. Could be totally unrelated but unless you ask, you will not find out either way.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (6 December 2006):
 Hi atarisracks,
No u havent done anything wrong. You just wanted to express what u were feeling at the time and i think it was very romantic.
You cant be too sure that his sudden distractions has anything to do with your poem. Im not saying it isnt but it could be anything as well.Besides he did say he loved u afterwards.
I think u should talk to him generally and express ur concerns that u have noticed he seems distracted.Dont draw up any conclusions yet or express any suggestions to him, just allow him confide in you.
Do take care now.
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reader, Nikita +, writes (6 December 2006):
 Hi Atarisrocks, i dont think you've done anything wrong. Its just that your poem probably gave him food for thought and he's digesting it that's all.Some men can be a bit funny when it comes to romantic gestures like this and it may have been a bit much for him to handle maybe. next time you see him ask him if there's anything wrong and if he'd like to talk. be open with him. Good luck okay!
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