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writes: hi im 17 i was seeing a girl that is 14 but when i was seeing her she was acting wierd i asked her what it was it took me a bit off time but i got it out off her and she said she just whats to be mates but we can still flirt but i dont think that is what it is cus she seemed to enjoy being with me then all off a sudden she doesent there is a couple of things i think it might be peaple callin me a perf and i think i might of took the relationship a bit to fast but she was horny she wanted to do things to me but she dident what me to do things to her i cant rely understand whats goin on so if any one can help please write back p.s yes i still like her and would like to get back with her
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reader, is_god_alanis +, writes (8 December 2006):
no offence, but what 17 year old is interested in a 14 year old? you's should find someone your own age, and once she turns 16 see how it goes the. until then, i'd keep clear.
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reader, Prada +, writes (28 November 2006):
Well it might be that she is affraid to get too attatched to you cuz she probably thinks that you are going to hurt her.Also it could be that she is scared to tell her parents cuz that is always a big thing.But i can say if you really care for her you should just tell her that you will always be there no matter what.but only say it if thats what you really feel.
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reader, pica +, writes (12 November 2006):
Sounds like she's a kid who has got out of her depth with you. You're getting a mixed message because she doesn't really know what she's doing. She wants to please you, hence the sexual contact, as she thinks that is what you expect. I think you'd best move on to someone more your own age. You could tell her that the gap is too much for you (and for her).
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): For a start, if she doesn't want to go out with you then there isn't much you can do about it. Another thing, it may not seem like a big age gap to you because you're 17 but can you imagine going out with someone three years older than you?
Try gently flirting with her and see how she responds, if all goes well keep slowly builing it up. You never know, if you're EXTRA specially nice :-) then you might be able to ask her out and get a positive response.
But expect the worse, she might want to go out with someone her own age, and I'm sure there are more girls who would go out with you.
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