Long distance relationships and depression
Q. My boyfriend and i met through youtube and became friends and it took off on as a relationship.We have so much in commen and he means the world to me.We have been dating for 6 months and i am on the process of moving to east coast with him.He means ...
A. 4 October 2012: Can you take a month or 2 leave (maybe no pay leave) to give yourself a trial for staying with him rather than sacrifice your career or other things to move over ? Learn more about his family members, his background...etc Distance make our hear... (read in full...)
I need advice on getting into a relationship with a divorced dad with young children!
Q. I am in a bit of a strange situation, one that I never thought I would have to face. I have recently been introduced to a very lovely man, 32 years old (I am 28). He is very lovely, totally gorgeous and seems to be a very good catch. But, he i...
A. 31 December 2011: Getting along with the 2 small children is also as important as getting along with him if you are getting serious. Give your love to all 3 of them and eventually it should work well and the 'baggage' may turn out to be the 'precious'.
Good luck ~ ... (read in full...)
She's filled with doubts and insecurities before we've even met, do I stick it out or not?
Q. I started talking to a woman 3 months ago i met over a dating site, after a real struggle she finally decided to talk to me over the phone after 2 months of communication as it was a confidence issue she had, and thought i would not like her accent. ...
A. 31 December 2011: I would rather wait...continue to talk over the phone or whatever channels until she feels confidence for herself or comfortable to meet you...she will eventually open her mouth. Time will tell...Good Luck ~ ... (read in full...)
How do I stop this guy's invasive presence?
Q. OK, maybe this is a stupid question, especially at my age, but here it is: I met this guy exactly three times, once when we met at a party, once we had coffee and once we went together at a workshop with a lot of other people, and now he is writing ...
A. 31 December 2011: You can block him from putting anything on your wall. I usually do that to all acquaintances in my facebook list. Just remain as friend and there is no need to remove him from the list.... (read in full...)
Long distance and time's running out. How do I win his heart and make him want a future with me?
Q. He’s 36 and lives in Germany. I’m 27, in London for 2 years now but due to return to Asia next year when my job secondment ends. We met on 5 Apr (5 months ago) when I brought my parents on a month-long DIY / free and easy trip in Europe. Since ...
A. 8 October 2010: Probably we are both from the same country or just neighboring country of SEA from the way you write. I can understand you and your parents very well, your ma is trying to encourage you as she thout it was something positive but this is not the... (read in full...)
Long distance and time's running out. How do I win his heart and make him want a future with me?
Q. He’s 36 and lives in Germany. I’m 27, in London for 2 years now but due to return to Asia next year when my job secondment ends. We met on 5 Apr (5 months ago) when I brought my parents on a month-long DIY / free and easy trip in Europe. Since ...
A. 14 September 2010: I would say your feeling is most likely to be infatuation rather than love.
During infatuation we experience a surge through the brain that causing us to feel good.
The body can build up tolerances to these chemicals so it takes more of the subs... (read in full...)
Mixed emotions on do I stay or go...
Q. my situtation is simple yet it stresses me out so much sometimes. I simple feel like I've lost me and that I struggle to be my true self. I have been 10 years with a really sweet girl - she's my best friend, we look after each other and have a ...
A. 7 September 2010: What about taking a break and go for the most romantic holiday with her ? Probably this may help to reconcile your relationship with her deeper...... (read in full...)
It is infatuation? Or more?
Q. Hi, I am writing to you with hope that you will reply me because i am in real emotional pain. Actually few months ago i started to have a voice chat with a guy who is living in India and we have developed feelings for each other.We haven't...
A. 6 September 2010: Dear David, I am so sorry if this can be a bit sensitive issue on racist. I live and work with Indians, I know most of them tend to be a little exaggerate and dramatic when they talk, act or write. He maybe genuinely concern and care of your short ... (read in full...)
Why is my husband risking everything by visiting prostitutes?
Q. Why is my husband risking everything by continually spending hundreds of pounds visiting prostitutes, he has put is in debt and I keep trying to hold the family together but I seem to be the only one trying or suffering....
A. 6 September 2010: From scientific evolution point of view, male are born as natural polygamy whereas female is monogamy. This is man's nature that they tend to 'futile' as many female as possible on this earth whenever they can. Female is conservative and more ... (read in full...)
He left me then why he did not disconnect the phone?
Q. my fionce told me he dont want to be with me any more. also he told me he dont love me any more and i have to follow my life. after that he did not called me , email me . even i did not see him online. may be he deleted my id. i could no see him ...
A. 6 September 2010: Probably he wants to monitor and check whom you call and contact. Man can be quite selfish sometimes, eventhough he doesn't want you anymore but he does not want any man to be near you. Get your own line and cut him out of you life if he is so ... (read in full...)
Do I continue with a relationship that will never fully develop?
Q. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now. We both have children that live with us. So far the relationship has been smooth, no fighting, no drama etc. I went to have my tarot read a few months ago and i was told that we were both guarded, ...
A. 6 September 2010: Base on my own experience, I will also turn to Astrology when I have trouble in relationship. Tarot card reading only predict the current situation with no firm answer for your future relationship. later I found Numerology makes gives more solid ... (read in full...)
Online trouble!!!
Q. Hi... Is it right to love a person without seeing.? I mean we both are chatting for a quite a while. And we both love each other. We've planned to meet each other after some months.. But am really scared whether it will succeed. Please give me...
A. 6 September 2010: Imagination draws a better picture than reality. Meet up first before making second move, there could be some negative personal traits one has physically which you may not find it comfortable.... (read in full...)
How to prove I will never lie or cheat again as I found real love with her?
Q. hello, im having a problem with my girlfriend and its all my fault, since a year now that we started this relationship,i ve cheated on her and lied without knowing the reason why i did all this to her, though i lied because i dont want to lose her, ...
A. 7 December 2008: Cheating is like a crack on a mirror...it will never be mend nicely anymore....so sorry for you to learn his bitter lesson.... (read in full...)
How long will the "limerence" last this time??
Q. At first glance this may seem like many of the other 'internet crush'-related questions, but I promise I actually do have a point, so please bear with me for a moment. I've already seen a lot of the answers to these types of questions so I'd like to ...
A. 7 December 2008: Gosh I also had almost same situation as yours !!!
We only known each other for 3 months and will be able to meet up after 2009 due to distance problem...I think we should just let the 'limerence' feeling flow and indeed our real life positive feel... (read in full...)
One orgasm in 2 months !!! Help !
Q. I love my boyfriend to death but there is just one problem... I been with him 4 a couple months now but we have known each other for 10 years and in those months I have only had one orgasm...ONE!!! and that's because I was on top... I fake it every ...
A. 27 October 2008: Thanks qcumbrl, I learn something from you :)... (read in full...)
One lover for life... and proud!
Q. I have been with my partner for a long time now and I am proud to say that she is the only women I have ever been with and I am the only man she has been with, I think it is a testament to our relationship that we have never wanted or felt the need ...
A. 12 October 2008: This is true love....Love like this is hard to find. Cherish every moment of your life....I am so touched and proud of your love. If only everyone can have it, there will be no scandals, affairs, jealousy bla bla bla...... (read in full...)
My husband says it is all my fault. I think it is him. Can this be fixed?
Q. Help my husband of ten years is not the same person. We fight almost everyday and a few times they have become physical in front of our two kids. He says it is all my fault and that if I was to change and get on some meds. that it would fix ...
A. 8 October 2008: Since talking does not help much, perhaps you could email or write to him, say somthing like, you wish u cud make things back to your old romance days xxx ask him if he is undergoing any pressure xxx you still love him and hoping that he could talk ... (read in full...)
We have a sexual history and now I want to be just friends. Is that possible or will he always see me as a sex object?
Q. I've decided that I just want to be friends with someone where the only other 2 times we've met we've hooked up. I don't know why I made it so easy for this person, I'm usually not that type of girl. We didn't actually have sex, just performed oral ...
A. 8 October 2008: He is obvious knows how to talk and make you kneel down on him ! he is using you...I am so sorry....but once he thinks he is easy to get you, he'll think this way all the time. ... (read in full...)
Should I meet him offline?
Q. I met this guy on the net but i never met him in real life we talk yeah he wants me to get with him What do i do.....???? =[...
A. 8 October 2008: strictly public place and don't wear too sexy.... (read in full...)
How can I initiate a friendship after the break up?
Q. I was communicating with a man from an online-dating site for a few weeks. After our first date, we mutually agreed to meet-up again. The conversation flowed really well and we were both excited about seeing one another again. However, hours before ...
A. 8 October 2008: 32 years old is mature enuff to 'act' as if he enjoyed the date with a genuine smile. He also could have thought about the 2nd date throughly before he cancelled. He is obvious do not want to hurt you and kind enuff to explain to you about the ... (read in full...)
Do you think my online friend is ready to commit to me?
Q. Hallo there, I met a really nice guy online and even spoke to him on phone. He is happy that I belong to the same religious group as he is and also for the fact that I am a 100% pure vegetarian. We took it a step ahead, when he s...
A. 8 October 2008: infatuation....... (read in full...)
I don't love my boyfriend anymore, the stupid thing is that I fell in love with a guy I have never met! Don't know what to do!
Q. i am 28 and i have been in a relationship for 14 years. i have never cheated so it's obvious, my bf is the only man i have ever had sex with. never consider myself to be inexperienced, never felt bad about having only one partner simply because i ...
A. 8 October 2008: Maybe your prespective of this internet guy may change if you meet him in person. I can understand that the energy for that guy may be stronger than your boyfriend. Cyber world ( illusion world) is different from reality world.
When we are blin... (read in full...)
I can't perform in the bedroom (I'm disabled) but its too embarrassing to tell her that I can't make love to her...what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend's fallen out with me and won't talk to me properly and I was wondering if anybody could offer me some advice. I'm disabled and really can't perform in the bedroom... my ex-girlfriend saw other guys on the side for that so there wa...
A. 18 June 2008: I am exactly at your girlfriend's situation ! I have been waiting for him for 3 years and I knew he's got sexual problem from his ex girlfriend big mouth ( Thanks to her anyway ) .... I have confessed to him and have made clearly to him that I don't ... (read in full...)
Should I go through with this marriage?
Q. I need help! I have been living with my fiance the past 2 years and engaged for 1 year. We are supposed to get married in 4 months! I just found out from a friend he cheated on me the first year and a half we were together. He has now admitted to ...
A. 5 February 2008: Postpone the marriage and live separately for a while. Give him time to "make up his mind". Once cheated, it'll be very very hard for a lady to gain back the trust on man and after marriage, the feeling of betrayal will live inside you forever. This ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?
Q. I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...
A. 22 January 2008: ** sorry it cud be a long note but i would like u to understand the conversation I plan for this Sunday nite** 3 Years of waiting and trying all out has make me feel eager to conclude the entire episode. ** I dont’ intend to have children... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?
Q. I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...
A. 21 January 2008: I desperately want to win him but I think I would fail if I do not reveal to him that I knew about his sexual disability ‘cos that is man’s most important ego. And he would not mention this to me for life !!
I will be asking him out this week... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?
Q. I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...
A. 29 December 2007: Thank you very much for your time, Peoriaman, I Dont Lie, Askeve, India....I have always wanted to move on to the next guy but I still cannot find 'him' who cud beat this old Gucci cow ! so in the mean time I still cling to him and work harder a... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?
Q. I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...
A. 26 December 2007: My Update – I confessed to him last Jun07 but his reply was – there is no chemistry between us. He insisted that he is a normal guy who can get aroused. I told him that to me, emotional relationship is more important to a physical one. He kept ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a non-sexual relationship?
Q. I really need someone out there to help me this important decision of my life.....I am 35 years old and has been trying very very hard to go after a guy of 43 years old for the past 2 years. He is a successful businessman, financially stable, ...
A. 4 May 2007: Thank you DrBroz. I am not too sure if it's erectile dysfunc or a totally helpless in other ways. Yes, this man has a very big ego.....the challenge is that, he might even walk out on me if I say a wrong thing about his sexuality. The most I can ... (read in full...)
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