Separate households no quality time for sex!
Q. If you start a relationship by spend lots time together everyday and then one of you move into their own place . And then you spend barely no time with that person you love can that have a negative effect on your relationship, due to lack of quality ...
A. 5 January 2009: Heres my question. Why was there a move made to begin with? why seperate households.? I may be wrong but sounds like there may have been problems long before the move. If thats the case...you might wanna be worried about your relationship and not ... (read in full...)
How can I get erections without drugs?
Q. What can I do to help erections without viagra or cialis?...
A. 5 January 2009: Ok, my question to you is are you on any corticosteriods(prednisone,decadron) for allergic reactions or inflamamtion? if so...your fine it will wear off and you will be manly once more. If not....try relaxing. You think too much about it and it will ... (read in full...)
We made out, she has a boyfriend and now she's distancing herself from me
Q. Hey, there is a girl who i have liked for a long time, the issue was she has a long term boyfriend. I was there for her when she was going through any rough patches etc. We get along really well we went places together etc. We would send flirty ...
A. 5 January 2009: Sorry to be blunt and dont take this as being mean, but ...STOP IT!!. She has a BF. Respect that or lose her respect. She realizes she made a mistake by you guys doing what you did. Shes getting closer to him cause she feels like she betrayed him. ... (read in full...)
Anxiety attacks & over analyzing things are making me such a mess
Q. hello friends, m a 20 year old guy n im suffering from severe anxiety problems. i dont know whats wrong with me and im scared of whatever i think. i keep analyzing every situation that i come across and usually end up building more and more anxiety ...
A. 5 January 2009: Sounds to me like you could be obcessive compulsive. What you describe is very similar to what i experience and im diagnosed OCD. It takes most of your day and pretty dabilitating when it gets you to the point of not being able to function at all. ... (read in full...)
Restless anxious about relationship and its bothering me wondering if he'll go bald?
Q. please help! I've been with my boyfriend now for over three years but I'm incredibly frustrated with our situation. He is the only person I have ever been with. Currently I am not working, after recently graduating from University. I'm trying to ...
A. 5 January 2009: So what if he goes bald. Its the same guy you fell in love with. Most men if they are gonna go bald start the process before they are even 20. So its not really an old thing its a genetic thing. For the whole restless bit, your gonna hit thirty soon ... (read in full...)
Husband has heart problems and our sex life stinks
Q. dear cupid i am 40 years old and me and my husband have been married for 5 yearsi love him very much. he has heart problems and they have been bad for the last few years. he still gets around and is doing good now and i feel bad for saying this but ...
A. 5 January 2009: This is such a hard subject. In so many ways we are just primal animals who have needs lol. Sorry for the crudeness. The great thing is we have much much more to offer. I know im only 28 but im pretty wise for 28. Dont worry bout the sex. Enjoy each ... (read in full...)
Having sex with the ex, he has a girlfriend!
Q. hey good people i screw up, i had sex with my ex who's been begging me to get back together with him, the relationship we had wasn't really top of the notch, lots of heartache breakups and etc, thou i loved him still, the problem now is he's...
A. 5 January 2009: Then you answered you own question. Just stop doing it. If the relationship wasnt real good to begin with what do you expect from a purely sexual relationship as the person on the side. Just stop torturing yourself and end it, spend some time and ... (read in full...)
I'm too clingy and I'm really missing him
Q. Help! am i going insane? It all started exactly about a year and a half. I went to argentina and met a wonderful boy. We became best friends and are now dating. However, as a young teenager i suffered from some bad relationships and it made me very ...
A. 5 January 2009: Oh man does hit home for me. Im a very clingy person myself and have experienced the same things you are going through now. NO YOU DONT END YOUR RELATIONSHIP. You guys spent alot of time being close to each other and now you naturally miss that. ... (read in full...)
I cheated, wife found out and now wants to call everything off
Q. I have been married eleven years and have cheated on my wife 6 months ago and she found out. She has been depressed since the birth of my son (9 years ago) and for the last three years basically stop having sex with me and telling me she hated me. ...
A. 5 January 2009: In a way i feel for ya and in a way i say shame on you. Sounds like to me shes suffering from some pretty serious mental issues and its affecting your relationship. My parents had the same things go and my father has been sexless now for 7 years and ... (read in full...)
He's having trouble keeping erections
Q. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. We have a 7 month daughter and are living together, have been for a year. Everything is wonderful except for the sex. I consider myself an extremely sexual person, him not as m...
A. 5 January 2009: First of all you should never fight about sex. Sometimes what would be a one time failed sexual episode becomes a bigger problem with performance anxiety. Try this. Next time you attempt to have sex and it doesnt work, look at him and tell him its ... (read in full...)
Broke up, wants my things back, afraid of him getting abusive
Q. So after a 5 year relationship, Ive decided to call it quits with my B/f. I'm really confused and feeling very nervous. After a horrible NYE party by now x-bf became very verbally and borderline phy. abusive. He doesent remember a thing and what ...
A. 5 January 2009: You should talk to him first and get some communication down. Tell him its surely over and that you need to get your things. If you feel anyway uncomfortable call the local police and see if they will help you get your things. Alot of times you can ... (read in full...)
Does she want to be friends with benefits?
Q. Me and this very close female friend go to different uni's. I went to meet her and was staying the night. There's only one room and was only one bed. I wondered where I would sleep. Later on she said that we can both sleep on the bed, she doesn't ...
A. 3 January 2009: My question is....Why do people think they are too close as friends to date? Do you not want someone that you can call your best friend in a relationship with you. Look, you gotta be friends before you date or else you walking into a mystery and ... (read in full...)
Love to hear about the past!
Q. Hi There, This is the first time I have done this sort of thing so here goes. I want to know if anybody else feels the same way I do about my wife's sexual past. I have known her since we were in high school. We dated a bit in high school and ...
A. 3 January 2009: For her its a matter of secluding her past from you. Woman dont like to talk about their past to the current love cause they dont wanna seem premiscuis(----mispelled i know). You may like it and be turned on by it but for her its probably a big ... (read in full...)
Do all men feel it's okay to cheat if they don't get caught?
Q. Do all men feel it's ok to cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught? And is it true that men are not naturally monogamous? Do every one of them really feel trapped by women who want a monogamous relationship?...
A. 3 January 2009: Most of men are pigs. Plain and simple. I think once you ve tasted the cheating lifestyle you will almost certainly go back. It takes a big turn for a man to become honest once hes taken that step. ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and really want a baby, I'm just nervous about the pregnancy part.
Q. Hey, im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. We both are really ready for a baby and actually have been wanting one ever since summer of 2008. I know for fact i am ready for the taking care part of it, but not so sure about the pregnancy part. I love kids and ...
A. 2 January 2009: You have to realize a few things. Your talking about bringing a new life into this world that you will be repsonsible for and no matter how mature you think you are, you are not prepared for that at 14. Your gonna go through alot of changes in the ... (read in full...)
Is there a difference between having spark and having passion?
Q. Is there a difference between having sparks and having passion if so what? Thanks in advance...
A. 2 January 2009: A spark just brings about a fling, something short lived and will soon die. Passion is actually feeling something so strong with every ounce of your being that you would almost do anything. If you have passion it will burn eternally. The spark will ... (read in full...)
I see how my lying has pushed my wife away- is it too late?
Q. please help. I am about to loose my wife of nine years due to my constant lying. the lying wasn't malicious . we have 3 kids and i want to to get this fixed she has not made up her mind. i have hurt her and she says she does not know if she can ...
A. 2 January 2009: You have to realize that if you lie about small things that she obviously isnt gonna trust you when she asked you about something big and trust is what holds most people together even if they are just friends. Your doing the right thing. Counseling ... (read in full...)
What should I do about her not talking to me?
Q. My girlfriend is to allergic nuts. One day randomly bumped into her. She lean in to kiss me but I couldn't let her because I had nuts that day and not being aure what her reaction would be. She got upset and before I could explain, she got out of my ...
A. 2 January 2009: Stop eating nuts? lol. Explain to her why you couldnt and that it was for her own well being. If she cant accept that then you know shes just going overboard with the subject and looking for something to complain about. If you really love her and ... (read in full...)
Should I try to wait on him to come around??
Q. I'm a 21 year old female who is feeling real lost and confused. I have been dating this man for about 3 months now. At first we spent so much time together and went out with each other all the time.I met his family and everything. Then I started to ...
A. 2 January 2009: I know it would probably be best coming from a womans prospective, but ill try to give you advice as best i can. The question i have is did he start acting this way when he found out your pregnant? If so, then hes a deadbeat who doesnt want the ... (read in full...)
I'm so tired of living with this curse, what have I done to deserve this?
Q. dear cupid : my life is like hell . i am from a very respectful family "Muslim family" working in a respectful job as an engineer, the problem is that I am gay and I have known it long time ago... but as per my religion and traditions as a ...
A. 2 January 2009: If your a man of great faith, which i beleive you are, your doing the right thing. I beleive that god puts trials in our lives and its up to us to overcome the natural odds of us failing these trials. God will only put on you what you can handle and ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting? He slapped me.
Q. My Best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for almost 4 and a half years. A year ago we were at work,and I said out loud how much money he had,even though nobody had heard me, he got mad and lightly slapped me across my face.I got so ...
A. 2 January 2009: The first thing is, almost all the times this happened there was "Drinking" going on. People dont always think straight when they drink. Its no excuse but you both probably got rough with each other. Just tell him that he cant do that,he is much ... (read in full...)
How do I get the trust back?
Q. I am 28 and been in a serious relationship for the last 2 years, and have been living together for the last year. We have had alot of issues with fighting and i admit i can have a very hot temper. She travels back and forth to see family where she ...
A. 2 January 2009: Thank you for your honesty.... (read in full...)
How long on average does a guy last in bed?
Q. Just a quick question, for guys or girls, probably mainly for the guys but, how long on average do you last in bed? I haven't had sex for a while and it's getting to the point I'm avoiding it because I'm afraid I'm going to be premature and get ...
A. 2 January 2009: First of all. Read up on the subject. The best sex is listed as lasting 4-7 minutes. Do it, cuddle, repeat lol. Long sexual episodes tend to get painful for her, so relax.... (read in full...)
Is he worth all this hassle?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for two years. When we started going out, our relationship was perfect, we spoke on the phone a lot, texted and saw each other regularly. I always thought that when you were in a long ...
A. 2 January 2009: Best advice. Dump him. Move on. Be happy. You deserve better than that. He is abusive and doesnt deserve anyone.... (read in full...)
How do I get through to her and show her this guy isn't good enough?
Q. Hi, There is this girl who I am crazy about and have been for about 3 years now. We are really close friends and have had loads of chances to ask her out but have always chickened out. Now, she is dating someone. More to the point, the...
A. 2 January 2009: You can say something to her about how he treats her, but be prepared for anything. If this guy is such a friend then why would you wanna break them up. Every guy that likes another girl that their buddy is dating thinks she can do better. If you ... (read in full...)
Do all men feel it's okay to cheat if they don't get caught?
Q. Do all men feel it's ok to cheat if they knew they wouldn't get caught? And is it true that men are not naturally monogamous? Do every one of them really feel trapped by women who want a monogamous relationship?...
A. 2 January 2009: Being one of the few men that are posting to this question. Personally for myself no, men arent all cheaters. Matter of fact ive never cheated even when i was younger. I think some guys are so insecure that they beleive its a boost to their egos to ... (read in full...)
Should I keep trying or get out before he does?
Q. It's a new year big question. I hope there is some good observations. I'm contemplating of divorce, after 23 years. Here are my problems. Luck of affection.,from him ,luck of involvement, luck of trying to fix things in relationship. Luck of...
A. 2 January 2009: Look, im not that old but i come from a family notorious for having long marriages. Sounds like hes either really introverted and doesnt like to get involved with big decisions or he has grown complacent over the years. Sit and talk with him, try to ... (read in full...)
I push him away because I'm afraid of getting hurt.
Q. I am really scared...because i just realized when i get close in a relationship i have the tendency to push him away. I am not afraid to be in love or staying committed. i just have fear of getting hurt but it looks like i am the one hurting myself. ...
A. 2 January 2009: The first thing you have to realize is there is nothing worth your time unless its worth taking a risk for. Call him, write him, take the chance.Let your guard down and let people into your life. Your young and havnt quite realized how short life ... (read in full...)
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