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Having sex with the ex, he has a girlfriend!

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Question - (5 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A female age 36-40, *umelo writes:

hey good people

i screw up, i had sex with my ex who's been begging me to get back together with him, the relationship we had wasn't really top of the notch, lots of heartache breakups and etc, thou i loved him still,

the problem now is he's got a girlfriend whom he met through friends,he spends a whole lot time with me than he does with his girl,i love him a lot but there is this time when his girl came past while he was visiting me,so he went and spoke to her, i was with his siblings who also have been asking me to get back together with him

now recently i've been feeling a bit offish,lots of doubts,i want him but can i really trust him? i dont want to be the other woman, i dont want to be involved in a triagle relationship,i feel the need to be the better person and end all this before it turns out bad for all of us.

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A male reader, pinkey1981 United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

Then you answered you own question. Just stop doing it. If the relationship wasnt real good to begin with what do you expect from a purely sexual relationship as the person on the side. Just stop torturing yourself and end it, spend some time and get over him and move on with your life.

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