He's 15, I'm 19, and I'm due to have his baby any day!
Q. okay its going to sound weird that im asking this question now being in the predicament were in...here goes im 19 (girl) and my boyfriend is only 15..the reason were together is because he lied about his age for a year and when his mom told me the ...
A. 10 September 2010: Well the age thing is a huge issue seeing as how you are an adult and he is a minor. That baby might be the worst thing for you legally. There is no happy ending that you are hoping for since the law won't see it that way.... (read in full...)
Men: what do you think? What am I doing wrong?
Q. I really am at the point of I don't know what to do. I am 25. I just got out of school about a year ago and now have a really good job and everything I could ever want financially. The problem is I really would like a boyfriend. I was home ...
A. 5 May 2010: If you put yourself out their too much then people will take advantage of you. If you had previous relationships and they treated you badly that's ok since that is a steeping stone. Picking up men is a game. You have to learn the rules, and practice ... (read in full...)
I cheated! Can't get over the guilt!
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend and I regret it soo much I feel soo guilty I can't tell him he will leave me and never be with me. I just though it wasn't that bad after all, since I dnt wanna cheat when we get married. But now its killing inside I dnt ...
A. 5 May 2010: You did some untrustworthy actions. He never gave you reasons to cheat on him yet you did anyways. That proves you wanted something he couldn't give you whether it be more comfort or sex, honestly if he decided to drop you don't feel bad, since you ... (read in full...)
Am I asexual?
Q. This might be a weird question, but I have never had an orgasm. I don't even enjoy sex. I'm 20 and I have been with four men; I have never even enjoy having sex and it is making me frustrated. is there some thing wrong with me? What can I do to ...
A. 5 May 2010: Well my first answer would be start playing with yourself but you've clearly taken that equation out of the water. Based on what you've said I've made these deductions. Being with a maximum of four guys is not a good thing. The first one must have ... (read in full...)
Worried about my "taste"
Q. Hello DearCupid. :) Well, I've found that I care about my current lover very much, and we're starting to move a bit further in our sexual relationship. He's told me that he enjoys performing oral sex, specifically. I'm a bit worried, howeve...
A. 19 March 2009: As long as your clean then you should be alright. As in clean I mean you wash up down there. Every girl taste different and no amount of telling us how you taste is going to influence his opinion about you until it's done and over with.... (read in full...)
Now what do I do, after shaving?
Q. Right so i shaved my pubes, all of them, on an impulse and theyre starting to grow back....should i carry on with shaving? wax it? or wait for it to grow back and just go with the bikini line or the triangle thing? ...
A. 6 March 2009: lulz! haha I gatta laugh. Look no matter how many times you get rid of it. HAIR will grow back. It's YOUR preferences not ours. If you like Hairy Puss then keep it hairy,shaved, waxed etc. IT"S UP TO YOU!!!... (read in full...)
He's giving me the guilt trip for running late for our quickie!
Q. Does my boyfriend have a reason to be upset? We had plans last night to go watch a movie preview.. begins at midnight. Well we both got off work and I headed off to class. I get off from class about 10:00p.m. and he had time to be at home and rest ...
A. 6 March 2009: He wanted some and when he couldn't get none he had to use arch enemies Lotion and Baby Oil. I'd be mad to but that's overdoing it.... (read in full...)
I have a sick feeling of betrayal since he had a texting flirtation!
Q. If your husband of many years had had a texting flirtation lasting 3/4 months with a younger woman (also married) and swore blind it was just a silly game for them both would you be able to carry on life as normal? Would it still be going on if I ...
A. 6 March 2009: If it was a silly game I would have told my wife in the beginning. Of course you would have your questions but at least you would know. That just doesn't sound right to me...... (read in full...)
Everyone else seems normal and I don't know what's wrong with me!
Q. I don't know whats wrong with me. I feel like bursting into tears all the time for no reason. I don't want to go out with my friends anymore and my mood swings are so bad i just want to give up on everything. I get so many spots now and i never us...
A. 6 March 2009: You said pill. Thats all I needed to hear. Pill not good for you or either your depressed.
10 Truths... (read in full...)
She's 47, I'm almost 30, we have a child together, but can it work?
Q. Hi folks. This is quite a long story so please be patient. Thank you. About two years ago, I lost my job. It was just one of those things. Cut backs etc. I was worried about how long it would be before I found another job, as the bills won't pay ...
A. 3 March 2009: You have no excuse not to be with her
10 Truths... (read in full...)
If I give in and have sex with him will I be just another notch on his bedpost?
Q. I need some advice on a guy that I work with, we have been flirting for about nine months, we finally had a quick snog, he has a rep as being a ladies man but I really fancy him, so I went for it, he text me to he liked it and I was just wondering ...
A. 3 March 2009: If the girl is easy then he probably won't want you for nothing more than sex. Make him work for it. And you'll have a definite answer.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to masturbate while watching porn?
Q. sometimes, when i get kind of horny.. i masturbate.. and sometimes i think of sex or i watch porn while i do it, is this normal? do you people do it too? If u are, what age do you do this?...
A. 3 March 2009: Masturbation has many pluses. Many!, there is nothing wrong with doing it. When you get some "homies" Omg secretys fly!... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he wants to kiss me too?
Q. hi everyone: i've been dating my bf for a week and i really want to kiss him, but i don't know if he wants to kiss me. whenever we get off the school bus, we hug goodbye. this would be my first kiss and I'm 14. what should i do? and how can i tell i...
A. 3 March 2009: Aww c'mon you guys are teenagers!!!!!
1 week and YOU want to kiss him. That is a definite yes on the other end too!... (read in full...)
I don't know if I still love him, or if he ever loved me...
Q. I found out last year my husband was seeing another woman, through his text messages, when I confronted him he refused to discuss it with me and text the woman to let her know I had read the texts and to expect me to ring, he told me he was doing ...
A. 3 March 2009: A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom + ?, writes (3 March 2009):
ArmyMedic agony aunt
"The years have not been wasted, if you've been married 23 years and had children etc, it's been time well spent, but now it is time to move on."
10clap... (read in full...)
Girlfriend wants a threesome with my ex
Q. Ok, complicated scenario. I was with a girl for over a year and a half. I started sleeping with another girl, who lives out of state and was only in town for a month or two, but my girlfriend didnt know. I ended up breaking it off with the first ...
A. 3 March 2009: I can't tell you if your woman is more interested in sex more than the relationship because that is something that only you can figure out. But I can tell you she is very kinky and you might and probably will have a great sex life.... (read in full...)
23 year old male virgin needs your input
Q. Hello. I am a 23 year old male, heterosexual virgin with no relationship/intimate experience. My problems in these areas resulted primarily from social anxiety and an overall lack of self-confidence. Simply put, I have never taken the initiative ...
A. 3 March 2009: Meh..I still throw my 2 cents in. The fear of being rejected is something you should have accepted. Being afraid of something happens to everyone but when it's over and done with you find out that it wasn't to bad. When you are rejected you gain ... (read in full...)
Pregnant by precum followed by sex?
Q. Ok, silly question, how possible is it to get pregnant from pre cum? Followed by sex? We used a condom but needless to say there was some rubbing before the condom was put on and now I'm late. ...
A. 3 March 2009: Precum contains enough juices to get u pregnant Go find out..... (read in full...)
After 10 years he finally tells me he's not a virgin?
Q. Need Help.... Well I've been together with my boyfriend for 10 yrs we recently moved in together before we get married by the end of the year.. but something ocured and well i'm very concerned and upset! In the beginning the virginity questi...
A. 26 February 2009: 10years is a long time but come on. If he would have told you in the beginning that he wasn't a virgin you would have shut him down completely. You would have been eliminating your choices of men based on preferences. But you do love him. So now ... (read in full...)
Could masturbation and smoking cause erection problems?
Q. i have a question to all the men out there and also the girls but mostly men. when i have sex with my girlfriend i sometimes get soft erections and it gets me mad and i cant get it hard no matter how hard i try. this one time i took a pill to make ...
A. 26 February 2009: Masturbation is actually supposed to be good for men. Smoking might definitely have something to do with it. Also you have to concentrate (ironically) while having sex. ... (read in full...)
She loves me, doesn't want a sexual relationship! Thoughts??
Q. After 4.5 years being engaged,I accidentally discovered my fiance' just recently got on eHarmony, and was very briefly on it 17 months ago. We lived together for 2 yrs, until she got a job 70 miles away [she hadn't worked in 5 yrs] 20 months ago. I ...
A. 11 February 2009: Oh I got your answer. She doesn't want sex means she is holding out on you and their is ironically some trust issues going on. The way it sounds I can say it's not your fault. But if you try to go farther and you know you might then I can just tell ... (read in full...)
Is looking at live nude webcam girls porn or cheating?
Q. I have asked this question before but feel the need to ask one more time. Has any girl out there had her boyfriend look at live nude girls on a video cam? Or are there any guys who watch it? Is it normal and I'm being old-fashioned or is it ...
A. 11 February 2009: Yeah that's not good. If you satisfy his needs i don't see why he is looking at other girls stripping for him. Looking at other girls is regular but an actual room where they strip for you, and you already have a gf is pretty bad.... (read in full...)
Female vs. male masturbation - what is your opinion on this?
Q. I have always wondered why female masturbation is such a taboo subject. It is almost accepted that men will masterbate, so why isn't this level of acceptance given to women making themselves aware of their bodies in a completely natural way. Just ...
A. 11 February 2009: Sexual satisfaction is the same in my eyes. Other people blow this subject out of proportion.... (read in full...)
I like him so bad it hurts...
Q. I really like this guy at work, im 17 and hes 22, i like him so much it hurts and i cant stop thinking about him, i drunkenly told him i like him but i dont know if he took me seriously, we always chat at work and he's always giving me compliments ...
A. 11 February 2009: Age=issue but your love for him shouldn't If you don't have the guts to tell him and vice versa I ca tell you that if you don't do anything you will miss out. If you don't make the move you will be sad for your poor desission. And if you do and he s... (read in full...)
Men, what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced?
Q. I was just wondering for the young guys, (16-25) what do you prefer, experienced or unexperienced? Would you prefer for a girlfreind who is a virgin for example, who you can teach, or someone who is very experienced? xx ...
A. 11 February 2009: Experienced girls are always a plus. Much more pleasure and the boundaries are increased futher :)... (read in full...)
Would you date a girl with this sexual past?
Q. She is perfect in looks for you, perfect in personality for you! She is 21 years old (just imagine that is the perfect age for you lol), KNOW 100% she would never cheat on you, EVERYTHING is perfect for you. But..... She lost her virginity at 14...
A. 11 February 2009: There are 365 days in a year no? And you've added up that she has had over 12 partners over 8 years though? lol Your being picky and like her just for sex. If this wasn't the case you wouldn't be asking for our opinions on a girl you just F***ed. ... (read in full...)
I sit in the bedroom on my own and avoid my husband and kids because I don't know how to tell them the truth.
Q. I have been married for 19 years... the majority of that time I have been unhappy. I have done everything I can to make sure everyone else is happy. I feel so unhappy and alone. I don't want to upset anyone, even when my husband had an affair I ...
A. 25 January 2009: Wow,you want a life at 40. At almost half of your life span you want a life. You should have done that earlier. You need to get out of it. Explain to the kids that daddy did something terrible and I can't forgive him excuses. File some papers for ... (read in full...)
My high sex drive may end our relationship
Q. I'm absolutely in love with my boyfriend and have been pretty much from day one after meeting him, I moved 600 miles, from Scotland to London to be with him full time after just meeting him 4 times (for 3-7 days each time) I don’t regret any of it ...
A. 25 January 2009: Buy a vibrator that is small and portable. Turn it on when you need that edge, and continue to do that until you guys come to an agreement.... (read in full...)
I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?
Q. I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i ...
A. 25 January 2009: A woman needs to keep track of her period. AND there is a certain time when she can have sex w/o a condom...but thats like saying you can take a bullet tot the head 10x over and over again. It's just to risky not to mention precum,and since your a ... (read in full...)
I cant make new friends!
Q. Hi. I have been trying to make new friends for about a year. I got out of a long relationship a year and a half ago, graduated from college like 3 yrs. ago and changed churches, got older (LOL), quit a job...etc. A lot of things have changed in my ...
A. 25 January 2009: Your in a unique situation that most people probably couldn't understand. To be forgotten is worse than death, and that strikes fear in most people nowadays. What you should do is go out and do something you enjoy doing. Do something different and ... (read in full...)
Drunk Sex!
Q. It was after I had been out for a few drinks with my mates, I had been texting this boy for ages and we were always talking about doing things but we never got the chance! Anyway, I was talking to him in the bar and before i know it, it was ...
A. 20 January 2009: Before you can evaluate your partner you need to evaluate your surroundings lolol. Nice story.... (read in full...)
Do I love him enough to keep trying, or give up?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We have had many issues thuoughout the years but have overcome most of them. He says he loves me and in the past I never doubted how I felt for him. We have spoken about marrage and kids. In...
A. 20 January 2009: Well, for one you putting up a wall is a definite noooooo!
Getting rid of communication and feelings are an automatic I don't want this anymore. When you stop communication you stop caring, and in the long run your pushing the relationship away from... (read in full...)
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