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Why do people always say its good to be a virgin? what's so great about it?
Q. Im an 18yr old guy, just out of school, and I'm still a virgin...I don't understand why it's so hard...why I dislike it so much...I feel like I'm missing out...like everyone else is in on something that I'm not a part of. Then people say its a good ...
A. 5 June 2012: I can see where its frustrating for you that people assume you are "waiting for the one" I myself know that I don't intend on waiting until marriage, but I think there is value in being patient and waiting until you are out of highschool. I think ... (read in full...)
I feel like what we had was unfinished, but it didn't really have an official start
Q. So, I'm sixteen. I had a "thing" with this guy who just turned 18 yesterday. This past fall we started hanging out with a mutual friend and there was instant attraction for me. He took me on a few dates, kissed me first and we had this thing were I ...
A. 12 March 2012: Thank you fishdish. ... (read in full...)
I feel like what we had was unfinished, but it didn't really have an official start
Q. So, I'm sixteen. I had a "thing" with this guy who just turned 18 yesterday. This past fall we started hanging out with a mutual friend and there was instant attraction for me. He took me on a few dates, kissed me first and we had this thing were I ...
A. 12 March 2012: Well. he flirts with other girls my age so I don't think that's the problem. I talked to him about why he stopped liking me and he said once he realized he "wasn't 100 percent sure about how he felt that he just shouldn't dive into anything with a C ... (read in full...)
Getting in touch with the guy I like from school?
Q. I saw this cute guy at school. I found out we were already friends on facebook and yesterday he posted a song on his wall. I liked it and commented "old school!" he said "yes" and then said he hates some rappers, among others was an artist I liked, ...
A. 24 November 2011: Wait until he responds and if not, forget about him for a while. It's very hard toestablish a relationship through facebook. A few flirty comments usually won't lead to much more. Just take it easy, don't obsess over this could be guy. ... (read in full...)
Are we dating? I don't know!
Q. I'm a sophomore in highschool. I currently have an unspoken thing with a senior. We are mutual friends of my neighbor's. Matt (neighbor) kind of prompted us. It was so obvious I liked Sid. I didn't know if he liked me or not. He dropped hints, but ...
A. 16 November 2011: I've talked to my mother about this with my sister. They both said that he was being timid. They think he idnt quite ready to admit that he really likes me, but that he obviously does. He has been the one who kisses me, and puts his arm around me ... (read in full...)
Are we dating? I don't know!
Q. I'm a sophomore in highschool. I currently have an unspoken thing with a senior. We are mutual friends of my neighbor's. Matt (neighbor) kind of prompted us. It was so obvious I liked Sid. I didn't know if he liked me or not. He dropped hints, but ...
A. 15 November 2011: I talked to him today about it. I told him I dnt know what we are and I'm tired of tiptoing around him. He told me to be myself and do what I want. I replied I can't because I dnt know what he wants. He said he doesn't know. He said he really likes ... (read in full...)
Are we dating? I don't know!
Q. I'm a sophomore in highschool. I currently have an unspoken thing with a senior. We are mutual friends of my neighbor's. Matt (neighbor) kind of prompted us. It was so obvious I liked Sid. I didn't know if he liked me or not. He dropped hints, but ...
A. 12 November 2011: Thank you Tisha-1 for elaborating on your advice. It makes sense and has opened my eyes a little bit wider to my situation. I will definately try to be a little more unavailable, but don't think I could pull off acting as if other guys are fighting ... (read in full...)
Are we dating? I don't know!
Q. I'm a sophomore in highschool. I currently have an unspoken thing with a senior. We are mutual friends of my neighbor's. Matt (neighbor) kind of prompted us. It was so obvious I liked Sid. I didn't know if he liked me or not. He dropped hints, but ...
A. 11 November 2011: Clarifications: I'm 16 he is 17. We've been going on dates for around three months now. ... (read in full...)
Are we dating? I don't know!
Q. I'm a sophomore in highschool. I currently have an unspoken thing with a senior. We are mutual friends of my neighbor's. Matt (neighbor) kind of prompted us. It was so obvious I liked Sid. I didn't know if he liked me or not. He dropped hints, but ...
A. 10 November 2011: Thank you for your advice, but I don't think it's his personality to say "YES!" He is very outgoing, but very conservative when it comes to his feelings. He doesn't talk to anyone about his relationships because he feels its his and the other ... (read in full...)
Are we both too proud? Why am I like this? I never wanted to hurt him or to get hurt so easily
Q. I am 19. Seeing a now 35yr old man. We have been seeing each other for nearly two years. I secretly love him, and he has told me he loves me. But, he has gone away on bussiness and I miss him. We spoke to each other on Skype every morning and nigh...
A. 28 August 2011: Call him and explain your childish mistake. If he was out on business than maybe he couldn't answer your calls until later. And the logging in thing sometimes registers logs outs from previous sessions to when you logged in. Like when you receive a ... (read in full...)
Why do people think its okay to berate women who sleep with married men?
Q. I'm so fed up reading people taking the moral high ground on every topic, especially that of married cheats and 'home wreckers' There is so much contraversy surrounding cheating at the moment on this site and I would like to express my views as...
A. 17 August 2011: You should respect yourself enough not to go sleeping around with men who have made a vow to another person. You are just as much at fault than the married person. What's the point of a relationship if everyones just going to cheat? Yes, it's human ... (read in full...)
What do girls think about an 18 year old virgin?
Q. theres a girlm i have started to like and she sounds like she likes me too as we flirt all the time and she immediately replies to my messages that i send her. theres this friend who we both know she went to school with this girl i like and im at...
A. 17 June 2011: Personally, I think that an 18 year old virgin is attractive. It means you respect yourself and are waiting for the right time (in most cases anyway) if the subject comes up don't try to hide it, but I wouldn't blurt it all out.... (read in full...)
I'm open to love, but I'm cynical about highschool relationships.
Q. Hey guys and gals, haven't needed advice for a while. I'm fifteen. A guy in my gym class is a junior, eighteen, but shoudl've been a senior this year. There is a mentally challenged kid that isn't so bad that he is separate from other kids. He gets ...
A. 16 June 2011: MissTellAll, thanks for the advice. I am going to give him space because im leaving for a two month summer camp. The problem I face is that he will waiting for me to get back. He has no life besides playing video games and doing nothing. 18 without ... (read in full...)
Should I one day try and have sex with a woman? To see if it will stop these feelings?
Q. I am a 39 year old 'male ' and have never had sex, not even a kiss!I was very,very,very,very, shy when I was growing up. I could not dare go near a girl!!!! One day when I was off ill form school , age 14-15, I wondered what it was like to be ...
A. 15 June 2011: Are you ashamed of being a crossdresser? If that's who you are having sex won't change you. Embrace yourself and feel confident, be proud that you were brave enough to find out who you are and what you enjoy doing. If you are still having doubts, I ... (read in full...)
Seeing a guy naked turns me on but I'm not gay
Q. help.Im a teen, age 14, and i just started puberty, and ive been watching porn. at first it was moderate. then i stared doing it everyight.then i saw a gay porn video and stupid stuff like that. i feel so ashamed i know that im not gay. i cant ...
A. 12 February 2011: I feel that being so young and just starting out with this stuff, you don't have much experience with what the other sex looks like. Personally, yes I know what a penis looks like, but I just can't picture one in my head and when I do I get turned ... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to ask out a girl thats younger than me who has never dated before?
Q. I'm a 13 boy who goes to a really small school in mass. iv'e had 2 girlfriends in the past 2 years and they both ended in heartbreak. My relationships i had before were always so dramatic and romantic at the same time. I'm one of those helpless...
A. 10 February 2011: You are completely right. Sometimes it doesn't take hundreds to know. Don't pass this one up kiddo, go with what your heart is telling you and hopefully things will fall into place. Always be open and willing to give things a chance. :) if you don't ... (read in full...)
My cold hand in his warm hand generates sweat! Help!
Q. my new bf asked me if i like holding hands HOW DO I TELL HIM THAT when something cold (my hand) gets warm (his hand) it generates water (in my case water = sweat) and i cant help it what do I do!?...
A. 2 February 2011: Part of holding hands is feting sweaty, its fine. Go ahead hold his hand, if he wants to he shouldn't care about the sweat. If it gets too much, pull your hand away and make a joke "our hands are all sweaty! *chuckle*" And wipe it off and hold it ... (read in full...)
Is it a waste of my time to keep thinking about him?
Q. First of all i wanted to say thanks for taking the time to read this and for the input, I really appreciate it. So.. I am a 20 years old female, from the midwest. I am over in New Zealand for six months as a nanny living with a single mother and ...
A. 2 February 2011: I don't have much advice but this is an amazing love story. What all has happened since September? :)... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to ask out a girl thats younger than me who has never dated before?
Q. I'm a 13 boy who goes to a really small school in mass. iv'e had 2 girlfriends in the past 2 years and they both ended in heartbreak. My relationships i had before were always so dramatic and romantic at the same time. I'm one of those helpless...
A. 2 February 2011: Nikida656,
Love at your age is so unstable and unpredictable. Having 2 girlfriends in 2 years isn't a good sign. It means you fall deeply too early and end up with drama and early teen heart break. Trust me, i've been there. The next girl you meet... (read in full...)
Do I have to dump my married man?
Q. Im inlove with married man,we have been together for some mnths now,judging by his actions i think he loves me,god im so much inlove with him,he dont want to talk much about his marriage,is he using me for sex?do i have to dump him b4 it 2 late?...
A. 28 November 2010: Even if he loves you now, what if he leaves his wife for you? If he was plenty okay cheating on his wife then who's to say he won't cheat on you. Most marriage affairs don't last because the man knows he doing wrong and being unfair to both of you. ... (read in full...)
He won't let me say sorry...
Q. So I have problem and no one really seems to understands my situation.... So over the summer I got into a fight with someone special to me. My whole summer has been stress and painful, many things have happened including getting into a lot of fights ...
A. 28 November 2010: What was your promise?... (read in full...)
He may want someone he can actually touch
Q. So.. where to begin. I'm a freshman in highschool. I got my first kiss at an overnight camp when I was 11. Not make out or anything. Last year at this same camp me and a boy, Oscar*, started to like eachother. He was my 2nd kiss, I his first. This ...
A. 17 September 2010: That was a huge uhoh. Its amazing what two missing letters can do to a meaning. I have to admitt that I was uppset at that for a while and thought I was going to start to be negative as well. But better late than never. Thanks for clearing it up I ... (read in full...)
A weighty issue...
Q. How much should you weigh if your 5'4 and 15? I'm a little under 100 pounds and want to know if guys would think im where i should be because my bf says I'm real skinny....
A. 16 September 2010: That doesn't sound too healthy. Do your ribs show? But it may just be the way u are. Naturally skinny. Do you eat a lot or do you diet? If you do eat, and I mean eat, it night just mean you have a high matabolism. But I'm 5 5" and 130. Most my ... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable for me to ask him to commit to a mutual schedule to chat?
Q. I have a distant friendship with a man (for the last two years, email and chat) which has grown into a stronger and more sexual attraction. We have so much in common and hugely attracted to each other. In the last month he has started to say h...
A. 15 September 2010: yea. i agree. Just take the relationship as it comes, if it starts working- great, if not just be mature about it so nothing between you two is completely ruined. I've been trying to relax and think of myself first before I start worrying about him. ... (read in full...)
He may want someone he can actually touch
Q. So.. where to begin. I'm a freshman in highschool. I got my first kiss at an overnight camp when I was 11. Not make out or anything. Last year at this same camp me and a boy, Oscar*, started to like eachother. He was my 2nd kiss, I his first. This ...
A. 14 September 2010: Please more advice!... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable for me to ask him to commit to a mutual schedule to chat?
Q. I have a distant friendship with a man (for the last two years, email and chat) which has grown into a stronger and more sexual attraction. We have so much in common and hugely attracted to each other. In the last month he has started to say h...
A. 14 September 2010: Well, I dnt really have an answer but wanted to say I feel the same as you. I want to know if he thinks of me as well and I'm constatly checking his facebook and such but I dnt want to smother like you said and ask him to set out time for me. Just ... (read in full...)
How do I get boyfriend to be more flirty and tender?
Q. I've known my bf for three years. He is a quiet guy but funny and outgoing around ther right people. We love eachother and stuff but I dnt rele feel the love. -in an ldr- like when we talk txt or I'm he never calls me a pet name or is really ...
A. 12 September 2010: Thanks guys. I guess it is that he's not physically here with me, not necesarily that I need him to call me a pet name. I know he likes me and that's all I need. I just want him around me all the time :P. Thanks again :)... (read in full...)
How do I kiss my boyfriend right?
Q. How do i kiss my boyfriend right? like if i was to french kiss is there anyway to stop a lot of saliva? cuz that sounds like a major turn off......
A. 11 September 2010: I was prude to kissing as well this summer. my bf was too. We tlked about it how we both wanted to but were nervous. Then one day it just happened when we were going for a sweet peck on the lips. U lean in and spread ur lips apart slightly then just ... (read in full...)
Getting him to take care of himself!
Q. Do any of you have any success in getting your husbands to take care of their own "needs" more often than not?...
A. 8 September 2010: I think you need to elaborate more on your question.... (read in full...)
How can I spend more time with him without making it too obvious?
Q. I'm 15 and I really like this guy who's 16. I used to see him a lot but not so much anymore I dont know many of his friends so I cant just go some place with them and hope hes there and I dont have a cell to call or text him so my question is how ...
A. 7 September 2010: I think in this case being straight forward is the only solution. Don't be too overpowering but start a conversation with him. Try to get to know him better and if the converstaion is rolling sneak in an invitation to hang out sometime. Hanging out ... (read in full...)
She made out with her ex and it turned me on!
Q. A week ago, my girlfriend of almost 2 years and I took a "break", which lasted three days. We both sort of agreed to the break after a series of little fights, though I was the main proponent of the break. We both said we love each other and want to ...
A. 7 September 2010: If you love eachother she shouldn't have to make out with anyone except you. It probly turned u on knowing that she wanted to make you jealous, not the fact that she was going to make out with an ex. Allowing eachother to makeout with other people ... (read in full...)
Do you think my body type will attract guys?
Q. im a little fat.... but im shapely and i have a close to flat tummy and 40 C boobs. i am worried everyone will just think im a fat lard lol. my middle skewl friends say thee are alot of REALLY fat people. im starting middle school tommorow and im ...
A. 7 September 2010: You can never fully accept someone loving you the way you are until you fully accept yourself. If you are unhappy with yourself and desperatly want to change, do it and then look for the person you want. Being insecure when ur man likes u is a major ... (read in full...)
Should I give in to a 3some to make my boyfriend happy?
Q. I have a boyfriend I been with for almost 3 years now. We are very happy together we have the occasional fight mostly because I am very jealous. I don't want to share him with any one else. He says he doesn't want to be with anyone else. He ...
A. 7 September 2010: I wouldn't give into the 3some just to make him happy. He should respect the fact that you aren't comfortable with that. And if its a lack in the bedroom maybe try something different that could possibly take the place of the 3some. And depending ... (read in full...)
Shy guy around girls...
Q. please help me out! i need your advice!! im a 21 years old guy in a good shape and often times i catch some people checking me out. the problem is when i start talking to a girl i always think she is "the one meant to be". so im too nice too ...
A. 7 September 2010: Well, maybe start a door opening conversation. Ask her a question that the woman can lead off of. Never ask a yes or no question because this will just lead to an awkward silence. And with being stressed out just take a deep breath, understand that ... (read in full...)
He won't let me say sorry...
Q. So I have problem and no one really seems to understands my situation.... So over the summer I got into a fight with someone special to me. My whole summer has been stress and painful, many things have happened including getting into a lot of fights ...
A. 6 September 2010: Why and how did he kiss you?? Anyway, so the problem is you are just friends but you think there could possibly be more when he thinks there isn't. I've had this situation before, even though u are just friends it feels more real and serious and at ... (read in full...)
Is there something I can do to make my period happen faster?
Q. I'm 16; and haven't had my period, I'm worried because my boyfriend and i had sex 2 weeks ago and it didn't feel like he pulled up in in time and some of 'it' was inside of me; My period was only meant to come yesterday but i was just wondering if ...
A. 6 September 2010: Honey, if your pregnant there isn't a thing you can do to make your period come faster. And if that's the case, having your period faster wouldn't even matter. Was ur boyfriend wearing protection? You tallked about him not pulling out in time, for ... (read in full...)
He won't let me say sorry...
Q. So I have problem and no one really seems to understands my situation.... So over the summer I got into a fight with someone special to me. My whole summer has been stress and painful, many things have happened including getting into a lot of fights ...
A. 6 September 2010: Maybe he likes you more than you think. Him being mad at you for not having self confidence and faith that you are awesome may make him a little upset bc he might see everything you are and expresses tht to you but if u always shoot urself down it ... (read in full...)
Should I forget about my LDR?
Q. Hello, Well i am 15 and in a long distant realationship with my girlfriend. I have been seeing her on Saturdays for 30mins after footy but when i get home i cry and cry because i love her so much it sucks being away from her. I need some advice on ...
A. 6 September 2010: Hello, I'm 14 and in the same situation except I don't even see him regularly. He lives in ny, I pa. One of the things that has helped me is not only occasional phone calls but video chatting. Like Fefi said, planning a day to be with ur gf will ... (read in full...)
He may want someone he can actually touch
Q. So.. where to begin. I'm a freshman in highschool. I got my first kiss at an overnight camp when I was 11. Not make out or anything. Last year at this same camp me and a boy, Oscar*, started to like eachother. He was my 2nd kiss, I his first. This ...
A. 2 September 2010: I'm 14. I've already come to realization that all through my highschool years I'm going to be in failed relationships. They won't last. Just because I know they won't last doesn't mean I won't try them out and try to make the best of it. I think ... (read in full...)
He may want someone he can actually touch
Q. So.. where to begin. I'm a freshman in highschool. I got my first kiss at an overnight camp when I was 11. Not make out or anything. Last year at this same camp me and a boy, Oscar*, started to like eachother. He was my 2nd kiss, I his first. This ...
A. 2 September 2010: The main problem is that I don't want to seem to clingy or attached by wanting to call or for him to call. The problem isn't about him losing interest or anything I know he won't. How do I get him to initiate video chatting and calling? We both ... (read in full...)
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