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writes: I saw this cute guy at school. I found out we were already friends on facebook and yesterday he posted a song on his wall. I liked it and commented "old school!" he said "yes" and then said he hates some rappers, among others was an artist I liked, so I told him I liked one of them but the rest are silly. I also said judging by his profile he has great taste in music. But he didn't reply. I don't know what to do, I checked his info and there is his messenger ID. Should I add him? What do I tell him in that case? Please help me guys I'm stuck ;(..
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reader, dope320 +, writes (26 November 2011):
dope320 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all! I've added him in my list and we chatted a little. He seems a nice guy and we even share hobbies: watching movies and we're both athletic, we're keen on fitness and sports. He hasn't been online for a few days, and since it's weekend I don't know how to get in contact with him. Maybe I'll see him online later or tomorrow. Anyways, I'll try to forget about shyness and talk to him at school on Monday :(
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reader, Placebogirl +, writes (24 November 2011):
Hi!
Firsty do you speak to this guy at school? If not you could start with saying hi when you see him or talking to him if he's in any of your classes.
I wouldnt worry about him not replying to your last comment, maybe you could speak to him on Facebook Chat or message him asking how he is etc. You could always ask him if he would like to chat on messenger instead and give him your ID?
Alternativly if you decide to add him on messager just say you've seen him around school, and think that you two should chat more! :)
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reader, Newbie31 +, writes (24 November 2011):
Wait until he responds and if not, forget about him for a while. It's very hard toestablish a relationship through facebook. A few flirty comments usually won't lead to much more. Just take it easy, don't obsess over this could be guy.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx +, writes (24 November 2011):
Why don't you try talking to him at school? Even though facebook and MSN are always good ways of staying in contact, sometimes things can not come across the right way on the internet, or just start petty arguements over nothing.
When you see him at school, you could approcah him on your own or with your friends and just say, "oh you were the boy with the good music taste on facebook" and use that as a convorsation starter.
If you really want to stick to just talking on the internet, then add hes messenger ID whats the worse that could happen?
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