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male
age
30-35,
*aviet
writes:It's been almost 2 weeks since my ex and I broke up. We decided mutually to break up, even though she brought it up and that I still loved her, I lied and let her go because I didn't want her keep going with me. Okay can't be arsed to tell the sob story. She just messed around with me, sent me mixed messages. She wants me to stay around, be her friend. She kissed some guy right in front of me 6 days after we broke up, we broke up on our 15th anniversary too. Too much crap happened. She even fancied this guy from 2 months before we broke up. I tried to win her back, she doesn't want me back even though she feels the same about me. Argh screw this. What can I do to move on?
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reader, monacons  +, writes (29 November 2011):
In order for you to move on you need to cut every bit of contact that ye have... Yes it may be hard totally understandable but she dosent have your best interests at heart so she is really not worth getting upset over. If she questions you on why you havent been in contact just tell her its for the best so ye can both move on.
Keep yourself busy and go meet new people get back in contact with your friends and if there really good friends you could tell them how you feel.. Have a night out and just keep your head high is my best advice i could give to you i have done all the above and it works just give it time.. Go out and enjoy your life.. It was not meant to be and hey there is plenty more girls in the sea
Good Luck :)
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reader, Eilish +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Well, it sounds like she hasn't exactly treated you as well as you should have been.1- cut contact with her, delete her mobile number, email, everything.2- find a new hobby to take up your time so it takes your mind off her.3- go out somewhere with your friends and have fun!!!I know it may be hard, but it's better than getting hurt by her over and over again. But once you are, you'll feel great. good luck xxx
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reader, monacons +, writes (26 March 2011):
A girl who dose that is not worth you time, try stay well away from her and cut off all contact it will benefit you if she is only trying to make you jelouse,
she may have no respect for you nor herself from the sounds of it... Think of it this way the guy that is with her now has to put up with the crap you put up with if not that she may be worse to him.... It will take time and you will soon look back and say thank god i got a lucky get away it way not seem like that now but in time it will, Keep your head held high and dont lower youself to her level............
Hope This Helps
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reader, lakers_lover09  +, writes (26 March 2011):
First step is always to cut off contact with the ex. I kno u love her and always want her in ur life but she is an ex now and its time to focus on YOU. Do u have any hobbies or dreams tht u wish to accomplish? If so I would start there. Find a passiin in somethin other than ur love for her. Also, hang with the fellas again! Ur young ...pining ovef a girl is something u dont need to do until u r much older! Good luck my friend :)
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female
reader, MamaBear +, writes (26 March 2011):
You can move on by applying yourself in your studies, find a part-time job, go out for a sport or an intramural activity. Do not let this young woman deliberately upset you. You are giving away your power. Young women can be great flirts. For the time being tho, try to avoid the same area where you two could run into each other. No need to rub salt into the wound!
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