Is this pushing the limits?
Q. It is starting to get warm now and us girls are starting to wear more comfortable clothing. But this one girl in our class is crossing the line, she wore a very short mini skirt to school and when she bent over to get her bag from her locker she had ...
A. 14 May 2011: i think that is proberly is a very risky move to wear a short skirt with nothing one under it. i certainly wouldnt do that!
however you can focuse on what people do, as long as your happy with the way your dressing and your morals then dont get to b... (read in full...)
I do not want to live the rest of my life never being french kissed and having that closeness and intimacy!
Q. I am 29, and have been dating a 40 year old for a little over 6 months now, when we first got together, he joked all the time about sex, but never made a move. Said every other relationship he was in, he was in bed in the 1st week and he really ...
A. 14 May 2011: hey. i sounds like this guy has alot of intamacy issues, and he needs to get help with that. You arnt happy with the way this realtionship is so it doesnt sound to me like it is going to work. My adivce is that you should leave him, he needs to... (read in full...)
I should move on but I think of him all the time. Should I call him?
Q. Not sure sex buddy or more? I was living in Sydney and meet a guy who was nice, and would all ways bump in to him in the most random places and call me at random times,but like me had commitment issues. For months we would hook up on a night out a...
A. 9 March 2011: the problem is sweet, there is alot of history. you had a lot of casual sex with him so you dont know if thats all he wants form you. You dont want to put your trust in him and start a realtionship if all he is after is sex. you need to go slowly if ... (read in full...)
She's shy and now won't even be my friend, how do I change this?
Q. I have a girl in my class. I like her very much. I used to talk to her daily. We just become friends. Problem is that our classmates used to say that we were in relationship. She is a bit shy and doesnt like this, that someone is saying that we are ...
A. 9 March 2011: it sounds to me like she doesnt want a relationship, shes obviously having a problem with people saying there is somthing going on between you and her, and she obviously doesnt like the problems she getting from home about it. If you really like ... (read in full...)
Cheating lying boyfriend..how to handle this planned trip?
Q. So, I found out my boyfriend of 6yrs who has cheated before had cheated with a girl over a year ago tells me that it happened a while ago and it was during the time we were having problems..and that he is so sorry! I have finally come to my senses ...
A. 9 March 2011: if you cant trust him 100% then you really should not be with him. Its unfair on you to have to be constanly checking up on him or always looking out for the warning signes. maybe he has changed but aftera ll he did to u he doesnt derseve a second ... (read in full...)
How do I begin to tell people that I think I am gay?
Q. I have a girlfriend and a small selection of friends. I am not sure how to tell them that I think I am gay. I don't feel sexually attracted to any females and I do feel attracted to males, which is what has lead me to believe this. I don't want...
A. 25 February 2011: Most people are worried about what others will think especially if they know they are judgmental. At the moment you don’t need to worry about telling people as you don’t know for sure yourself. Spend some time with friends maybe flirting with guys ... (read in full...)
Are all my ex boyfriend's decisions being controlled by his friend?
Q. So my ex broke up with me 3 days after valentines day... he says his reason is because he cant make me happy. I'm confused because even though we did argue we seemed to be recently working things out... He proposed to me the day after Valentin...
A. 25 February 2011: even if his friends told him to do this, hes still not a good boyfriend for listening to them ignoring your calls or htroughing your things out of the window. Its obvios that right now he doesnt wnat a realtionship and sweetie your better off with ... (read in full...)
My Mum is coming between my first love and me!!
Q. Ok so i'm 15 in yr 10 goin' on to work experience etc and my friends who don't go to my school (they go to a grammar one) have a friend who's in yr 11 (just turned 16) and when i met him he was really nice and fun to talk to. Then one night (l...
A. 25 February 2011: hey sweetie!
can i just start by saying i was in your possition once. i never got asked out and i was 15 just before work ex when it first happend to me. Be so careful, becuase its so new and exciting it is easy to let your self get so carried away... (read in full...)
Why are women devalued after sex but not men?
Q. Why is it that after sex , a man devalues a woman and views her as " cheap stuff " or " slut " but you don't hear women calling men " cheap " ? Why is it that for a woman to be able to make the man stay interested in her, i.e. want her not jus...
A. 4 February 2011: in a mans eyes and in womans to a woman who just gives in ana has sex with anyone doesnt respect herself so why should a man, thats how ppl think. Women are naturl more selective when it comes to men where as men arent, thats just the science of ... (read in full...)
My real life friends want me to delete my online friend from my life!
Q. what do i do! i met this guy online and we really like each other. however i told my bestfriends and they were like what the hell. I have been talking to him for 7 months , we talk to webcam etc etc and we both like each other. We cant be together...
A. 28 January 2011: What most people forget is that there best friends are going to be there for you before this relationship starts and after. You wouldnt want to lose your friends thn get hurt by this guy and have no one to turn to. Your best friends are your bes... (read in full...)
Fiance has an anger problem and I don't know what to do
Q. So my finance has anger problem and idk what to do anymore. When i meet him he was a happy person he is like a comedian he makes every body laugh but like a year in the relationship i got to meet his family and she argues a lot with his sister .But ...
A. 27 January 2011: You need to act fast. Young children are very impressible and this WILL affect them. You need to get them out of this situation until your partner learns to curb his anger. Give him an ultimatum, tell him either he changes ir you will walk. But once ... (read in full...)
Flat tire, 6mo preggo, and bf is more worried about his xbox game?
Q. So I got a flat tire on my way to work. I'm 6 months pregnant and have no cell phone and live in MN where it was a balmy 20*f out today. I was able to stop someone driving by to use their phone and call my dad. My dad came and helped me, the only ...
A. 27 January 2011: It is obvious that your boyfriend has not grown up yet. You are more his mum or best friend then the mother of his child. You need to make it obvious to him that he has to grow up and grow up FAST!!!! It is obvious that you have a supporting family ... (read in full...)
Should I try to work on this relationship?
Q. Love ! What should I do ? Hi , I am 28 years old, accountant . I live in Canada and traveled to Vietnam last month to visit family. During the last 2 weeks there, I met this girl 20 years old, not really well educated and from a poorer family c...
A. 26 January 2011: This girl obviously has a very low opinion of herself. Women who go through abortions when they don’t really want to, often suffer with guilt and find it hard to let go of grief. Not only has she lost a child but her family pulled her away from her ... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring me?
Q. Why is he ignoring me?? We have been together for nine months and we get on very well and I love him lots and Im sure he loves me lots too!! well he says he does!! The last few weeks he has been dropping me for his friends and not really been ...
A. 26 January 2011: Have you spoken to your boyfriend?? He probably does love you but feels to young to be in a serious relationship and if thats te case he needs to tell you now so that he is not leading you which is very unfair on you!! Tell him you think your ... (read in full...)
I told him I'm not a virgin but I am
Q. Well im 14 and im going out with this boy and he is everything a girl can ask for and its like .... the worst part is wen i first met him i told him i wasnt a vigin ( which i really am) and now i think he dosent know what im waiting for its like i ...
A. 26 January 2011: If weighting till marriage is something you want to do then do it no one will look down on your for it. From what i can tell sound a bit to young you dont know enough about contraception and you cant even be truthful with your partner. Being a ... (read in full...)
We used to have sex 4 times a week now we only do it once a week
Q. I'm almost 7months pregnant me n my bf hav been togethEr for 4yrs I love him but he has been wrkin out of twn n only comes over the weekends we only have sex once a week we used to have sex about 4 times a week I'm really confused I don't no if its ...
A. 26 January 2011: When relationship has got a strain things like sex do change. And there’s no bigger stress then pregnancy. He’s probably really worried about the birth (people often forget about the guys) so is working more then he needs to. He might also be ... (read in full...)
Should I keep working on our relationship, or should I move on?
Q. I've been with my partner for almost 2 yrs and we have a baby girl. I have a hard time talking to him or even getting him to take me seriously. We have had a lot of problems since we had our baby, nothing seems to be good enough for him. I've been ...
A. 26 January 2011: The first thing you need to do is be apart straight away!!! Im sure you agree that your child should not see anger or her father putting her mother down. As young as she is she will understand that something’s not right . Once you temporarily ... (read in full...)
She wants to have the wedding after he graduates, he's worried she will cheat!
Q. Hello, My friend is having a problem about her fiancee. They both are in college but my friend is graduating in a year and her fiancee is graduating in four. She wants to tell him that she wants to have the wedding after he graduates but ...
A. 26 January 2011: this is a simple one to answer if he is worried she will cheat then there relationship is not ready for marrage.
then need to take it slowly after all just because you put a ring on someones finger does not mean they will not go off and find some... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my ex?
Q. My ex bf and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I initiated, but he agreed so it was mutual. We want different things in the future and it's for the best. Our relationship was short-term. I don't want him back. I do miss talking to him and miss his friendsh...
A. 26 January 2011: it doesn’t sound like the best thing to do right now. Sex should be when you are in a relationship that’s happy and stable. Right now neither of you know what you want or can make a decision without hesitation. While you are apart trying hang out ... (read in full...)
Should I make him choose between drugs and me?
Q. Wow, so I don't really know where to start. This may be longer than I expect, so I apologise in advance. I started dating this guy not long ago, he is older than me, which is fine, age to me has never been a barrier. But is it not strange how things ...
A. 26 January 2011: Sweetie it’s completely wrong to be asking him to choose between you or the drugs. If he chooses you he won’t be giving up drugs for the right reasons and he will relapse or it will just make it worse. He is not in the right place for a relation... (read in full...)
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