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Why am I different down there?
Q. I recently removed most of my pubic hair and I've come to notice that my skin down there is about 2-3 shades darker than my normal skin. Some of my friends who have removed their hair claim that their skin is lighter. Is there something wrong with ...
A. 11 March 2009: the skin is naturally darker down there. don't worry, you are very much normal. Also, people do look different, it doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you. :)... (read in full...)
Should I return my big sister's love
Q. hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...
A. 11 March 2009: The ralationship between siblings is a difficult one; naturally, there is no real bond between brothers and sisters, just because you have the same parents doesn't mean a friendship between you is innate. Most siblings argue and you are very lucky ... (read in full...)
I need help getting over this guy, what do I do?
Q. i need advice badly! So i have a really big crush, on someone that is off limits, and i need to get over it! i'm driving myself crazy! at night i think about him, when i'm getting ready for skewl i think about him, i think about him a lot!! I ju...
A. 19 November 2008: I think you are being really mature; it is normal for you to feel jealous if there is someone you are attracted to who already is with someone else, and your attitude and respect for other people's relationship is really nice :). The only thing you ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my boyfriend to touch me "down there"?
Q. I have gone down on my boyfriend multiple times. He asked if he can touch me but I was uncomfortable at the time so I said no, but now I'm ready. How do I ask him?...
A. 28 April 2008: guide his hands while you are kissing. he will get the idea without embarassing or cheesy lines... (read in full...)
My ex is with someone new, even though I know he used to love me. Any chance of us in future?
Q. My ex bf has a new gf, the girl he cheated on me with when he was drunk and it meant nothing!! We were going out 3yrs and in a difficult patch but working on it when he went out and kissed this girl. He works with her so has known her for some time ...
A. 8 April 2008: hey, i went though this VERY same situation just the other month, then this weekend, I met up with my ex at a party, partly by coincidence, and we talked, he took me for a walk and we ended up back at his, me him and my very drunk best friend. My ... (read in full...)
I worry that I'm going to miss out on my youth - seeing as I am only 18.
Q. I have just broken up with my Boyfriend of 4 years, and I'm unsure of what is right anymore?...The reason I wanted to finish it was because I was confused about our relationship, and worried that I was going to miss out on my youth seeing as I am ...
A. 6 April 2008: naturally, after a 4 year relationship, it is hard to let go. You may feel really bad for hurting someone that you have been close to for so long, but you can't let his feelings stop you from ending the relationship if you have reason why you want ... (read in full...)
How to express my feelings and needs without seeming I am pressuring her?
Q. OK so, i've been dating this wonderful girl for 3 months now. I want to tell her that im ready for something more than just kissing (if you know what i mean(not sex btw)) but i don't want to make it seem like im pressuring her. I just feel she may ...
A. 29 March 2008: if you have a good enough relationship then you should be able to talk to her about anything.. i know that is alot to ask at your age, but going further than kissing is a big step, and so you should feel comfortable completely before rushing into ... (read in full...)
Now he likes me, but the problem is I don't like him any more then a friend and I can't tell him this because it will break his heart.
Q. I have a guy friend who I used to like, that's how I became friends with him in the first place. Now he likes me, but the problem is I don't like him any more then a friend and I can't tell him this because it will break his heart. What do I do? He ...
A. 22 March 2008: At the end of the day, the best thing is to tell him the truth, it would be much worse if yo led him along and then hurt him. It is the lesser of two evils I am afraid. I would tell him sooner rather than later too to try and lessen the hurt.I'm ... (read in full...)
Does it sound like my ex wants me back?
Q. We broke up 3 months ago, and in the past 6 weeks, my ex boyfriend has had a few conversations with my family and friends, about me, and how he feels about me. He had gone so far as to say his feelings came back for me when he saw me one day ...
A. 22 March 2008: Although it does sound like his feelings are returning, i would not jump at hm straight away, as he may be battling a few demons about this, as should you. You have to remember the reason for you breaking up in the first place, and do you realy want ... (read in full...)
What is bugging my sister so much?
Q. I've got a sister and I've recently found out that she's been saying all sorts to her friends, like I am fat, I have not eaten in days, when I know damn well she has! She said she's not fat to me! and always acts depressed around her friends. She ...
A. 19 March 2008: it may be an attention thing, she may have seen all of the information on tv and other places about anorexia and other eating disorders, and knows it is a cry for attention, so mimics that behaviour for attention herself. She will probably grow out ... (read in full...)
We're "off" again! What do I do here for the best???
Q. My boyfriend and I are on again off again. When wer'e off he is always going back to his ex. He says he wants only me yet there are little signs that say otherwise....
A. 19 March 2008: I fhe is always going back to his ex, why do you keep taking him back afterwards? That should immediately need tackling, otherwise he will just walk all over you, feeling that he can go to whoever he want when he is 'off' with you, its hard to know ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that the morning after pill was inefficient in my case.
Q. i took the morning after pill within 72hours, a week later i got a really really light period that lasted a day and came earlier, it has been now 34days and still no period.. i am so worried i am pregnant Help?...
A. 18 March 2008: i have taken it bfore, and it messed my periods up in the same way too, so dont worry too much. But I would take a pregnancy test just to make sure, its the best way. x... (read in full...)
I'm 17, male, 5' 6" and wonder if I have stopped growing taller...any thoughts?
Q. Hi, Im not sure whether this question is the type which should be posted on here, but id be grateful for any answers. I'm a male whos just turned 17. I'm 5 foot 6" tall, but i've never had a growth spurt, and i dont seem to be growing much, if at al...
A. 18 March 2008: look at your parents, how tall are they? you are liekly to atleast outgrow your mothr. And most guys and girls do noy finish growing completely until about 19. Don't worry, you should grow some more. :)... (read in full...)
I don't know what's up with him. What if he calls me this week, what should I say?
Q. My boyfriend of over 2 years decided over a month ago out of the blue that he wanted space. I gave that to him.. I was devastated so headed back to my home country for a month to recover. During that time he would text and email and call ...
A. 7 March 2008: Just ask him to tell you what is going on, keep it short and simple. He will get the message.... (read in full...)
I don't know what's up with him. What if he calls me this week, what should I say?
Q. My boyfriend of over 2 years decided over a month ago out of the blue that he wanted space. I gave that to him.. I was devastated so headed back to my home country for a month to recover. During that time he would text and email and call ...
A. 6 March 2008: Just let him tak, if he just checks up on you, tell him your not okay because he is messing you around, tell him your off if he's going to mess you around and mak a fool out of you. That's all I can suggest. I know this is all very hard for you. I ... (read in full...)
I like him but he lives in France
Q. Hi everyone. I'll go straight to the point. Last week i went to a party and i was introduced to a guy that lives in france and came he for holiday, and after talking and flirting we made out and it was perfect! he's back home now and we text eve...
A. 5 March 2008: This is very hard, as it is bviously not going to work when you are never going to see him. my advice? Cut it of before you get in too deep before you get hurt, as a relationship is highly likely to ever work with that distance.... (read in full...)
Should I prevent my ex that his current gf has a grim past, which includes drugs? Should I express my concerns?
Q. Hey there! I'm thirteen years old and basically, going through possibly (from what I've been told) the toughest time of my life. Anyways, getting to the point. My ex-boyfriend who I broke up with then two weeks later realized I made a horrible ...
A. 5 March 2008: I honestly don't think it is you who should tell him this stuff. Ask yourself, why are nne of his other friends telling him what is wong? Surely if it was that much of a problem, they ould confront him themselves. The chances are he won' listen to ... (read in full...)
How long does it take for me to wait until she is ready for a serious relationship?
Q. I met this girl online. This girl moved back to my area after a rocky divorce. We met for lunch on the first date. On the second date we went to the beach and had fun. She told me that she is shy about going further down to a serious relationship ...
A. 5 March 2008: Months dear. If she has just gone though a divorce it could take a very long time. However, it may not tak a long time at all. All that is clear is that you should not pressure her into a relationship, that wil only scare her away. Offer her help if ... (read in full...)
Can I be pregnant?
Q. Hello, Right, about a month ago during Sex with my Boyfriend the condom came off. I was quite worried that I might have got pregnant but two days later I started my period so I though everything was fine. Since that little scare we have been ver...
A. 5 March 2008: Yes, definitely there is a risk of being pregnant, only a small risk, but a risk nevertheless. I would get a test as soon as possible just to make sure. Maybe you should go back on the pill to avoid these worries? x... (read in full...)
I don't know what's up with him. What if he calls me this week, what should I say?
Q. My boyfriend of over 2 years decided over a month ago out of the blue that he wanted space. I gave that to him.. I was devastated so headed back to my home country for a month to recover. During that time he would text and email and call ...
A. 5 March 2008: What I did is a bad example, but an example nontheless. Hearing my mistake could help you. I chased after my guy, blaming everything on me, and I can pretty much put it down to that the fact that he actually left me; he didn't feel the need for me ... (read in full...)
He said he really likes me and then turns around and says he has a personal demon...what happened?
Q. I was seeing this guy for a few months and he just broke up with me. We known each another for 3yrs but only been seein each since sept. Now we have always been flirty and he always came on to me. The last time we hangout which was last wed ...
A. 5 March 2008: It sounds as if maybe he has problems either at home/work/other relationships which he needs to deal with before he commits to you. I'd hold on and see what he says before jumping to conclusions. It may be nothing, think of it this way, and put it ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want a baby why is he refusing to wear a condom?
Q. im 14 in 2 weeks. me and my boyfriend have had sex nprotecte so many times . im beginning to think he wants me to have a baby as he wont use a condom. i want a baby but when i mension the thought of having one he turns around and ingores me. ...
A. 5 March 2008: Firstly, it is a very bad idea to have unprotected sex, you really shouldn't want to get prgnant at such a young age. Do you really think you can suppor t a child before you have even finished school? He probably doesn't want to use one becuase men ... (read in full...)
I like her but I don't know what to say to her.
Q. i like this girl when im round hir i dont now what to say to hir? she is 14 in december im 15 in march do you think i am the wrong age for hir? im not very good at making Conversation and no to sure what to talk about ? im not to sure how to ask ...
A. 5 March 2008: You are not the wrong age, you are barely a year apart, there is no need to worry about that, at your age people go out with people up to two years below them, its not in any way wrong. If conversation is awkward with her, you just need to act ... (read in full...)
Should I chicken out and not see this guy this weekend?
Q. OK so another guy problem. I like this guy but he is one of my brothers best friends. My brother knows and so does my BFF brother and he said he is going to tell him. But I am worried he will make fun of me really bad this weekend when i see him. ...
A. 5 March 2008: Its better to regret something yyou've done than live in doubt. Stay strong, don't avoid things or you will make them more awkward, if you still see him you show solidarity, it takes courage, and I hope you will see him. If he is a good guy he will ... (read in full...)
I don't know what's up with him. What if he calls me this week, what should I say?
Q. My boyfriend of over 2 years decided over a month ago out of the blue that he wanted space. I gave that to him.. I was devastated so headed back to my home country for a month to recover. During that time he would text and email and call ...
A. 5 March 2008: I have been in a very similar situation before, and so have people close to me. Quite often it can simply be about the guy being overwhelmed by a sence of commitment, and needing space to get a perspective of life, this is just a suggestion but it ... (read in full...)
Love of my life might have to leave.
Q. Hi everyone I really need some advice, I am nearly 19 my girlfriend is 20 we both live in the UK. I am part of the EU but she is here under a student visa from Peru, we have been going out for 5 months now and they have been the best we have ever ...
A. 5 March 2008: It really does seem like you live this girl, I do not doubt that, but do you really think you are ready to get married at such a young age? To be honest, you have three years left together, and you don't know what might happen in that time. Thats ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my girlfriend and my best friend...
Q. Hey, i gots a problem i'm really torn between my GF and my best friend thats a girl. My GF i really care about and would hate to hurt her, we have been going out for a month and have't gone further than making out she's 17, i'm 15. My other friend, ...
A. 25 February 2008: just by the way you asked the question, it is obvious you don't feel much for the girl you're currently with. Could it be that you got together with her because you were slightly jealous of the fact your friend got together with her boyfriend? It is ... (read in full...)
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