Does he want me back? I still love him. Should I continue with no contact?
Q. My ex decided to ask for space out of the blue in Jan. I was devastated and went back home to NZ for a month. During that time he would keep in regular contact with me. This led me to believe that there was still hope that he wanted to resume things ...
A. 20 April 2008: I am moving back home to New Zealand for other reasons...for one thing i'm finding it hard to find a job int he UK due to my visa. At the time my ex knew that.
So i guess i should just forget about him? Ignore his contact? Never tell him that I'm... (read in full...)
Does he want me back? I still love him. Should I continue with no contact?
Q. My ex decided to ask for space out of the blue in Jan. I was devastated and went back home to NZ for a month. During that time he would keep in regular contact with me. This led me to believe that there was still hope that he wanted to resume things ...
A. 20 April 2008: What led to the break up apparently was that he was unhappy with everything..his job and his flatting situation. He said that he felt like he had to look after me ( but i don't need looking after as I have said to him and that I didn't expect him to ... (read in full...)
I sometimes regret breaking up with my ex and think that maybe I have lost my true love
Q. I was once engaged about seven years ago to wonderful handsome man who treated me like a princess. I broke off the engagment as I feel that i wasan't ready for marriage and I didn't feel that I loved him. After we broke up I found out that my ex ...
A. 20 April 2008: In this case I would say move on..he cheated on you while you two were still together so it was a good thing that you broke it off when you did. He wasn't your true love. And besides he is married with this girl that he cheated on you with.
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How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 11 April 2008: Ok so after he sent me birthday text i sent him a text the next day to say thank you. He sends me email about him helping me out with job hunt and asks for my cv. So i send to him and then receive email from his work HR dept.
I sent him an email... (read in full...)
How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 8 April 2008: Im crazy for thinking this but i still want him back :*(
He hasn't bothered to contact me anymore after that phone call the other time he hasn't bothered. It kills me on the inside.
I just want him back. I have considered the relationship as ... (read in full...)
How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 7 April 2008: Still feeling like crap...trying to get out of the house today by meeting with a friend whom i haven't seen for many years and is now living in London. Small world eh?
Anyway..i ended up sending a text to him to say thank you for the birthday... (read in full...)
How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 5 April 2008: thanks
I had a moment of weakness yesterday and contacted him on msn. Saw that he was online...he was suprised and shocked to see me online anyway he was hostile to me so i just said i had to go and so he accused me of being a b***h to him. I w... (read in full...)
A broken heart never really heals.
Q. She lay on the living room floor with a glass of wine in one hand the bottle in the other love songs sang out of the stereo and tears slowly fell from her eyes everybody she knew seemed to be set on hurting her. Her heart was broken and there wa...
A. 2 April 2008: true...i am going through one right now. And its true that broken heart doesn'theal. I am still trying to get over the break up. I think will end up like that woman you describe...i see myself getting all guarded with my heart now..not allowing ... (read in full...)
How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 2 April 2008: ok after not hearing from him since that email i got an emailfrom him this morning. it was all very formal..asking for my cv so he can forward to people for a job. What should I do? The thing is I am looking but then again why is he helpingnow when ... (read in full...)
How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.
Q. Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...
A. 2 April 2008: i feel so tempted to call him or contact him to ask if hesmet someone else. its so hard right now..im tempted to upsticks and head back home to New Zealand. I just feel like running away from it all. Everywhere i go reminds me of him.
How d... (read in full...)
Do you exes ever try to contact you when you ask for no contact?
Q. Ok well...i phoned up my ex after he initiated contact with me a week ago. At first things were ok. But then it got worse and i pretty much pleaded with him to give it another try and he gave the same excuses again and i kept asking for it for the ...
A. 30 March 2008: I am going totally crazy on the inside..i can't think straight right now. I wish he would suffer but i know hes already ahead of the getting over the break up curve.... (read in full...)
Do you exes ever try to contact you when you ask for no contact?
Q. Ok well...i phoned up my ex after he initiated contact with me a week ago. At first things were ok. But then it got worse and i pretty much pleaded with him to give it another try and he gave the same excuses again and i kept asking for it for the ...
A. 30 March 2008: so i have pretty much ruined everything right?... (read in full...)
Do you exes ever try to contact you when you ask for no contact?
Q. Ok well...i phoned up my ex after he initiated contact with me a week ago. At first things were ok. But then it got worse and i pretty much pleaded with him to give it another try and he gave the same excuses again and i kept asking for it for the ...
A. 30 March 2008: the email i sent him was this Dear (name) I phoned you up yesterday and asked for another chance to work things out.All I can say is that I tried my best and you rejected my efforts.You have already had a head start in the grieving process an... (read in full...)
Do you exes ever try to contact you when you ask for no contact?
Q. Ok well...i phoned up my ex after he initiated contact with me a week ago. At first things were ok. But then it got worse and i pretty much pleaded with him to give it another try and he gave the same excuses again and i kept asking for it for the ...
A. 30 March 2008: well i just sent him an email saying i tried my best and that he rejected my offer and that i was getting on with it.
he doesnt want it...i have to accept that fact...its been dragging on for three months now.... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex to tell him I want us to remain friends?...
Q. My bf broke up with me 1 week ago and he said he really wanted to stay friends. He said he still liked me a lot but we just arent 'meant to be'. I guess it's true because we both wanted different things out of a relationship so it wasn't really ...
A. 30 March 2008: i know how you're feeling...to be honest you can't be friends with him because you will always be hoping that there will be a chance that you two will get back together again. And how would you cope when he tells you that hes found another girl? ... (read in full...)
Why does he still contact me?
Q. Ok...ex bf dumped after 2+yrs together saying he wanted space and wasn't sure whether he loved me as gf or a friend. Gave him space then few weeks ago said he doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to be friends with me. I never bothered to ...
A. 29 March 2008: well i did the most stupidset thing and called him up. at first it went well then it kind of went downhill from there. I was pretty much asking him for another chance to make it work but he refused and i kept persisting but he wouldn't budge. In the ... (read in full...)
Why does he still contact me?
Q. Ok...ex bf dumped after 2+yrs together saying he wanted space and wasn't sure whether he loved me as gf or a friend. Gave him space then few weeks ago said he doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to be friends with me. I never bothered to ...
A. 29 March 2008: Well since the voicemail he left on late tuesday evening I haven't heard anything else from him. The thing is I do want him back but don't know how to go about it. :(... (read in full...)
Why does he still contact me?
Q. Ok...ex bf dumped after 2+yrs together saying he wanted space and wasn't sure whether he loved me as gf or a friend. Gave him space then few weeks ago said he doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to be friends with me. I never bothered to ...
A. 28 March 2008: I still love him..so it hurts so much. He says that he loves me but not sure as a gf or a friend. Anyway he says he is confused.
In his last voicemail it sounded like hes resigned to the fact that I'm ignoring him and it was final because he said ... (read in full...)
Why does he still contact me?
Q. Ok...ex bf dumped after 2+yrs together saying he wanted space and wasn't sure whether he loved me as gf or a friend. Gave him space then few weeks ago said he doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to be friends with me. I never bothered to ...
A. 28 March 2008: I'm in a state of confusion right now...i know that its over. But the contact thing just confuses me even more. Its like every time he contacts me which i have ignored so far he always wants me to contact him or if i don't to email him. He got ... (read in full...)
He told me its over... I need help to get over it.
Q. ex bf of over 2 years decided to break it off with me saying that he still loves but not sure as a gf or a friend (chicken way of telling me its over) and that he would like to be friends with me and that maybe we can be together in the future. I ...
A. 25 March 2008: i sent him an ecard in the end..wishing him a happy birthday and have a great day then ended it with a comment of the card is funny in a weird way.
He replied to me straight away pretty much. Just said thank you (but used petname he used to call ... (read in full...)
He told me its over... I need help to get over it.
Q. ex bf of over 2 years decided to break it off with me saying that he still loves but not sure as a gf or a friend (chicken way of telling me its over) and that he would like to be friends with me and that maybe we can be together in the future. I ...
A. 25 March 2008: i sent him an ecard wishing him a happy birthday andhave a great day. the replied back. I didn't check my email if he replied or not and sent him a text saying in case he didnt get my ecard that i wished him a happy birthday. he replied to that text ... (read in full...)
He told me its over... I need help to get over it.
Q. ex bf of over 2 years decided to break it off with me saying that he still loves but not sure as a gf or a friend (chicken way of telling me its over) and that he would like to be friends with me and that maybe we can be together in the future. I ...
A. 23 March 2008: yeah i guess i will just send an email to him just saying that and thats it. I don't want to answer his questions about how i am and what i've been doing. I don't know why he still contacts me like every week now. I guess he still wants reassurance ... (read in full...)
He told me its over... I need help to get over it.
Q. ex bf of over 2 years decided to break it off with me saying that he still loves but not sure as a gf or a friend (chicken way of telling me its over) and that he would like to be friends with me and that maybe we can be together in the future. I ...
A. 22 March 2008: anyway..just as i was feeling awful yesterday i checked my email account and saw that he sent me an email. He was just asking how i was and wishing me a happy easter then going on about his situaton and how change was slow.the annoying thing was ... (read in full...)
He told me its over... I need help to get over it.
Q. ex bf of over 2 years decided to break it off with me saying that he still loves but not sure as a gf or a friend (chicken way of telling me its over) and that he would like to be friends with me and that maybe we can be together in the future. I ...
A. 19 March 2008: I keep thinking about it when i have my moments..when its time to go to bed or in the mornings. Its such a hard feeling to get rid of. He hasn't contacted me at all since that phone call last Thursday. I guess it really is over...my mind a... (read in full...)
He told me its over... I need help to get over it.
Q. ex bf of over 2 years decided to break it off with me saying that he still loves but not sure as a gf or a friend (chicken way of telling me its over) and that he would like to be friends with me and that maybe we can be together in the future. I ...
A. 18 March 2008: Ok after that evening where i regretfully asked to meet up with him. I left him alone...no contact what so ever. Then last tuesday he texted me along the lines of "are you ok? hope you are feeling better...I don't like to see you cry!". I ignored it ... (read in full...)
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