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writes:My boyfriend and I are on again off again. When wer'e off he is always going back to his ex. He says he wants only me yet there are little signs that say otherwise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): What causes these on and off periods? Do you blame him for the problem. Apparently he goes to another women that he has some emotional connection with. Don't know how close they are, but either mental intimacy or if she is single, physical intimacy could be what he is getting to fill a void. I think men do this more then women, but both can as well.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Hi there,
I can only think you have very little self confidence. Why else would you keep taking him back? He is leaving you and have sex with another woman, how can you let him play with your emotions like this? Tell him that it better work out with his ex as he has no place in your heart anymore.
There are men out there who believe in monogamy, keep trying.
good luck
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reader, mightyhawk  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 I fhe is always going back to his ex, why do you keep taking him back afterwards? That should immediately need tackling, otherwise he will just walk all over you, feeling that he can go to whoever he want when he is 'off' with you, its hard to know the full extent of the situation when you say so little, but maybe you should have a serious discussion about its either forever or never so to speak.
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