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*utie0712
writes:OK so another guy problem. I like this guy but he is one of my brothers best friends. My brother knows and so does my BFF brother and he said he is going to tell him. But I am worried he will make fun of me really bad this weekend when i see him. should i chicken out and not see him this weekend?
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reader, Kawika +, writes (13 March 2008):
 I'm sorry that it turned out the way it did, but you should be proud of yourself for meeting your fears. Although the outcome may not have been what you expected look at how much answers you unfolded. To me...You are a very special person thinking of him before your own pain. Don't ever lose that. Obviously, he is probably going through the same heartache as you are. Maybe you can use that in a way to comfort him. Sometimes, just the thoughtfulness as caring can open hearts and eyes. If you like him, be a special friend to him. You never know what may happen. Take care.
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reader, kutie0712 +, writes (13 March 2008):
kutie0712 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, going on that trip made my self confidence go down to the bottom of the ocean. he likes my best friend alot. it hurt me really bad. but it hurts me so see him sad because my friend likes his friend. i dont know whether to be friendly with him to make him feel better or to just deal with it. SOMEONE HELP ME
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reader, kutie0712 +, writes (13 March 2008):
kutie0712 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, going on that trip made my self confidence go down to the bottom of the ocean. he likes my best friend alot. it hurt me really bad. but it hurts me so see him sad because my friend likes his friend. i dont know whether to be friendly with him to make him feel better or to just deal with it. SOMEONE HELP ME
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reader, mightyhawk  +, writes (5 March 2008):
 Its better to regret something yyou've done than live in doubt. Stay strong, don't avoid things or you will make them more awkward, if you still see him you show solidarity, it takes courage, and I hope you will see him. If he is a good guy he will not humour you.
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reader, Kawika +, writes (5 March 2008):
Fear of the unknown is expected, but try not to let it consume you. You never know what may happen. The problem with a lot of people these days is that they don't give things a fighting chance. They assume the worst and they end up giving up and falling short. Make it a habit to live above your fears even if the possibilities may result of a being hurt. The main thing is that you tried. The worst thing you can ever do in life is to fail without even trying. I hope this helps...
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