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How to express my feelings and needs without seeming I am pressuring her?

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Question - (28 March 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ervousSexDude writes:

OK so, i've been dating this wonderful girl for 3 months now. I want to tell her that im ready for something more than just kissing (if you know what i mean(not sex btw)) but i don't want to make it seem like im pressuring her. I just feel she may be thinking the same thing.

Im also a bit nervous that if i tell her these things she'll dump me for pressurising her.

What are your thoughts?

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A female reader, mightyhawk United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2008):

mightyhawk agony auntif you have a good enough relationship then you should be able to talk to her about anything.. i know that is alot to ask at your age, but going further than kissing is a big step, and so you should feel comfortable completely before rushing into something more serious. Just talk to her, but if you cant maybe it's no the best idea. Don't be embarassed about the urges you have, they are only natural. Good luck :) x

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