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How do I deal with my controlling mom...at my age?
Q. Hi,I'm a 33 year old female and I'm at my wits end with my controlling mother!! I never seem do do anything right no matter how hard I try and basically my life should revolve around her. Growing up I spent a lot of time with my time with my mum...
A. 2 November 2007: She does sound very dificult and it may take a long time to get through to her. Try using I statements. For example, Mom, I understand what you are saying, but I feel this way when you do this, and I would appreciate it if you did this instead. Keep ... (read in full...)
His family doesn't approve of me--have I lost him forever?
Q. I need some help.... I am an asian girl who is 27 and parents are wanting me to get married. 27 is deemed as old and potentially off the shelf material if you dont find a guy soon. I registered on the asian dating website and started speaking...
A. 21 June 2007:
Don't panic. Family has a lot of influence when it comes to situations like these. Back off him for a little bit and he will call you and let you know what is going on. I understand that there are cultural differences, but if this guy doesn't come... (read in full...)
My boyfriend found out he had Chlamydia and I also had to get treated for it.
Q. Hello, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. There is quite a big age gap between us and last year sometime he found out he had clymidiea and i also had to get treated for it. I myself havent cheated on him but that got me thinking has ...
A. 21 June 2007: He cheated on you. There's no way you can get diseases like that unless you're having sex. Stop being naive - he is manipulating you into believing that he has done nothing wrong. These are only sexually transmitted diseases. ... (read in full...)
I fancy my aunt like mad, even although she's married. Should I try anything on with her?
Q. i have an aunt and she is good looking. she is actaully my step aunt if you will. she has been married to my uncle for about 10 years now. she has now starting to feel comfortable around the family. she is starting to wear clothes that show off her ...
A. 2 June 2007: I think this question has got to be a joke. Either that, or there may be something psychologically wrong with you. Please try to take this site a little more seriously. ... (read in full...)
I fancy my aunt like mad, even although she's married. Should I try anything on with her?
Q. i have an aunt and she is good looking. she is actaully my step aunt if you will. she has been married to my uncle for about 10 years now. she has now starting to feel comfortable around the family. she is starting to wear clothes that show off her ...
A. 2 June 2007: Umm NO!!! Here are some reasons:
-She's married
-She's family (I don't care if she's your 'step' aunt. It is still wrong)
-It's disrespectful to think of her like that - this is not love - this is lust
-It is disrespectful to you, your UNCLE a... (read in full...)
Does anyone know how much a pregnancy blood test costs?
Q. hi i was just wondering if anybody knows how much a pregnancy blood test costs? please let me know asap...
A. 24 May 2007:
The test may fail to detect human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) even when a woman is pregnant if the test is done too early. It takes at least 7 days after fertilization for the test to become positive. In most cases, by the time a woman has... (read in full...)
I'm 6 months pregnant, we are in couples therapy but he is still sleeping with someone else! How do I walk away?
Q. I'm having a difficult time walking away from someone and I need to. I am six months pregnant and really love this man, but he is sleeping with someone else and he can't make a decision. We have been in a relationship for over 3 years and were pla...
A. 12 May 2007: Thanks everyone for the answers... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over my Ex even after 20 years?
Q. Why can't I get over my Ex even after 20 years ? 20 years I met this wonderfull girl. We went out with each other for 2 years. She was my "soul mate". I was 16 and she was nearly 15 when her parents caught us having sex. We were forced to split ...
A. 12 May 2007: I could not imagine how much this must hurt. Try to think of this as a fantasy. Try to use that love you have for her, for your wife, because I'm sure she deserves it. You married your wife and she married her husband and for you to contact her ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because his ex threatened that he couldn't see his kids, if he kept seeing me! What should I do?
Q. i am a female of 24 and was till just a couple of days ago in a relationship with someone who has children from a previous relationship. he has ended things cos he ex keeps causing trouble and threating that he wont see his boys no more if he ...
A. 12 May 2007: Okay, you have no idea what he may be saying to her. He may be telling her that he still loves her and leading her to believe that he thinks that they can eventually work things out. There are children involved. If you do not have them, there's no ... (read in full...)
She said all we had going for us was the sex! We broke up but are trying again but shes so cold and distant, what should I do to make it work ?
Q. Hi my girlfriend and I split up about 6 weeks ago after 3 1/2 years together. The major reason for our break up was probably because we didn't see enough of each other due to work. We didn't contact each other really for a month but Over the past ...
A. 12 May 2007: She loves or cares about you, but is most likely into someone else, or wants to be flattered by someone else. She has younger female friends, whom are probably single and they party. She joins them and most likely has decided she would prefer this ... (read in full...)
Am I totally stupid thinking there is hope for us?
Q. My partner recently had a bit of a fling - (about 6 months ago) but wont talk about it except it is over and he wants to be with me. He has been and is working away alot and I have been feeling insecure. I have rung his cell phone quite alot...
A. 12 May 2007: Don't hang on to too much hope here. He's selfish. Do your own thing right now. Live your life for you and if he comes around, he will come around. Leave it be for now. I'm in the same situation basically - 6 1/2 mo. pregnant and the father of the ... (read in full...)
He keeps making excuses that he can't see me. Does he really like me or is it all an act?
Q. I am going out with this boy who I really like !! But Sometimes I get the impression he doesnt like me that much :( because he uses a lot of excuses that he cant come and see me, like for example he sent a text saying " Ive been feeling really i...
A. 12 May 2007: He's a player. He probably has something else going on the side and is going to play the excuse that he's confused, if you do ever figure it out. Yes, I'm sure he likes you, but I get the impression that he's telling you what you want to hear just ... (read in full...)
He tells me he wants me and stuff but does he or is he just using me for sex?
Q. well im 15 and hes 30 i really like him i feel like im in love with him and i dont know what to do he tells me he wants me and stuff but i feel used just for sex and im really unsure what to do... because i like him and dont no what to do, he has ...
A. 12 May 2007: He's a pedifile. Stay away from him, tell your parents and get a restraining order!!!! Are you sure you aren't pregnant? Go buy a test and go see a doctor. I hope you have used condoms, this guy is a dirtbag. Not only is a 15 year gap too much, but ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he really is going to leave her for me...?
Q. I am involved with a married man who claims he is leaving his wife. He has told other people this as well (friends, family). We spend a good bit of time together (3-4 nights a week) and talk on the phone a lot. This was only supposed to be about ...
A. 12 May 2007: You made a mistake. You should never have gotten involved with a man who is in a relationship, let alone married. This is unethical and what makes you think that he wouldn't do this to you once he grows tired of you? I would not condone this type of ... (read in full...)
We will be getting married in Aug. but we have a slight problem he continues to converse with his ex!!!
Q. What do you think i should do? We have been together for 3 1/2 yrs. We will be getting married in Aug. but we have a slight problem he continues to converse with his ex. Should we be getting married?...
A. 12 May 2007: I agree with the other answers, but would like to add a few comments. If you feel threatened by the type of relationship that they have, then you need to discuss this with him. If you don't feel like you could trust him, then you should not marry ... (read in full...)
How can I win his heart though he is with someone else?
Q. i am starting to really like this man, but he has a girlfriend. he says there's nothing there, but he is afraid to make her go because she has no where to go. but he won't make our dating experience known to her. but everyone in my family knows and ...
A. 10 May 2007: What is up with all these women butting into a relationship? You need to find someone who is single. What if the roles were reversed? What if your man was the one cheating on you with another woman? Women need to stick together. This men is selfish ... (read in full...)
She can take four fingers so am I satisfying her with my penis when we have sex?
Q. My gf and I have been together for 3 years. last night while we were fooling around, i added a finger...then another one...and another one. I'm under the impression that not alot of girls can take 4, so i have to wonder if im satisfying her during ...
A. 4 May 2007: It does not matter the size of the penis. In fact the g spot is less the two inches from the opening of the vagina. You have to remember, a woman's vagina can stretch enough for a baby to come out, four fingers is nothing. By the way, men seem to ... (read in full...)
have never orgasmed before. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I really love when my boyfriend fingers me, and performs oral sex on me. For some reason, I have never orgasmed before. Is there something wrong with me? How do I achieve orgasm?...
A. 2 May 2007: You don't know your body well enough. Before anyone else is intimate with you, you need to understand your own self. To be blunt - masterbate. This is the only way you will be able to know how to orgasm. Once you understand this, then you show the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with two people...
Q. Help, I think that I'm in love with two people. I'm a 23 year old single mom. I first got involved with this 33 year old who now wants to marry me after a very abusive relationship with my child's father. He has a great job and everything going for ...
A. 2 May 2007: I need to start off by saying that when you first meet someone and you feel that instant connection, that's great. However, please do not mistake this for love, this is lust. The butterflies that you feel, the attraction that you feel is merely ... (read in full...)
She told me she wasnt in love me and left, denied having someone else when in truth she has a toyboy!!
Q. i have recently split up with my wife and was just wanting to sound off about it. been with her for 16 years and married for 11 years, we have 3 kids the oldest at 10. i have given her everything shes wanted during our relationship, then she drops ...
A. 28 April 2007: The two of you were quite young when you met. Maybe she felt as though she missed out on the dating life and this is her way of testing the waters per se. I know how badly this hurts. I too have had this happen and I've come to realize that it is ... (read in full...)
I am in love with some one and he has a girl friend but I cant stop thinking about him it feels horrible how can I stop feeling like this?
Q. I am in love with some one and he has a girl friend but I cant stop thinking about him it feels horrible how can I stop feeling like this?...
A. 9 April 2007: I agree with the other answer that you should enjoy your childhood. One rule to always follow - do not ever try to take someone else's boyfriend - do not make it known that you have a crush on him. Remember what comes around goes around, you ... (read in full...)
I wasn't invited to Easter dinner w/ my bf's family! Am I wrong to be a bit upset?
Q. After spending much time together this weekend, my bf went off to a big Easter gathering with his family, and some non-family members. I never got an invitation, and it felt like a knife to the heart. It hasn't been the Easter I hoped for! My ...
A. 9 April 2007: I know that my family is very difficult and very judging when it comes to the people in my life. Your boyfriend may not know exactly how to approach the situation. If his family is traditional/religious, they might think that it is inappropriate to ... (read in full...)
He fell asleep when I was performing oral sex! This bugs me-how do I handle this?
Q. Have you ever been with a man that fell asleep with you when you were performing oral sex? He was erect, all was well, had showed much enjoyment then all of a sudden I heard him lightly snoring. I did not know what to do, it had never happened to ...
A. 9 April 2007: I'm sorry this is a little funny to me. I know how you feel though, because I have had this happen before as well and I agree that it is irritating. When oral sex is performed on a man, it relaxes them - especially if they are really enjoying it. ... (read in full...)
Do I bring it forward and come clean about what I have done? Should I just say nothing?
Q. I have known this girl since we were in the first grade. Our families are very close. She was my best friend when we were younger and though we have gone our separate ways and have not been real friends in a long time, I think so much of her and ...
A. 8 April 2007: Be honest with her and let her know what you took into your own hands. she will be upset with you, but will more than likely understand eventually. The love you have for her is not the same as what you have for your girlfriend. You have known this ... (read in full...)
He says he wants "life experience" yet regrets breaking up with me!
Q. I started dating this guy three years ago. He was much more into the relationship than I - the first one to say the "L" word, first one to suggest we move in together. Six months into living together, he tells me that he's not ready for a perm...
A. 7 April 2007: Wow, this sounds like the situation that I am in as well. I have no idea, why men think it's okay to treat women like these - but they do. What I have come up with within the last few days to try and make sense of my situation is that - we as woman ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but the other women is still around!
Q. My boyfriend of three years and I decided in November that we wanted a child. It was discussed and agreed that we would get married and most definitely if I were to get pregnant. I conceived almost immediately and a month later, I began to feel a ...
A. 7 April 2007: Just to clafify a couple of things, so people know a little about me - together we make a substantial about of money and therefore finances were not a problem when we made the decision to have the child. I have one class left towards my MBA and he ... (read in full...)
We have decided to use condoms for our first time, but would it be a good idea to get the morning after pill aswell?
Q. me and my boy friend are discussing having sex for the first time and i feel fine about it, to be honest i'm quite excited and we're going to use condoms but i was just thinking that i deffinetly don't want to get pregnant or anything i would just ...
A. 7 April 2007: Think long and hard about this one honey. I waited until I was 18 and I wish I had waited longer. Once you start having sex with a boy, things change with the relationship. He is a teenager and he will want to have sex more often once you've already ... (read in full...)
She just suddenly left me for someone else after 7 yrs, what should I do with all her stuff ?
Q. My girlfriend of 7yrs has walked out,offering no explanation and is seeing somebody she works with. I have tried to contact her,without stalking or phoning her all the time but she will not respond. I have to accept that the relationship has...
A. 7 April 2007: She sounds like she is confused herself. I'm sure there is more to the story and I can only assume that she was just fed up. I don't know if you spoke of marriage, but maybe she felt as if your relationship was at a stand still and she wanted more? ... (read in full...)
I know I'm probably taking my feelings for her out on my friend, but I am really upset.
Q. My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for a little over a year now. While I still have strong feelings for her and would love to get back together with her (she was the one who broke up with me), I feel like I live a happy single life and am ...
A. 7 April 2007: Unfortunately you have come out on top, whether you see it now or not. These people were not good to have in your life and you are right in being angry and upset. These emtions don't make the situation any better, but just know now that your friend ... (read in full...)
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