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writes: should i date someone that is more better looking than me. could my insecurity cause the relationship Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Markingbad +, writes (27 October 2009):
Well i would have to go to the zoo to find a woman more ugly than me so i am forced to settle for good looking women. Ugly men just have to work a bit harder. They cant just rely on their good looks and some women appreciate that. I have never heard of a relatioship ending because one partner suddenly thought the other was ugly except maybe when they become grossly obese.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 October 2009):
You should date someone if you fancy them, want to get to know them and want them to love you. Believe me when I say this, when a man fancies you, he fancies you for who you are. So it's important that you feel confident about yourself, because it is true that your insecurity could harm the relationship. Guys like a woman who likes herself, is confident and can hold herself high. It makes her fascinating and well worth running aroung after. Guys are scared of women who put themselves down. Perhaps you should really focus on your own confidence at the moemnt, then worry about a boyfriend later? You'll stand a better chance of attracting a good guy, rather than one who would hurt you. As for dating a guy who is better looking. If he fancies you, he will fancy you for who you are! Good luck.
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