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writes:Do you believe in love at first sight,, well i did and it was with my ex who i was with for almost 2 and ahalf years. when we first got together i ended up moving in with him and his parents. moved out and ended up 8 months down the road i was pregnant and moved back in. We ended up having a son that is going to be three in april of next year we are no longer together. we were on and off in the beginning. My son was born april of 07 we had gotten together jan of 06. In dec. of 07 we were involved in an car accident and his parents hated me thinkin i was the reason he was drinkin and driving when honestly i was not drinking at all. Well things got worse after that we hung out but behind his parents back he ended up moving into my mothers home. I currently dont have my son because we signed over temp. custody nov. of 07 then i couldnt get him back because he had gotten us into the accident. Im currently trying to get him back but besides the point. In florida they have a thing called the baker act saying ur suicidal well when i had took him to gather some clothes at his mothers house they tried to say that he said he was going to shoot himself the cops came i told him them he didnt say that. Well ithink it was because his parents didnt want him to be with me because he came from money and i didnt. Well when that didnt work they said he was on drugs and sent him to rehab. HIs parents didnt tell me that they said they had sent him to live with his grandma for awhile.(in a couple of counties away) when he got out he wasnt aloud to talk to me or any of his friends for awhile. Just his older sisters friend and sense they have been dating. Once around halloween time last year he used to pick me up and we would hangout and he told me not to say anything to his parents so we would be able to hang out i drove his girlfriends car and all he told me that the only reason he was with her was because she was the only one he was aloud to hangout with. But at the same time we had our arguments and he would say ooo she is 22 and a virgin still she is gonna b a nurse and blah. but then apologize to me for it. We were both a supervised visits for my son due to the car accident, but he lives in the house and he was pickin me up and he would have our son yes his parents let him take him.. and i got mad bc around christmas time they wouldnt let my son come to a christmas party with my mother sister and brother. so i lost my temper not really my temper but i told them he had been pickin me up.. since that day i have not talked to him and miss him alot he lives in my neighborhood i have to deal with him eventually because we have a son but i feel that we didnt get to finish anything that we had because i think his new girlfriend now fiance used my son to get to him plus she was the only person he was aloud to hangout with. I just am always thinking about him.. And court is coming up soon so i know i will have to see him. I seen him the other day in the turning lane and he was directly behind us and when i looked at him i could just see and people know that look a person gets. And if he is saying things about me thru his girlfriends myspace and i havent talked to him in a year does that mean im on his mind to even if it is bad i dont know. I cant be with anyone else because i just dont want to be just always think about him even a year later but please give me some advice.
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reader, Markingbad  +, writes (28 October 2009):
 I would think you are on his mind. Though not in the way you would like to be. Try to do whats best for the child.
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