Do you need to be clever to be a doc?
Q. Do you need to be super nerdy to be a doctor?...
A. 27 August 2007: You will need to be educated through University/College.
At your age, try to boost your knowledge of medicine.
Make sure that you choose the correct Grade 10 - 12 electives so you are eligable for a University education.
You don't need to... (read in full...)
Our child passed away, he blamed himself, we've tried sorting our problems but he's txting someone else. Help..
Q. My boyfriend has moved out of our home and told me he needs his own space. I really need some advise. I been with my boyfriend for nearly seven years we've had two boys but our younger one passed away whilst in the care of my boyfriend he has ...
A. 27 August 2007: I will try not to seem frank, but there is only one thing you need to focus on; and you may have not even thought of it. Your Son. Through your chaotic relationship, it is likely that your son could have gone unnoticed. He is your priority! Yo... (read in full...)
Ive had a stalker in the past, now i'm getting songs sent to my phone, how can i stop this?
Q. I've in the past had a stalker and I'm slightly concerned as I am now constantly getting love songs sent to my phone on an anonymous call... Is there anything I can do without changing my number? ...
A. 27 August 2007: There are a number of ways to block incoming mobile numbers. Through Your network, or through your phone. PM me and I will try to help you. ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and want to ask out a 17 year old boy, is there anything wrong with this?
Q. I'm a 21 year old female and have a crush on a 17 year old boy. He acts very mature for his age and he has made it quite clear that he wants to hook up with me. Is there a problem with going for him?...
A. 27 August 2007: Morally yes, but in reality no. There is the double standard no-body cares about. Though most guys don't care anyway. I think the best way for you to be true to yourself, is to swap gender. Would it be ok if he were 21 and you 17? ... (read in full...)
Apparently i am a chauvanist! How do i correct that????
Q. I've recently had it brought to my attention that I'm a chauvanist... which I never thought I was... My question is, how the hell does one correct something so fundamentally core? I don't WANT to be one!!...
A. 27 August 2007: This is probably a bad place to ask such a question, because answers are likely to be 'one sided'; though I will try to provide alternate advice. What makes this person think you are a Chauvinist? There is nothing wrong with having an opi... (read in full...)
Do I need to be circumcised and could I be gay?
Q. ...hi, im 16 years old, and i was wondering...i am not circumcised, but when i get an erection my foreskin does not slide back over the head, and when i try to pull it back it hurts. is there anything wrong with my penis? do i need to be ...
A. 29 June 2007: Firstly, Circumcision isn't necessary.
Go see your GP and tell him your problem.
He will prescribe you a steriod-based cream.
Basically, you put on the cream and stretch the skin maybe twice a day, and it should grow enough so you can pull it ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be uncircumcised?
Q. I havent been circumsized. is this normal? I'm 15. kinda makes me think it is the problem why I don't hve confidence to have a gf. Help!...
A. 22 June 2007: Yes! It is very normal to be uncircumcised! Most men in the US are Circumcised, but the rate is decreasing. About 85% of the world is Uncircumcised. 55% of the US is Circumcised at present. The rest of the civilized world only circumcise 1... (read in full...)
When ever anyone has a problem i always have to butt in, know what happened and try and help. It nearly always makes the situation worse.
Q. When ever anyone has a problem i always have to butt in, know what happened and try and help. It nearly always makes the situation worse. I try not to but i can't help my self. What is wrong with me? how can i stop this? please help!...
A. 15 June 2007: It is human nature to help others.
But if you are doing more harm than good for someone, its best to let someone else (a professional) help them.
Here at Dearcupid, we try to help others the best way we can.
But our support should never... (read in full...)
Why does my mum blame me for EVERYTHING?
Q. My mum takes everything out on me. She blames me for everything like if the fridge has broken , she would say its all my fault and she says its my fault that Her blood pressure is high and also she says its my fault that she couldnt have a proper ...
A. 15 June 2007: You Poor Thing!
There is NOTHING wrong with you!!
Never let her convince you that it is your fault.
If she wants to start popping out kids young, then it is all HER PROBLEM not yours.
Do you have a friendly relative you can contact?
A... (read in full...)
What can these bumps on my penis be?
Q. hello i am a virgin and i am 13 years old. i have been noticing bumps on my penis. They are located on the sides mainly but a little on the side.They are the color of my skin.I cannot pop them. They are not so bad but my penis looks wierd. i think i ...
A. 15 June 2007: I understand you don't want to see the doctor, but in the end you will have to.
Even if your don't want to tell your parents, just visit your doctor yourself for advice.
Its good to be independant.
Was I right? Are they on the head of your pen... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago and ever since I've been pissing blood is this normal?
Q. erm I lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago and ever since I've been pissing blood is this normal? ...
A. 15 June 2007: Its a Urinary Tract Infection.
I had one.
Best to go to the doctor or Chemist and pick up some antibiotics now before its starts to get REALLY painful.
Also, best to get a test to see if you didn't get a STD.... (read in full...)
What can these bumps on my penis be?
Q. hello i am a virgin and i am 13 years old. i have been noticing bumps on my penis. They are located on the sides mainly but a little on the side.They are the color of my skin.I cannot pop them. They are not so bad but my penis looks wierd. i think i ...
A. 7 June 2007: Are they on the head of your penis, or on the skin?
If they are on the skin of your penis, you should go to the doctor and have them checked.
BUT, if they are on the head of your penis, it is entirely normal!
At the base of the head of the ... (read in full...)
Why is it that most (well nearly all) paedophiles are men?
Q. Why is it that most (well nearly all) paedophiles are men?...
A. 2 June 2007: I personally believe that it is determined by psychology.
It all depends on the upbringing.
If a boy’s father shows no love towards him, or instead his only love is sexual abuse; then when that boy becomes a man, he doesn’t know how to show feel... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I think I'm gay!
Q. im 14 know. And i think im gay. I like girls still. But i cant help but look at other boys when were in the gym showers. Its strange, because i want to be with girls, yet i want to 'do thing' with boys! help?...
A. 30 May 2007: PLEASE do not label yourself as Gay or Bisexual until you are past age 18!
You are young. It is very normal for a guy to have feelings for other guys.
Hell, I am 18, and am still confused about how I feel.
Don’t let anyone convince you tha... (read in full...)
I fancy my cousin, I have done since I was 12. Is this normal?
Q. I am really confused. Ever since I was 12 I started to fancy my cousin. Is this normal because it is starting to worry me. I can't help the way I feel about her. Please help!...
A. 30 May 2007: haha yeah, don't reveal it to family.
Keep it a deep secret and re-think it when you are older.
It's not illegal to have relationships with cousins, but there could be problems within the family if you choose to do so.
Good luck
... (read in full...)
How can I stop? I am TOTALLY addicted to porn!
Q. I am totally addicted to porn. I try not to think about it but when im on my own all I do is sit there and stare at my laptop until I get up and look at porn. It's getting annoying but I can't stop it. I don't think it porn is acceptable either but ...
A. 30 May 2007: I agree with the user below.
Porn isn't normal.
I got over it by trashing all porn from my hard drive, and pretty much masturbating once a night.
Don't throw away your porn mags, but put them in a box and store them away somewhere diffic... (read in full...)
This is really embarrassing, I keep itching down below its driving me mad
Q. Hi, This is really embarrassing, I keep itching down below its driving me mad...I have used all the thrush creams on the market but it still persits.....To my horror I went to the GUM clinic and was tested for loads of STD's even though I am marri...
A. 30 May 2007: I strongly think that it may be a Fungal Infection.
Itching, flaking and redness are signs of a fungal infection, or more commonly known as "jock-itch".
Treatment creams can cost no more than $10, and you can buy them at all drug stores.
... (read in full...)
When I masturbate it's absolute agony, can any of the agony uncles help here?
Q. Hi guys. I have an embarrassing question coming up and i'm hoping some of the guys may be able to help me out. A little while ago, I wasn't able to pull my foreskin over the head of my penis while erect, then after research I found out that s...
A. 29 May 2007: !!!VERY IMPORTANT!!!
Do not pull the foreskin back over the base of the penis if it is too tight! If it gets stuck, this is called Para-Phimosis, and can cut the blood supply!
You need to see a doctor.
It seems as if you have Phimosis (Tight... (read in full...)
Does he see me as quick sex or someone likeable?
Q. hey, i am 15 years old and i know that people say that it is to young to be in love but i am, i also know that however is reading this is having a good laugh but i don't care i just need to speak to someone. anyway i am in love he has sent me a text ...
A. 15 May 2007: He said no stings attached.
He just wants to shag you, nothing more.
He doens't like you, and he is not worth hanging around.
Don't do it.... (read in full...)
Would it be right for us to have a baby before the marriage?
Q. hi everyone i just need an advice from you guys, im with my bf for a year now then just recently he asked me for us to make a baby just to make sure that we could have one he's 30 and im 26, i told him that i wanted marriage first before anything ...
A. 14 May 2007: I personally think It doesnt matter.
If you have been together long enough and you know you can financially and morally raise a baby, then go for it.... (read in full...)
What can I do to get more satisfying results when I masturbate?
Q. i masturbate every few days. i dont seem satisfied with it. i remember once i spent an hour watchin porn and when i came it was heaven. i cant seem to get the same results. i'm 16. can i do somethin to get more satisfyin results?...
A. 14 May 2007: To have good masturbation, you need to get into the mood first. By watching porn for an hour, as you did, you were more sexually aroused and would have had a better orgasm.
I have been told that by massaging your prostate, orgasm feels better a... (read in full...)
I want my friend to accept my new style, but she calls me name. What can I tell her?
Q. I'm starting to turn into an emo. I have dyed my hair black and I really feel like one but My best mate that I have known for 8 years doesn't like them and she doesn't like what Ive become and I hang around with all the goths and emos now and She ...
A. 13 May 2007: She should respect your choice, but you need to understand that with change comes risk.
By isolating yourself from the rest of your group, you set yourself up for ridicule.
The emo culture exists for people looking for attention by looking diff... (read in full...)
I got a phone call off my son's high school yesterday and the content was worrying
Q. I'm a mother of two: my youngest son's 16, my oldest's 23. I got a phone call off my son's high school yesterday and the content was worrying. The teacher told me that my 16-year-old son has been suspended from school over allegations he rape...
A. 12 May 2007: Firstly, you need to let him know you are on his side. Denying that he was raped can seriously hurt him. You should never let male and female stereotypes determine a resolution. It seems as if his school has already done this. Do not let anyo... (read in full...)
I got a phone call off my son's high school yesterday and the content was worrying
Q. I'm a mother of two: my youngest son's 16, my oldest's 23. I got a phone call off my son's high school yesterday and the content was worrying. The teacher told me that my 16-year-old son has been suspended from school over allegations he rape...
A. 12 May 2007: Firstly, you need to let him know you are on his side.
Denying that he was raped can seriously hurt him.
You should never let male & female stereotypes determine a resolution.
It seems as if his school has already done this.
Do not let anyone... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I dont like boys my own age-I like younger boys and I get called a 'perv'...what should I do?
Q. I dont like boy my own Age , I just love 9/10/11/12 year old boys!! Im 13 but I dont like any Older boys or any my age. All The boyfriend I have have been younger than me and People keep calling me 'Perv' and 'Sicko' and Its getting Anoyying. I ...
A. 6 May 2007: Firstly, you are not sick!
I think it could be a comfort issue.
As you might know, most girls go for the older guys.
: and the older guys go for the younger girls.
I beleive the reason guys go for younger girls is because they are not com... (read in full...)
My father and brother humiliate and insult me each other and now..I am getting the same treatment. What can I do?
Q. I think my father and my brother are bisexuals / gays. They want to maintain some kind of emotional tie with me, though when i get close to them, they keep humiliating me and insulting me. Moreover, they kind of depend on each other for some kind of ...
A. 3 May 2007: They are immature and insecure about themselves.
If your father cannot maintain a close bond with you, then it could end up being very difficult for you to maintain close bonds with other guys.
Just being here and recognizing what is wrong, y... (read in full...)
In porn the guy's cum is pure white, but mine is kinda white but has a definite hint of yellow in it.
Q. In porn the guy's cum is pure white, but mine is kinda white but has a definite hint of yellow in it. Is this normal?...
A. 3 May 2007: Actually!
It could be a hint that you have a Urinary Tract Infection.
I think you should go to the doctor and tell him you think you might have a UTI.
You'll have to do a urine sample, and He'll give you antibiotics if you do.
If you ignore... (read in full...)
I've fallen for someone of the same sex, and I'm falling in love with him
Q. Hi guys, I've fallen for someone of the same sex, and I'm falling in love with him, he knows, but he's straight, and i like him that much... Someone.. please..... help me....
A. 3 May 2007: Hey man. I'm was going through the exact same problem as you.
Let me just say that if you think you are gay under the age of 18, don't be so sure.
I thought I was gay at your age. I am now 18, and starting to drift back to girls.
Sexuality is ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my best friends brother is gay, bi or straight ?
Q. I guess its not really a question, but just an issue. I really like a friend of mine, but I'm not sure if he's straight gay or bi. I don't want to ask him directly cause I value our friendship to much. He know's I'm gay. The other issue is he's my ...
A. 30 April 2007: Get closer to this guy as a friend first. If you just like him but have never talked to him, you could find he is plainly straight. If he is comfortable around you, then you are able to talk to him freely about how you feel. If he is comforta... (read in full...)
I have a small penis and I'm worried that my gf will laugh when we have sex!!
Q. i love my girlfriend very dearly and she loves me were young but old enough to have sex, i love her so much but afraid that if we go to have sex one night she might laugh or refuse to have sex because of my small penis what can u advise i do? since ...
A. 30 April 2007: Are you sure your penis is small? Many people exagerate the size of their penis to impress friends, so don't always take their word. I'll tell you my length for comparison if you want. PM me. Don't compare to porn movies, thats an obvio... (read in full...)
I have a very close female friend. it's her birthday in 3 days. We're 16. I dont have much money. Any idea what i could get her?
Q. I have a very close female friend. it's her birthday in 3 days. We're 16. I dont have much money. Any idea what i could get her? I got her lots of things at christmas and i'm worrying she might expect the same! plz help!!!...
A. 28 April 2007: If she is a good friend, she will understand your situation.
Buy her something she can consider sentimental, doesn't have to be expensive.... (read in full...)
I am afraid I will be rejected if I ask a boy how they feel about me!
Q. Im scared of rejection! I am really scared of rejection.. The thought of a boy saying to me that they dont find me attractive, really puts me off asking them how they feel about me, especially if i like them.. Anyone got any tips on how to ask in...
A. 20 April 2007: You don't have to ask if they find you attractive.
If you really think that he is that shallow, it is not worth a relationship.
Just talk to him about everyday things.
He'll see your interest in him, and things will pick up from there.
You'll f... (read in full...)
I dont like him hanging out with his friends, Is it because Im scared of him checking out other girls ?
Q. me and my bf has been going out for almost 11 months, but i still have problems with him hanging out with his friends. I know i'm beeing selfish, but i'm trying so hard to be ok about it. So everytime i hear about him hanging out with them i start ...
A. 20 April 2007: It may be hard to trust him, but giving your boyfriend trust builds on the relationship.
Just like you want your parents to trust you, he wants you to trust him.
If you want him to sacrifice his friends for you, you do the same for him.
It sh... (read in full...)
I need others in my life, someone I can depend on, how can I get this ?
Q. i feel so easily discarded by friends and i dont know why I keep getting left. I try very hard to make the people in my life feel important but when i need someone there is no one i can count on. Ive been trying to strengthen ties with some friends ...
A. 20 April 2007: Sometimes friends are not entirely necessary.
It is good to have close friends you can depend on, but your boyfriend should be all the company you need.
If you ever make a friend, make sure it is a person your boyfriend is comfortable ... (read in full...)
My wife is using the internet, but its to meet men I think! Im worried!!
Q. My wife of 6 months had been together for 2 years. About a week ago she had been making plans to visit a "friend" in Pensilvania and i know it was not going to remain innocent. I found out and she promised not to use the internet for such things. ...
A. 20 April 2007: She could just be making friends.
Talk to her about it. Don’t accuse her of anything.
Telling her your feelings and concerns would be much more effective than tracking down the person or harassing her.
... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that I think its her parents influence stopping us dating ?
Q. I am 25 years old and want to go out with a girl who is 18 in June. She likes me a lot, but she says she can't go out with me because I am too old for her; however, her parents are strict about her dating people my age, and I have a theory that the ...
A. 20 April 2007: It truly does sound like her parents influence, but don’t assume it.
It could well be her own choice.
If you can find the balls, go and talk with her parents.
If you can show them that you are mature and suitable for their daughter, you mi... (read in full...)
How do you get his attention?
Q. How do you get the attention of a lad that you really like and make him see that he may want a relationship with you????...
A. 20 April 2007: Firstly, Don’t wear revealing clothes as this can affect your image negatively, not just for him but the people around you.
Just see if you can talk to him. Talk about the things he likes; and if he is interested in talking, this is an indicati... (read in full...)
I feel that I like both men and women. How do I handle this?
Q. I have recently discovered that I am bisexual and have lately been having an urge to perform oral sex on other men. I know for a fact that none of my male friends are gay or bisexual and I don't know how to handle these desires, what should I do?...
A. 20 April 2007: Everyone here says to just rush in.
From experience, I personally think you should wait a while. Don't rush into gay clubs and such. You might not be gay.
Just do what you feel comfortable with.... (read in full...)
Just discovered my husband likes to cross dress!
Q. just found out my husband likes to cross dress, dont know what to think, still in shock. how can i begin to understand?....
A. 19 April 2007: As long as it doesn't affect your relationship, it shouldn't be much of a problem.
Some men just like to occasionally wear womens clothes. Its sort of a turn-on.
... (read in full...)
Im 14 and I have a wierd smell down below.... what could this be ?
Q. Okay. I Will Try Not To Write An Essay. I’ve Been With This Guy For Like 7 Months He’s Really Nice And I Love Him. But He’s Way Older Than Me, I’m Not Going To Tell You How Old He Is But He’s Way Older Than Me. Im 13 But I Told Him I’m 14; I Am 14 ...
A. 19 April 2007: I am a male, but I have heard that bad vaginal odour can be caused by infection or something.
I think there may be some kind of perfume you can use also.
Sorry, my knowledge on this topic is limited.... (read in full...)
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